Well, there’s been a few rom-coms that I’ve watched and fallen in love with with this trope : a cute, sunny, optimistic and brave FL with an aggressive, protective and obsessive ML. N.B. : I’ve watched all the “Meteor Garden” versions, including the anime and manga and “Dao Ming Si and Shan açai” fits my tastes perfectly. The trope should also last all throughout the drama as I don’t want them to endup together too quickly. 

 emaureeng:

You have oblivious in your title but not in the description. Oblivious how?  Is she clueless about the world generally?  Doesn't notice the ML's interest in her?

Doesn’t notice his feelings for her.

Lie to Me, Let's Eat(but the ML is not very aggressive), Secret Garden and Hwayugi. 

Neung Nai Suang

The FL hates ML since childhood, ML believes she's bad while almost everybody knows she's good. ML always teases FL.

One more point for Ngao Asoke, it's a great drama.

That's exacly the troupe I like too!

-My First First Love (He is not aggressive but he gets jealous a lot)
-Fight For My Way (Not that aggressive around her)
-Master Devil Do Not Kiss Me (Cdrama, ML is more cold than really aggressive)
-EXO Next Door
-School 2017 (Not really aggressive but a bit loud)
-Kleun Cheewit (Thai Drama)
-Noble, My Love (He is aggressive but I don't like the FL that much)
-Queen of Mystery (He is impulsive)
-Monstar
-The Brightest Star in the Sky (Cdrama)
-Skate Into Love (Cdrama)
-Que Sera, Sera (FL falls in love first and is in my opinion not so likeable as a character but the ML is really aggressive)
-Sawan Biang (Thai Drama)
-Panthakan Rak (Thai Drama)


These are ones I haven't watched, but might fit your description:

-Dragon Day, You're Dead
-Falling for Innocence
-Jealousy Incarnate
-High-end Crush