Tushan Jing and Xiao Yao's romance

 His Smile:

Let's pray that everyone, from the cast to the crew members, will not piss off CCP.  Let's pray that no one will create a scandal for our dear, misunderstood Weiwei. ? ? ? ? ? 

This is so irritating. I hope it's just fake news and we get it in the fall/winter. And it's hard to say about scandals because even a cigarette butt can make a mountain out of  nothing.

 Ari_Lee:

I agree. She does use one man to make another jealous or to distract herself from whatever feelings they have evoked. 

While watching the episode where Jing is still in a coma, some of the timed comments were pissed at her because even after finding out why he's that way she is still testing him.  

If she were a male character, I would have probably dropped the series because she was always testing Jing and asking for his complete loyalty and dedication to her. How about her? Has she given that to him as his lover? She uses another man to distract her from Jing and  make him jealous. That is a very immature move from her.

But then again, she has already explained from the onset how she has trust and abandonment issues, so during this time in the series, she has not grown yet as a character.  

She'll mature in season 2 and realize that she's also to blame for what happened to her. 

 His Smile:

If she were a male character, I would have probably dropped the series because she was always testing Jing and asking for his complete loyalty and dedication to her. How about her? Has she given that to him as his lover? She uses another man to distract her from Jing and  make him jealous. That is a very immature move from her.

But then again, she has already explained from the onset how she has trust and abandonment issues, so during this time in the series, she has not grown yet as a character.  

She'll mature in season 2 and realize that she's also to blame for what happened to her. 

Yes. Jing was so loyal that even drugged he held it in... 

Yes, she will. That's the only reason why I didn't condemn her since she did mature a bit.

 His Smile:

If she were a male character, I would have probably dropped the series because she was always testing Jing and asking for his complete loyalty and dedication to her. How about her? Has she given that to him as his lover? She uses another man to distract her from Jing and  make him jealous. That is a very immature move from her.

But then again, she has already explained from the onset how she has trust and abandonment issues, so during this time in the series, she has not grown yet as a character.  

She'll mature in season 2 and realize that she's also to blame for what happened to her. 

Yes, I can only imagine the backlash if she were a male lead lol. TSJ had his insecurities and always felt like he was unworthy of her. Altho he is naturally calm and wise, I cannot imagine his torment when he sees her with another guy (only further increasing his feeling of unworthiness). Don’t get me wrong, if it were modern times, no one would accept him (being engaged to another). But he was always true to her and gave her the space to figure things out and respected her relationship with XL. I know each of the guys have a special place in her heart, but sometimes I wonder if she really loved Jing and at what point did she completely open her heart up to him. Was it after they broke up that she realized she never gave him a 100% chance?

 Ari_Lee:

I hope so.  At least we'll have the other Hi6 episode. Is it on the 19th?

yes tomorrow, hopefully the subbed version will be out soon after too

Sometimes I was frustrated with XY too with how she was between Jing and FFB/XL. It's good that none of the guys mind too much about her hanging out with the other guy lol They all just love her so much and just want her to be happy. With Jing, I believe she has always liked him but she just didn't know how deep her feelings for him were til later. I think while she liked Jing she also had a crush on FFB/XL because he was kind of an escape for her she could get away from whatever she's dealing with. Starting from Qingshui Town, when YSQ made her sad she'd run off with XL, then when Jing wasn't around she'd hang out with FFB, first to get Jing's attention/jealous (also the whole CX assassination thing plus learning archery ) but then she actually started enjoying his company. At that point i was wondering does she just want attention from any guy willing to give her attention. Then Jing came back so she spent all her time with Jing. I think of Jing as her "home" and XL as her "escape from her reality"

I think XY is still young and inexperienced in feelings and whatnot. When we're young we sometimes confused our feelings from liking someone to loving someone. Because we don't know ourselves well, sometimes we say we want this but really we want something else. XY has been through a lot so she has street smarts but when it comes to feelings, it's all new for her. I found it so funny whenever she would say she's not the type of girl that would do this and that but for Jing was really that of girl lol 

Starting from Qingshui Town, without her knowing she had already let Jing into her heart but she was still afraid because of her abandonment issue. It was also her first time having such feelings so she probably didn't know either. She didn't believe that someone could put her first, or wait for her forever, and was always one foot out the door ready to leave to not be abandoned.  I think she finally let her guard down when she found out he's willing to die with her. And although everyone called him weak for that, she loved it. Because he was willing to die w/ her meaning even in death he would not abandon her. I'm glad later on she and Jing are able to sit down and talk about their feelings and worked together to expose Huo and FFYY.

sorry for the long post

it’s super rare to find someone like Jing irl ? even then we’ll be like XY like this person is too good to be real 

 His Smile:

If she were a male character, I would have probably dropped the series because she was always testing Jing and asking for his complete loyalty and dedication to her. How about her? Has she given that to him as his lover? She uses another man to distract her from Jing and  make him jealous. That is a very immature move from her.

But then again, she has already explained from the onset how she has trust and abandonment issues, so during this time in the series, she has not grown yet as a character.  

She'll mature in season 2 and realize that she's also to blame for what happened to her. 

Yeah I really like the chapter where she and Jing had their heart to heart talk and how she ended up crying in his arms and then felt embarrassed about it lol