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I do agree that she does need therapy but at the same time we have to consider that SA victims or people with trauma who already find it hard to open up to even their closest family or loved one will find it even harder to seek therapy because therapy requires them to talk about their traumatic experiences and past - talking about their scars is the last thing they'd want to do. It takes time and willingness. With how WYF's current situation is, she hasn't gotten to the fact where she considers this because she is still not in a ready state. Talking about going to therapy is easy, but for these people to actually do it...it's extremely hard.

I hope you copy paste/write it up here because this deserves to be put up here. Everything you wrote in there spoke my exact same sentiments. It's disheartening to see how people lack more understanding these days and choose to box themselves in perfection, gone are the days where flawless and complex characters especially female leads are appreciated and understood.

yes exactly 🩵

I have a twitter account and I have always considered twitter as the most toxic social media place to be but yes, the twitter users are indeed handling this better. They're also providing very insightful comments and analysis.

same here 🩵! the flashbacks were a nice addition.

I think this user is a troll 😂

doesn't make sense at all 😭

Exaclty. At this day and year, I can't believe we are still classifying maturity based on age. Just because you reach a certain age in adulthood doesn't mean you are already "mature". Maturity isn't simply gained just like that, it takes a lot, you gain maturity through your life experiences, life is not simple as black and white, it is very complex, and to downplay TRAUMA like that, how much ignorant can one be.

you're welcome 🩵...same here I don't want this drama to be over 😭

ikr the double standard 😭

- You Are My Glory ( a bit similar to TFF except this time it is FL who likes ML first during their high school days, then they meet again in their adult age)
- Love is Sweet
- Put Your Head On My Shoulder
- The Day of Becoming You (this one has body switching)
- Sweet Teeth

It's likely a promotional strategy for the drama, they made real weibo accounts for both Wen Yi Fan and Sang Yan's characters in this drama and every time an episode airs these accounts will be updating their weibo making it seem like they are "real". I have already completed translating all their posts since episode 1, you may check in that same link as well.

same 🥺😭

Sang Yan and Wen Yi Fan weibo update has been translated and uploaded in the link below ❄️🍃

It seems that diandian has been very attached to Sang Yan lately because she feels a great sense of safety around him too 🐈🤍

https://mydramalist.com/discussions/722171-first-frost/135414-sang-yan-wen-yi-fan-s-weibo-update-eng-trans?page=last&p=3276484#p3276484

are you even watching this drama, your comment evidently screams you don't.

So are you blaming her for not telling Sang Yan the truth yet? I think you should try putting yourself in her shoes, you need to understand what Yi Fan has been through is not something that can be brushed off that easily, yes Sang Yan is now there beside her it does change some things but not everything.

Her emotional scars from her SA experience are still there. She hasn't fully healed yet. For people who have never suffered trauma and are in their best mental state, this thing is a piece of cake but for someone like Yi Fan who suffers trauma, opening up is the hardest thing to do. It not only takes time, but it takes alot in them.

She doesn't deserve to be blamed just because she is not able to tell Sang Yan the truth yet, try to empathize with her. Yi Fan's case is different you can't compare it to everyone.

Episode 24 has not even been released yet we are only 23 episodes in, trailers don't have all the context to what will actually happen. If you watched the drama you'd understand.

same here, I am already experiencing post withdrawal symptoms 🤭

I agree, it's not an easy feat.

Her not telling him about her garbage uncle is not because she doesn't trust him. She clearly doesn't want to get him involve as something bad might happen to him. At the same time, as much as she does trust him there are some things that aren't easy to speak out to anyone, especially for someone like her who has been accustomed to keeping and dealing with everything on her own. Sometimes, people choose not to tell even their own blood related family certain things or bad things that happened to them not because they are being selfish or don't have trust, they have their own reasons but it's harder for people who suffers trauma.