strawgal

I also agree with the direction, but its starts on the page. It's as if they do not want to offend anyone, although they did have a divorced couple which was first for that age group I have seen, and the younger boyfriend dynamic.
The vast hole gap in the plot was he was her boss, which in most work places relations in the work place is frowned on, if not written about in the HR policy, and often you get moved out of the department,
I really want to understand how they makes these choices.

I can not fathom how the writers thought that bland safe 'drama' with no serious conflicts, with characters no personality beyond being like a bowl of cold congealed oat porridge make this drama worth this amount of episodes.
I just want to know the thought process, or do they really think that everyone who works in tec or in an office is mentally , and emotionally stunted.

I dropped after 10mins, you have almost made me think I missed the fun, but I think your post was probably more entertaining than the script. Well done for completing the mission so other did not have to.

Well that was a cliff I didn't think he was going to jump off, it puts all the formula revenge dramas to shame. If you are going to spread muck make sure it goes every where. Of course they could all have collective amnesia or this pretend they dreamt it.
I suppose it is one way perhaps for his family to get some hush money.
I lovely that they are all so self involved that when he says huh they think is agreeing with them, when he is marking their card.
I think Guan Yue is gives the best performance I have seen all year in any genre.

I keep dipping in and out just to see if it gets any better
There is a old film Brief Encounter t(1945)hat is very much of its time, where everyone speaks in very clipped in RP English accents, unless they of course the are not posh or aspiring to be. It is the source of many comedy skits, even though its classed as a great romantic film, that won a Cannes FF. This drama had so many stock characters and camera angles that it is ripe for comedy gold.

I am not sure if the director was thinking of 1940's weepy and a inspiration, Waterloo Bridge is another classic melodramatic romance drama, with two of the top movies stars of the day, This looks too modern , particularly the costumes,and hair, and not knowing enough to carry it off.

I have been thinking about this and I do not think he needs forgiveness. He has made a choice that improving most of the lives of many is more important than the comfort of himself and his lover, who must know about the issues to choses perhaps not to think to deeply about it. The meal was a symbol of that, class, money and culture against the reality outside. They are living in a bubble that they both know at some level will end, and they can not see over the edge of the horizon.
Phob I would expect that being on the 'right' side will be able to give his prince some protection, even if he doesn't accept it or is angry with him. He is taking that risk but its not a risk that benefits only himself, Tin gave him up to please his father, Phob forgave him because he understood the pressure and loved him, I hope Tin can see that the choice Phob made was basically a reasonable one.

We are watching it as a couple, and the main failing for me is I am not emotionally engaged with either of the main characters, and just about every character is in it for something,that are hiding which only leaves the crazy couple with any sort of personality you can actually engage with, there is shut down and depressed but usually they are not functioning at a high level. I would know what the direction notes where for the main couple, play it dead behind the eyes? I don't think they were ever in love, he was a controllable opportunity for her, hence her dissatisfaction in not having the poster perfect marriage and for him she was a stepping stone, s now trapped and the child would have been collateral damage eventually.

My husband is now bored, what ever dramatic tension or excitement has been lost in a muddle, and there is a string vest amount of holes in the plot.
I think they should have script readers if they haven't got them I know domestic drama tends to be longer, but long and stupid? Let hope AI did write this because they seem to have little understanding of how people behave, never mind plot development.
I have met many senior surgeons and doctors in my time and what they all have is a personalty, you may not like their personality but Dr House in some respects is not that far out. Even the affable ones have a mind like a steel trap.

We may leave to the end and just just watch the last episode. My greatest wish is the FIL makes an exit, now I could understand all his family wanting to get rid of him

Well I had to give it a ten.
I am old so I have watched a lot of film and drama, and perhaps because it is set in the past where school was important, but it didn't rule your life, and you had groups of friends that were constants, you squabbled and fell out, made up and were allowed to explore life what ever your sex in comparative safety, it is a comforting watch. Set in a time where you were out for hours and only came home when it was dark of it was time for a meal.

I was going to give it an 8.5, but the last episode IMO was exceptional. So many dramas fall down on the last ep wanting to tie things up neatly, especially in this genre, when life isn't like that. The last episode showed the reality of life in how you change and take on responsibilities in life, and being in a long term relationship means that sometimes not perfect is still perfect for you, and you have to allow for space for changes. It also showed how from the outside people perhaps have a view of a couple, when the couple have made an active choice in what suits them. They will still being squabbling about the same things thirty years later.

I was also impressed in how the parents are portrayed, because most parents want the best for their children, and sometimes life and worry can cause 'conflicts of interest', it's, what perhaps a late teen sees as control, pressure is still trying to guide them to a safe place. In drama it is too easy to make them the villain for a plot point, when they are doing the best that they can even if their child thinks they are an ogre.
In short it has great acting from a young cast, great script as a whole, and directed with care.
I suppose the only thing I could compare it to is the film Stand By Me, with the soft glow of the past, and friendship.

I like it, the title format made it look cheap, but the script and the actors they are using give it a quality feel.
I am just glad Ping gets to play another sort of character, not the cute puppy type and has a chance to do something different.

Watched as couple. This a formula that used be used a lot in the 60's and 70's, action drama with humour, films like Kelly's Hero's, in a domestic family drama setting, you have worked out most of the plot by ep1.
It complies to the cockroach rule, no matter how badly beaten they survive or at most an IV and a day in bed., and somehow they never shoot and seem to kill anyone, and you now they are bad because they must wear a black suit and be incompetent.
It was about two episodes too long and the last episode made no sense at all, but over all it was a entertaining, I bet there is a season 2.

Its a bit meh, yes another one.
It started off with a pretty good premise, but quickly descended in to rinse and repeat. The conflicts just feel manufactured but not even dramatic, just dialled down much that you think why bother.
Why does every FL have to be so reasonable and perfect, with a face so pale she could pass for a vampire.
I just wish they would tackle the real life problems like the Korean dating marriage market which could provide some grit and comedy, not two bland people who meet in an office.

I do not think the stats are manipulated I just think that WOF is aimed at a wider market, and is suitable for a younger audience and is easily understandable, and perhaps taps in to an older audience as well because of nostalgia. Its very well acted and the cinematography gives every thing a cosy glow. It portrays parents as real people with their own life problems without going for easy options.
This is more complex and relies on the audience that is willing to wait for something they know nothing about to develop slowly and there is perhaps more thinking to do about the themes. This very well made but unless you like the lead characters, on set bickering and politics has less mass appeal.

I actually feel sorry for the ML, he got a lot of stick for his look in POJ for his look, and in this he looks like a fashion model not someone who has been in prison for three years at a time when there was no mens make up and the main hair product was grease in a pot, and prison would have very grime.
These are not his choices he turns up and does his job, the choices are the producers and directors, and I would be asking why they made those choices.
In most historical drama costume and styling are not completely accurate, just look at Bridgeton, in the past clothes were expensive and often remade, even the clothes of even royalty were often recycled, but a lot of productions now make an effort with hair and make up.
I suppose it depends what you are looking for in a drama, if it's something that emerse you in a time and place while telling a story, or a story that just a plot that could be set anywhere with a modern aesthetic.
The whole plot of POJ pretty unlikely but the direction carried you in to the plot, IMO this direction and style is taking you out of the plot, like seeing ho w a magic trick works, and you can watch these tricks in any vertical.
No matter how popular it is on the back of the governments response to the POJ I think the lead actor unfortunately will get even more negative comments for things he had little say in.

This looks like a vertical, and is so over the top drama wise. Looks like they spent a lot of money on costumes and a look, I almost laughed at the army style coat at the beginning, a nod to his cat walk look? They spent time on a supposedly period look and then didn't bother with shoes and hair, but they do look good,which are so 21stC.
Everything looks so packaged for a look which you can perhaps get away with in fantasy, but not in a time period at least some people will know about.
It must be really annoy ing for the actors because it is really their reputation that gets in the viewers.The lead actress so far has got the worst of the bargain and so far her face has to be mainly blank, and not allowed to see he inner emotions. I know it’s a plot device for the big reveal but it;s boring to watch.

Liked the start, until about ep 15, and now I am bored wishing it just to be over. It is not the fault of the actors, they are trying with a script that is now stuck with little character progression in an emotional sense, so they are just saying lines to please the plot and plot is now just meh. At least it is not 38eps

I liked some of this a lot, the characters the ML's acting which was more nuanced, the colour grading but the plot what there was of it was episodic, and the script a bit like a 1960's French film where people talk a lot, pose a lot and little happens that you can remember.
All the other characters on this almost static road journey where just time fillers and most of what they said and did didn't add anything to the narrative, they were just there.
The main characters were interesting but watching two people bicker in an out a relationship like a stream of consciousness, needs a decent plot to hang it on. In food terms the plate looked lovely but it was half empty and not filling.
My favourite character,Ern the grumpy princess.

I think a lot has to do with changing work patterns for women. I managed to have a professional job and have children but the expectations of society are that women should be able everything especially is Asian societies, where as in UK at least most women will not put up with the in laws telling them how they should run their lives.
My mother and MIL never worked outside the home, their role was home and children, my grandmother had eight children and was exhausted by the time she was sixty and retired to her couch.
I have decided that you have to either have lots of money then you can buy in child care, or be so used to having little money that having children makes no difference to your lifestyle. The squeeze is the middle where people want a lifestyle with choice and maintain an image but can not afford it with children.

I used to work in a private school and we often got Asian students who had come with 'problems' most of the time once they settled in the problem disappeared, because there was just less stress about academic results and they could have a social life within the school.

I think I am lucky because my husband and I have the same attitude to life, we work together and are not in to buying new things. If people are judged by their cars we are definitely paupers.

This is far better than I thought it would be.

In the UK so we are used to drama introducing social issues through drama, from school age, it can still be entertaining with social realism.
As K and C drama is not my culture I have sought information about why certain story lines are repeated, and the marriage 'industry' in Korea and the obsession on status and money to form a basis of a relationship seems to be normal.
In Japan there are also fake couples who live together as house mates just to stop their parents from match making, which seems extreme.

I think when drama addresses something like MH or just general health it has a some responsibility to depict in a fairly realistic way.
When my daughter was admitted to hospital, she was about eight, she wasn't frightened because even children's drama depicts health settings in a realistic way.
I have worked in MH and I have had friends and family with MH issues and one of greatest barriers to treatment is the not seeking treatment because it seen as failure, that you can not cope
Korea has one of the highest suicide rates and death from alcoholic liver disease, in the world, because MH problems.
Drama has started to tackle bullying, and made it a talking point. This drama was just really lazy writing and lack research. It is perhaps of it's time.

TBH most of K and C drama is not realistic because in reality no one wants to get married, just to expensive emotionally and financially.