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Ree_YVR:
I think she can, but she will show it differently.
I agree. As similar as they are in many ways (both are very smart and very brave), they're still two different people with different life experiences. In the latest episode I watched, JX ran across a dangerous situation. She recognized the danger but proceeded to record it anyway since it could help HT's situation with his Board of Directors; she took the risk because she's brave and it's her way of showing him she cares about him and wants to solve problems with him. Plus, she does not back down when there's injustice.
Loving someone is not a measure of time, although the communication (if worked on) gets so much easier with time. And to be frank, I think love is such a nebulous concept; I don't pretend to be able to measure it and compare one person's love being more or less than that of another.
- For example, in my 30+ years of marriage and 22 years of raising kids, I did 70% of shared household tasks. My spouse and I both worked for a living. I had more work hours because I had my own business. Did I love my spouse more? Did he love my less?
- 2 years ago, I retired early. Kids are in college. Spouse does 70% of the reduced household tasks. I have been mostly travelling, seeing friends and family, indulging in my hobbies. Does my spouse love me more now? Do I love him less?
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chrisogb:
Most women are into chasing men however a woman should do the choosing and a man the chasing is a known thing to do.
Not to ruffle feathers, but assigning genders as to who gets to chase and to choose seems outdated. We didn't assigned tasks in our marriage by gender, just who was the more capable one. For the record, the male did the cooking & sewing; the female did the taxes & corresponded with the financial advisor.