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RXinw

"Touch my body, put me on the floor
Wrestle me around, play with me some more"

This song has been stuck in my head all of yesterday and today lol; Anyway:

That was a lot of posts to read. Some made me laugh though lol. 

 Emrys:

Guys, I know this is not BL related but I have a question. What should I do if I have feelings for a friend?

Despite being recommended to answer, I am not the best person to do so since I avoid all feelings and emotions like the plague lol. However they say, "The coach does not play."

All I would say is that if you feel weighted  by these feelings you should follow them and confess. Now that sounds scary but it does not matter what you say, it only matters how you say it. For example, do not say something like, "Hey, I like/am in love with you, do you feel the same?" Perhaps take a more cautious approach like, "Hey, I really enjoy our conversations would you feel comfortable taking on IG or Whatsapp? I completely understand if you are not comfortable doing that and would still love to interact with you here in this space." This allows you to gauge how she feels and if she says "yes" then you can move towards calling and video calling and reveal your feelings. In this case you would have secured memories with her even if she rejects you.

All to say, my advice is to tell her because, yes you do not want to lose a friend, but sitting being weighted by feelings is no fun either which could lead to negative effects on you and the friendship, and you never know. "Hope and tomorrow is an illusion there is only action and now." - RXinw. Girl, you only live once!

Note: I have no experience in romantic relations, so take my advice in appreciation of this lack of experience.

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RXinw
 Chun Mo Rionnag:
"Let Free the Curse of Taekwondo": martial arts, reference to kissing in a tunnel, winter

Yes! I became aware of this too.

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OnyxTheHedgehog

@RXinw yayy ur here, I missed u

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RXinw
 OnyxTheHedgehog:
@RXinw yayy ur here, I missed u

LOL

I was busy most of the day today. 

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OnyxTheHedgehog
 RXinw:

LOL

I was busy most of the day today. 

Lol

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American Fan VIP

I can't get the embed thingie to work. I came across this vid and Pond is at 4:38 and beyond. Looks like he may have broken his arm cuz it's in a sling. Most of the vid has Gun too! But no english subs. :-(

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxkM8dkNbqI

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angeliviki2022
 American Fan:
But no english subs. :-(

Not the best, but what I usually do in this case is choose Thai subtitles, then auto-translate to English. It's far from perfect but you'll get the gist of the conversation.

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winnie
 American Fan:

I can't get the embed thingie to work. I came across this vid and Pond is at 4:38 and beyond. Looks like he may have broken his arm cuz it's in a sling. Most of the vid has Gun too! But no english subs. :-(

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxkM8dkNbqI

his wrist got caught with a nail(?) while filming leap day and needed 17 stitches poor boy :( he told neo to reassure everyone that it’s not that bad and not to worry as he’s fine :(

gmmtv needs a serious energy cleanse cause there’s so much going on these days… and to step up on safety cause literally everyone is injured .—.

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OnyxTheHedgehog
 winnie:

his wrist got caught with a nail(?) while filming leap day and needed 17 stitches poor boy :( he told neo to reassure everyone that it’s not that bad and not to worry as he’s fine :(

gmmtv needs a serious energy cleanse cause there’s so much going on these days… and to step up on safety cause literally everyone is injured .—.

Ouch, that sounds terrible 

That’s true, why is everyone getting hurt now? :(

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RXinw
 OnyxTheHedgehog:
Lol

Well I am here now lol

My school is having a month long celebration of Breast Cancer Awareness and since this is the last week of "Pinktober" there are a lot of activities. For example for the rest of the week we are encouraged to wear something pink. They are also hoping to raise half of a million dollars. With all the activities, plus studies, plus being a part of the planning for a leadership ceremony has kept me busy lol. 

 winnie:
his wrist got caught with a nail(?) while filming leap day and needed 17 stitches poor boy :( he told neo to reassure everyone that it’s not that bad and not to worry as he’s fine :(

Oh my, I wish him a very speedy recovery *heart emoji*

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winnie
 OnyxTheHedgehog:

Ouch, that sounds terrible 

That’s true, why is everyone getting hurt now? :(

no idea, seems like they don’t take any precaution while filming and for trainings smh

between everyone injured, earth in the hospital and nanon’s situation… *sigh*

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American Fan VIP
 winnie:
his wrist got caught with a nail(?) while filming leap day and needed 17 stitches poor boy :

Ouch!! Thanks for the info.


 angeliviki2022:

Not the best, but what I usually do in this case is choose Thai subtitles, then auto-translate to English. It's far from perfect but you'll get the gist of the conversation.

I thought about it...but I'm too lazy these days, lol.

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RXinw

I NEED A SEASON TWO NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Emrys
 RXinw:
However they say, "The coach does not play."

Thanks a lot for the advice! I'll try to see what's best for the situation. ^^

 American Fan:
My first thought is how valuable is your friendship to you? Would you be fine without it if you are rejected after confessing your feelings to them and it's difficult afterward?

No, I wouldn't be fine if our friendship was to end because of this. It's the reason why I'm hesitant about confessing in the first place.

 p43425:
(2) Get married so you don't have to deal with the torture of dating

Haha, I'll get married eventually but probably not in the next 5 years. Thanks for your advice.

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Emrys

Day 30. Which BL series can you watch over and over again and never get tired of watching?

For me, it used to be Utsukushii Kare (both series and movie), The Blue Hour and the Novelist.
But in all honesty, now I can't even watch these BLs so I should probably say pass to this question.

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