Secret Relationships

I can't believe what I just watched, in the best way possible

I will say for unaware readers, this show is more on the psychological thriller side and has a mild dose of violence, self harm, definitely abuse, and SA. I can't list all the warnings so do be aware of the severe parts of the show if you are sensitive!

I just finished watching this show. I usually write my reviews right after watching them, but I'm not even sure how to go about explaining this. This show freaked me out, made me hate characters so strongly, gave me a feeling of hopelessness and exasperation, you name it. I say all this but I truly do mean it in a good way because that's exactly what the show sets out to do! I did know what I was in for because I watched a video discussing this show among others but I'm still taken aback. Okay, I've gotta start somewhere with this review.

Let's rewind to the start! If you made me watch half of the show, I would've never suspected Jaemin of doing... all that. I did watch someone discuss this but I wasn't sure who exactly was the love interest and who were the evil ones. Knowing that there were 3 "love interests" and that 2 of them were horrible people had me suspecting everyone. Until Suhyeon came along, I wouldn't have been surprised if Seonghyeon turned out to be the controlling one because his flaws (clingy, pushy, stubborn) were evident earlier than Jaemin's. For that, I sincerely apologise to Seonghyeon. Da On is interesting too, I mean, he's the main character, of course he is. I saw people point out a flaw of Da On and even say that they think the show did too much with it; the flaw being his inability to be clear and stand up for himself. I'd say that this flaw has only been observed by viewers whenever Da On was in a scene with Suhyeon. At the start he didn't really have a reason to go against Jaemin, and he only just met his coworker (who he HAS been rude with). I didn't think of this flaw as an issue for the show, honestly I don't really consider it a flaw of Da On either. My thoughts on this issue parallel another feeling/thought I had about the relationships. If I ever have these kind of relationships, or if I ever meet (God forbid) people like that in my life, I'd probably be helpless and wouldn't be able to do much. Obviously it depends on the person, how much control they have of their life, their trust in police, their views of love and its boundaries, etc. But in my case I would be able to do even lesser than Da On against those evil men. With Jaemin, there's a strong attachment and years of relationship as well as mental debt. Suhyeon is likewise insane but he's dangerous, violent, and most of all, powerful (rich, big company, the boss). No one can convince me that they wouldn't hesitate or struggle a bit when going against these people, especially Suhyeon who does NOT stop to think whenever he has a violent urge (which actually makes Jaemin scarier because he DOES think out his violent acts before he does it). In fact, I thought Da On was really strong at the start for saying no and going against Suhyeon's orders even when that bastard had him against the wall by his collar after breaking a vase. He continued to say no to some of Suhyeon's orders after that as well. It's kind of hard to do that when someone who can and will kill you is attacking you. I'd also like to thank the show for depicting the abuses as they are, and more so for making the love interest the normal coworker and not Suhyeon, even if that's the whole point of the plot. I guess I've seen too many "love interests" do horrible things and have their shows treat it normally. But wow, I tend to put myself in the main characters shoes when thinking about a show and nothing has made me realise how done I'd be in such a situation. It makes you realise the severity of what the character is going through. This was unintended for sure but I felt my resolve to stay away from toxic and abusive people strengthen just thinking about it. I hope it had the same effect on people who actually need it. The only frustrating thing/flaw of Da On in my eyes would be him constantly walking away WHEN TALKING ABOUT IT JUST A LITTLE MORE WOULD HELP GREATLY!!! So many characters do this during arguments so I'm used to it. I was also confused during that period where he was pushing Seonghyeon away after Suhyeon pretty much threatened (and dare I say even SA'd him with a forceful make out thing) Da On. It felt like a switched flipped inside him which I first assumed was him acting rude and cold for both his and Seonghyeon's safety from Suhyeon but with what he and his sister said, it gives the impression that it's normal for him to think that? They were like "oh yeah he does that a lot and acts like he isn't good enough (something like that) for your love". If it's a normal train of thought it sure happened suddenly. Maybe Suhyeon's outburst triggered something for him to act like that.
Speaking of Suhyeon, even now, I hate him a lot. It might even be more or equal to the hate I have for Jaemin. The thing that made Jaemin bearable is that he was never really directly violent with Da On (save for the finale obviously) and also that he mostly disappeared or played a very weak role in the middle. Actually he only went insane towards the end and had the viewers attention then. With Suhyeon, he was persistent and Da On didn't even like him. I also think that any likeability is gone when you start getting unreasonably violent with someone you love and essentially become a domestic abuser. I don't think the show was trying to redeem him at the end, I myself was surprised he agreed to quit harassing Da On on his own will, so I hope that isn't the case. That scene did hit my heart though because it made me realise that years and years of bonding with both Jaemin and Suhyeon was gone just like that. That guy shouldn't be in a relationship until he can keep his anger under control. I know the show makes Jaemin the bigger villain but in my opinion both of them are equally bad in their own ways. It's interesting to note that during the ring flashback scene, it looked like Da On was pressured into saying yes to Suhyeon. I know that their relationship in uni was supposed to be almost completely healthy/normal but seeing how Suhyeon treats him now brought back that feeling of frustration and anger when I saw him once again forcefully push Da On against a wall - the same behaviour, just in the past. I don't know if it was on purpose but it felt like a pattern of behaviour, like that push and other forceful behaviour done in the flashbacks was planting the seeds for what would happen later on. I'm also unclear on whether or not these two had sex after that Seonghyeon-Suhyeon confrontation in front of Da On's apartment. That make out scene was already uncomfortable and definitely pressured at the very least, so my heart stopped when I saw Suhyeon wake up kind of shirtless and in new clothes in Da On's bed. That is so concerning I pray for Da On's sake that isn't the case cause that adds to the horridness these men subject him to. I wish the show cleared that up but maybe I'm just stupid and it's very clearly implied they did sleep together. I'm also questioning why Da On wasn't clear that what Suhyeon was doing wasn't related to a love for Jaemin but for him instead (though I'd argue an obsession) especially after Suhyeon started making out with him in his apartment?? Why would he make out with you if he's trying to get Jaemin back or spite him? Maybe Suhyeon used sexual assault as a weapon before but its not like the viewer would know that. Either way, Suhyeon can go to hell and back and I can't find it in my heart to be happy that he did the bare minimum and stopped stalking and harassing Da On. He's lucky there's a bigger evil because the things I would've said wouldn't even be in the review right now; physical domestic abuse is a bit more alien to me thankfully so I'm not used to it and haven't heard many excuses for it, my tolerance is a bit low.
I think they did a good job balancing Seonghyeon and Da On's relationship because it let me breathe in between all the grim events. I like that he's also flawed, like doing too much and clinging, but definitely not to the extent that our 2 satanic hellspawns are. There isn't much to say about him because he's a pretty normal love interest all things considered. Bless his persistence when there's an argument because where Da On walks away, he chases him and makes sure that there isn't something left unsaid or misunderstood. Except for that hickey thing, I was screaming at my screen for Da On to just say that Jaemin assaulted/forced himself onto him and that's why he has that. I understand why people would want to keep such a thing private but he was ready to clear the air in Seonghyeon's apartment until Seonghyeon cut him off and was like "no need to explain, I get how it is", and he just gave up trying to explain a very explainable thing? I was surprised to see Seonghyeon say and cut Da On off continously like that, like that's my communication king right there what happened? But I understand he was deeply hurt :( also shout out to Seonghyeon's actor (Cha Sun Hyung) for having a ridiculously contagious smile for a character like Seonghyeon who would definitely have a feature like that!
Now, Jaemin. Despite being what I'd say the main antagonist, I don't have that much to say about him, at least compared to Suhyeon. The reveal that he knew Da On before their first official meeting was crazy, it makes so much sense and implies stalking on an insane scale. Crazy how different it is when a similar reveal was done with Seonghyeon, made me love the couple even more. Jaemin is the kind of obsessed, violent and severely mentally ill character you'd see in mangas, manhwas, animes, movies, any fictional setting. Which is why it was so unsettling seeing it being depicted a bit realistically (at least before the finale). He didn't even need to be crazy rich like Suhyeon, just financially stable; he would pay strangers some money to interfere with Da On's life. If you asked multiple people on the street to do that, with the money in hand, someone's guaranteed to accept. Crazy how he makes Suhyeon look sane. I loved when even after going through the disgustingly manipulative theatrics of stabbing himself 2 or 3 times in the arm in front of Da On to guilt trip him, he's left alone at the hospital with a note rejecting him. I love when Da On does stuff like that, I was proud. I did find it crazy when he kidnapped and then tried to kill both himself and Da On (that's where my fictional point comes in) but I think that's because he was simply MIA for a good chunk of the show and he was completely normal at the start so I wouldn't really count that either. The thing that separated him and Suhyeon was the strategy of violence which Suhyeon didn't employ, it was all violence and no strategy with him. To be fair I did suspect that Jaemin was gonna do something extreme when his lack of presence and strong role was becoming a bit too obvious. I still didn't expect that insane kidnapping scene, I was at a loss of words there. This man was really dressed like a dang groom or something and taking photos of a powerless, tied up Da On like it wasn't the grossest thing ever. Let alone THE MURDER ATTEMPTS!!! I feel guilty saying this but I kind of loved it when he went no filter crazy in the police station, laughing in Suhyeon's face and going "you'll never know why I did that contract". Hell, I started laughing with him cause his mental state is unbelievably cooked LMAO.
I also have to disagree with the reason for Suhyeon leaving Da On alone. It's not that you couldn't protect him, you kind of already did by kicking Jaemin at the last second and consequently knocking him out when he was about to finally stab Da On, but more so that you were horribly abusive. The amount of times he grabbed Da On's jaw like that made my own jaw hurt. Not only that, but he constantly belittled Da On (he even did that in one of the uni flashbacks!). My view of how the show handled Suhyeon is ever so slightly iffy because it felt like in the build-up of Jaemin his wrongs mattered less, but I'm glad that his violence was shown as something negative and his anger issues as a problem.
Overall, I cared and engaged with the main character a lot, constantly wondering what he did to deserve two of the most evil men on this Earth being obsessed with him. The tension really gave off thriller vibes which I have been missing a lot recently and I enjoyed Jaemin even if he doesn't have a strong role until the very end. I liked when Seonghyeon and Da On would come to an understanding after an argument, very satisfying. The abuse is negatively portrayed and when it comes to a more realistic domestic abuse case like Suhyeon, it could help people reflect on their own similar relationships and maybe give them a push to get out of such a thing, or it could be a valuable cautionary tale for those who are new to relationships. For the rewatch rating, it might be a bit lower than expected but that's because this show is pretty heavy with its mistreatment and abuse aspects so it might be hard to sit through all that again. Still, I enjoyed it and would recommend it to people who have a love for psychological thrillers like I do but still want something slightly calm (thanks to the normal romance).

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crazy plot but so intriguing

I was not going to watch this until I saw junseo was in it! I actually wasn’t a huge fan from boys 2 planet, but this show majorly converted me to a fan.

the plot was silly (I know it’s hard to keep a three suitors plot going, but the contract thing was crazy why didn’t jaemin just get together with daon when he liked him? also I wish we got a bit more details in the past and the timeline of when daon liked suhyeon? because I thought he said he always liked jaemin?)

besides the silly plot (which I dont even mind silly plots too much) I think that the chemistry was lacking between the couples. the main couple was cute, but I didn’t think any of the pairings had too much chemistry (surprisingly I’d say the most was with suhyeon, ugh I wish they got together in college, their one cute ring scene hurt my heart and I wanted to see them happy during that time! if suhyeon didn’t yell so much I’d be a bigger fan).

it was kind of funny to see everyone like daon/junseo so much I was like dang give this guy a break. also can’t believe after the main guy took the knife for daon he still went and gave the presentation that’s crazy

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REGRETFUL LOVE STORY

To tell the truth, when I first saw their poster, without even checking the manhwa, the trailer, I thought this will be a story of Daon dating three guys at the same time... I mean, come on, the tittle is Secret Relationship but the Secret Relationship was not even play an important part in this series.

So let's talk about Daon.

While watching, I somehow always feel sorry and pity for him. Like he is in love with someone for like 11 years? And this person actually love him back but the stupidest thing happen... this person is crazy and a walking red flag. And because of this person, he can never actually be in love with anyone properly. And when he finally find someone who is willing to wait for him, he need to push him away because of these two people.

Like some other people, I somehow wish he end up with Kim Su Hyeon. I mean, let put all those egoistic, crazy thing aside, I feel like Su Hyeon also love Daon truly. Maybe because of his family drama, so he does not know how to love properly and afraid that he will lose Daon. In my mind, in another universe, Daon end up with Su Hyeon instead.

Ju Seong Hyeon
To tell the truth, I don't really like him that much. When they kissed during the drunken night, as someone who say that he is willing to wait, he was toooo upset about Daon kissing him and call him Jaemin instead. Like he throwing tantrum for no reason and suddenly, he is good again. And when he is upset about seeing those hickeys and suddenly become good again after that... like, he is having such mood swing or something. What's wrong with you? Seriously.

Finally, Kim Su Hyeon...
A man who is obsess, egoistic, jealousy, controlling... To tell the truth, even he is all that, I think that happened due to his family's situation so I feel so sad that he needs to give up on his love to Daon. This is all happen because that psychotic bastard Shin Jaemin.

Shin Jaemin.
The reddest red flag ever. He knows that Daon is in love with him, so he tries to manipulate Daon to always be at his side, making that guy taking photo of him naked, the reason Su Hyeon need to leave abroad... and does not want anyone else to have Daon to the point that he is willing to die together with Daon. Seriously, I really don't understand how he could exist in the first place as someone who appear handsome, sweet and nice while he is such an evil jerk that come straight from Hell.

The whole story is great, even it is a bit short, I wish it could be longer than 8 episodes. Lucky me, I waited for the whole episode to come out before start watching because I watched the 8 episode straight away in one sitting. Even Daon did not end up with Su Hyeon, but maybe that is for the better. Even the story is good, I got to say that... this does not really have the rewatch value that much.

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another cap for the BL community.

i stayed up late to finish this well into the morning and for nothing. this BL was more-or-less trash. i rated the story high because they had it ! the foundation was stellar but the execution was pure comedy. this could have went down as one of the best of all time considering the plot twist, the excitement, the toxicity, the triangle, etc. but nope. some of the acting was questionable like at the end, in the police station - that made no sense. the intimacy scenes were wack and dry as hell. the one drunken kiss was the best kiss of the whole run. the kiss at the end was that garbage stiff ish that people hate so why did they implement that? the most inviting kiss, for me as a consumer, was the one with the dessert and still that could have been more. what a huge disappointment.

this was definitely way overhyped and overrated by fans. the music was not memorable so i did not rate it accurately. it still pisses me off to know that i watched this even though it was some weeks ago.

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It's a breakthrough for Korean BLs

I have never been stressed than ever after watching this show.

Deviating from its source material, as I did not read it, the series stands as one of the promising and daring series in the genre. I felt like I was not watching a “testing-the-waters” type of show, as it kept me on the edge of my seat every second.

What I really love the most about this is the pacing and storytelling. It has a mix of flashbacks and present timeline, which irritates me most of the time, but here, it works. This device is not just to fuel the plot, but it adds more to the story and motivation of each character.

The production? It's top-notch. Everything works because every detail and nuance has been weaved in each strand of the plot and sequences. It does not feel like a low-budget show.

We can't really talk about this show without paying attention to the performances of the actors. for having a great, compelling, and effective script, requires the same of the actors. They all killed their roles and it adds nothing but weight to why the show worked and successfully emerged as one of the strong contenders for Best BL this year.

This show set a new standard for KBLs, and has given growth to the genre.

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Secret Relationships = Feelings, Confusion, and Pain

Okay but let me be honest 😌
Before I even pressed play, I already knew Junseo from B2P and now ALD1, so yeah—I was super curious about how he’d act in a drama. And listen… he did not disappoint. Overall, Secret Relationships was such a pleasant surprise. The series pulls you in quietly and then suddenly—boom—emotional damage. It’s intense in so many ways: the looks, the tension, the unspoken feelings, the messy choices. You really see how love can betray you, twist you up, and make you completely blind to the truth right in front of you. 😭 What I loved most is how real it felt. No over-the-top drama for nothing—just complicated hearts, bad timing, and feelings you can’t undo. And Junseo? Watching him in this role made me see him in a whole new light.
Final verdict: come for curiosity, stay for the emotional chaos. Definitely worth the watch if you like your romance a little painful and very intense 💔✨

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Toxic Love at its Best or Worst!!!

“Toxic love is an addiction that lures you in with glimpses of happiness, only to trap you in a cycle of pain”- Isabella Garcia

These words would definitely resonate with Jung Da-On’s (Kim Jun-Seo) soul, because the very definition of relationships seems to spell disaster for him. Despite the fact that there are three different men vying for his attention & affections, only one actually cared about his mental wellbeing. This says a lot about their inadequacies, obsessive behaviors and narcissistic attitude. The storyline dwells a lot into their deliberate attempts to wreak havoc in Da-On’s life, so they could exercise control, not one of them being bothered about the viscous cycle of pain he has endured over years. He was constantly played, dictated and his boundaries were pushed; simply because they couldn’t stand seeing with someone else. This mentality is a caricature of most toxic relationships where the victim is physically & emotionally abused. While the story does gleam over these gory details, it also showcases innocent love at its best. As against Shin Jae Min (Kim Ho-Young) & Kim Su Hyeon (Cha Jung-Woo) who force their will on Da-On; Ju Seong Hyeon (Cha Sun-Hyung) wants to stay beside him, cherish him and love him unconditionally, the kind of love that sets you free.

Read the complete article here-

https://the-bl-xpress.com/2025/03/27/secret-relationships-series-review-ep-3-to-8/

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Toxic relationships

When I first tried to watch this show I just couldn’t get into it for some reason. But I’m so glad I watched it!

3 guys “in love” with one guy. 2 of those guys make a dumb agreement to not pursue the guy they are in love with & to pretend to day in front of him. The other guy is his new coworker.

I honestly didn’t think Jae-min was gonna end up being the psycho. I for sure thought it was gonna be Soo-hyeon. I wish they had at least 2 more episodes or I wish they would have made the 8 episodes an hour long. It was rushed & I wanted to know more of the background & what happened to Jae-min once he went to prison & what happen with Soo-hyeon since he decided to give up Da-on.

I’m glad Da-on picked Seong-hyeon. I wish we would have seen more of Seong-hyeon back story since we found out at the very end he actually met Da-on first!

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A rollercoast of emotions that had me biting my nails on the edge of my seat

BAT SHIT INSANE BRO. LJKE FROM BEGINNING TO END IM SHOOCKED. like wtffff that was the craziest twist over oml. Like these two gucking psychopaths over here omg I can't believe jaemin was gotta MURDER HIM. The other guy was painted to be crazy which I get but he was acting insane in the present like bro how did u want to get him back by abusing him instead of just talking it out PLS 😭 but truly TRULY jaemin was quite the mastermind I literally never saw it coming. I felt so bad for the mc like bro couldn't catch A SINGLE break it was tragedy after tragedy man OML 😫 but they werr so endgame. Homie supported him in his career and his family gave him space was understanding and patient like oml 😩🤭 twas a great show idk the writing was pretty good, very entertaining, the two other guys and the plot twists were INSANE but thats low-key the vibe. Highly enjoyable!

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What a huge Roller Coaster

Plot 7.5
Acting and Characters 8
Music and Production 7.5
Rewatch Value 5

At first, I wanted to drop this series. The plot wasn’t bad but a little uncomfortable for me. I had this uneasy sensation towards it. After thinking about it, I decided to continue watching because it was actually interesting and I saw a spoiler video of a nice scene. I believe I made the right choice. Nothing marvellous, but the right combination of love and psychic elements, definitely my cup of tea. The story is not predictable and, at least for me, there is a critical plot twist. So fascinating.
I’m a bit unsure about the ending. I believe it’s a little rushed? Da On needed some alone time, of course, so going abroad was the right choice but I would have appreciate one or two more scenes after it.
Lastly, I have questions:
- What happened to Da On’s father? We see him only one time, then he disappears.
- How could Da On present the project after what happened and with the think of his loved one in the hospital? He wins. This is unreal.

Let’s talk about the characters.
Sin Jae Min is, undoubtedly, my favourite character here. I love how his personality is portraited and the way his mind works is absolutely interesting. The actor (Kim Ho Young) is hot and fabulous at his job. His eyes are famished, crazy and pass down the right feelings and energy (for eleven years). Also, I’m addicted to his poker face. He is surely ill.
Kim Su Hyeon is no less interesting. His behaviour, violent and ambiguous, seems to come from his dysfunctional family dynamics. This poor guy doesn’t know how to clearly and healthily get or ask for what he wants. Again, the actor (Cha Jung Woo) is so very hot and so great at his job. A fierce gaze and very insisting manners: I feel so sorry for him (he’s a little dumb).
Jung Da On is trapped in an awful situation. Empathizing with him, you feel powerless. I have to say something about Kim Jun Seo’s performance though. He isn’t bad. He’s cute and ‘in distress’ but I didn’t appreciate his crying scene (in the last episode if I’m correct).
Ju Seong Hyeon apparently is here only to save Da On from the clutches of the ‘childhood friends’ duo. He’s the usual green forest. Evergreen, obviously. At first, I didn’t like him, but then I changed my mind because the other two are rotten, and so is the environment they nurture. The actor’s performance (Cha Sun Hyung) is good. Sweet and placid eyes, calm attitude and soft look.

Nothing much to say about the music. Honestly, I don’t think there’s a main theme and, for me, this is not nice. However, the direction seems good, as well as the lightning and the sounds effect. The setting is classic: office, home, outside bars.

I’m not going to watch this series again but I’ll recommend it to you. Especially if you are into psychological contents.
Kisses <3

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