Kill me , love me ! Wow ? the title suit this drama well

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Can you share a bit what happened in the novel? Did he really rape her?

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In the first third of the book, these violent scenes happen naturally (as if it were normal for a royal person to treat a female servant in that way). And she, with her intelligence and having lived through so many hardships in life (adapts to the moment), chooses what is least bad given the situation. (But at the same time, the female author of the book wanted to develop a redeemable anti-hero), who at the end of the book enjoys flowers with the woman he loves. And he chooses not to have any concubines and to marry Mei Lin as his legitimate wife.
But the female writer overemphasized the unacceptable attitudes of the male character. He sweats her physically every day. He thinks it is normal to hand over a woman who does not want to obey him to his soldiers for sexual satisfaction.( (No, another woman, Adai (in the book) who did not want to obey him, stay there as a servant, wanted to run away).)
However, the female writer chose as a means to redeem him, making him completely physically incapable, being diminished in his strength, having to be carried by Mei Lin throughout the book, and enduring other humiliating moments before her eyes.
(But even so, his intelligence and her intelligence work together to face many situations).

Regina de Sá 2 hours ago

 Yes! We, women, are tired of brute men incapable of delicate caress, of poetic gesture, of the ability to grow flowers, of dedicating a spark of "undying flower and Love" to someone. This man who combines virility and delicacy is well represented by Murong Jing He. What a beautiful character, I believe he is one of the most human I have seen in fiction, he goes beyond fiction to be one of us, with our weaknesses, with our anguish and, at the same time, endowed with strength, masculinity and everything a kingdom expects of a virile warrior. 

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choosing 2 hours ago from Weibo Web Edition #刘学义妆造# Those who have known Xueyi for a long time know that he has never had any style luck in ancient costumes, the hair covering with the open glue, the gray hair with allergies, the head covering with the eggplant handle, the red and willow green clothes, and a character to be broadcast without a water drop hairpin, and even the costume of the modern drama only in the first case worked, but the acting skills can make people forget these things. From the flame of the spring flower to the reflection of the peach blossom of the country, I contacted Mr. Li Meng and changed my style luck. I believe that anyone wants to be trusted and valued by stylists for their own style; I am also very grateful to the art teacher Dong Zhiliang Dongge, it is his trust in Liu Xueyi, from Pan Yue to Murong Jinghe, from hand-made to mountains and rivers, so that one after another empty shots are praised by the audience, and I hope to cooperate again

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She warmed him, without it he would die in the snow. So beautiful!

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  Regina de Sá 
  @Vniverse 🥹❤️😢😢
  
  

Regina de Sá  

"I can't die." "You can't die." "We can't die." This mantra is repeated by ML and MJH exhaustively at least during the 15 eps that were aired. The poetic symbol of the undying flower is the main clue to a HE. I don't think the plot will end with "Yes, you can die." I imagine the final scene with MJH and ML, walking together in a garden of undying flowers during spring...🌹🌹🌹🌹

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  I want them to open a cake shop and have a little cottage with a garden full of undying flowers. 😊
  
  Regina de Sá 
  What a wonderful sight! Yes, a Cake Shop, it's a promise he made to her! These details that are planted during the plot are clues that point to an outcome that will come to life in this HE!😃
  
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  That's right! That's right!❤️❤️❤️
  And also the opening song (rebirth). It talks about a candle that can go out, but it talks about rebirth (I think it's more in the sense of the phoenix), which passes through the ashes and is reborn, or better said: the hardest difficulties will only strengthen you to keep moving forward.
  
  

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    Regina de Sá  

    Yes, it would be incoherence if one of the two died with so many symbols and messages that reinforce the resilience and resurgence of the flame of life. As you say, the challenges made them stronger and more capable. These difficulties worked as an affective alliance in which one became the guardian of the other's life, initially in the name of revenge, but soon transformed into love.

    
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    Yes, and with all these symbols pointing and working so that when it happens it will be the natural consequence of everything that came before. (It's not like some stories that it seems that there are some showruns that their desire is to destroy the stories in their development, perhaps out of hatred for beauty and real sensitivity). The natural thread of the story needs to be respected, as it was prepared from the beginning. (And there are the same 4 screenwriters from start to finish, maintaining the coherence of the story).

Joy  an hour ago

anyone know the name of the undying flower cuz i search with this name n it doesn't give good data??

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Hyukfied 14 minutes ago

I cannot pinpoint why i love this drama so much thus far. It seems the writing contributes a lot, the lines the characters say just tugs at my heartstrings. I'm already rooting for the leads to win their revenge and have a happily ever after!

mmansaray35  

Mei Lin to Murong Jing: You and I need to let go of our nightmares.

That was such a beautiful moment 😭 Youku you better give us a happy ending. We need to see them open their cake shop and grow some undying flowers in the backyard while living a sweet happy life... Youku better give this to us!!😭😭

On another note: One thing I really like about Mei Lin's character is that, though she's an assassin, and tough when she needs to, she's also a sweet and easy soul on the regular. She's so agreeable and sweet. She switches when she needs to, and it's seamlessly.

I really like how WJY is portraying Mei Lin. She has the character's personality down pat and it's lovely to watch her.

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