I like Jing. Now I'm reading the novel. already at chapter 24. I love Jing more in novel version. The story and narrative is more detail in novel that make me love this guy even more!
When people keep talking Jing is like 2nd option for XY because XL push her away, actually IT'S NOT LIKE THAT! There is dialog that XY clarify when CX said, if he is Jing, he will kill FYY for XY... and XY reply that she will leave Jing if he doing like that. She choose Jing because his attitude is different then any other man. If Jing do like CX, what different then? She said she just ordinary woman who wanted companion for the rest of her life and only a guy like Jing can make her dream come true.
So, yeah ... even 100 man come to approach her, Jing still no 1 in her heart. That's why it's hard for XY to move on after the break up.