whoissilmoy

and the ex bf is still useless as ever

creepy lady

i feel like Zhang killed her

okay

I finally understand why grandma gave the hotel to MCH. She didn't really give it to her, after her conversation with YZM, YZM said you can let MCH oversee me to ensure that your hotel staff will remain working, it was then grandma changed her will to MCH. Grandma always intended her own grandson should be the sole heir, but it was after she learned of the project and then YZM made that comment about MCH overseeing him, she changed her will to MCH

Oh i get why she gave hotel to MCH.
She told YZM she had looked over the proposal and she was okay with it except that she is afraid they will change the staff, and everyone works at her hotel is family to her, they've been through the hard times with her, and her hotel is her home
"But I want to remind you Xing'anli is my home."
Then YZM said he would do everything to ensure that
Grandma said "Can I trust you?
YZM said you can ask MCH to oversee me.

Ah.. then grandma knew that MCH must own her hotel

basically, grandma sees MCH as just the guardian of her hotel to ensure that her people work at the hotel will be taken care of

even though grandma has an age-related heart illness, Zhang shocked her and triggered it.
if you are around old people, don't stress them out, be cheerful and positive

the house means nothing to grandma. she said too many bad things happened in that house. she gave it to YZM. it really does belong to him and no one else. it was the house that he probably grew up in too.

omg, this grandmother is so wise. I wished I met someone like her to advise me when I was younger.

when grandma mentioned her western style house to them, there was a look on YZM face
I wonder what his connection to the house is

I can't believe they talked about their home issues visiting grandma in the hospital.
like grandma needs more stress when she had heart failure

the ominous music when Zhang shows up at grandma means she is EVIL, even her smile is scary. at the end of ep 17, still hard to know who the real YZM is.

wow what a transformation. YZM is dressing down and puts fresh sunflowers on his desk and carefully sprays them. grandmother was right when she said to YZM that he's being influenced by MCH.

i know how everyone hates the mother, but her flawed character is crucial to this story imo.

YZM to MCH: "if you were thrown into a desert, you could also cheerfully grow cacti there, right?"

the mother is so bitter. she says to her husband "I've been taking care of you all my life"
so much misery has bottled inside her for decades
I really like to know what is wrong with her husband that he's so incapable
why did she have to abandon her son for 6 yrs so she can work?

I bet the Douban rating will be at least 7.5 with at least 25% 5 ratings. A 5 is equiv. to a 10.

i find the comments on mother really intriguing because although I don't like it, I never reacted to it, I just thought it's common

not everyone is like her but tbh, her way of thinking is actually quite characteristic of Chinese women.. I think so..

Grandma and grandson have similar charming mannerisms toward each other in scene 16 where he brings her sunflowers and MCH stayed the night at grandma.