DalDo.
Honestly it's quite refreshing to see a nerd with no experience in dating life or fancy car become the male lead. I know many women like male lead who is successful, cold personaility outside but actually kind (like the typical male lead in other kdramas), but honestly I feel tired of it after watching so many dramas. I was quite happy to support DalDo because I feel DoSan is the underdog in this story. I'm looking forward for his growth.
MIJI
1. He is realistic, not mean and definitely not wrong. Just because he said something you didn't want to hear, doesn't make him a bad person. None of the inventors wanted to invest in Nam Do San's project and for a good reason. Everything is changing only thanks to Dal Mi who is good at marketing (and Alex ...)
2. I really like his personality. Everything about him. I can really see a person like him in real life too. He is funny and I love him when he is angry. Nam Do San is boring. I like complex characters with emotions which you need to think about to understand. That's Ji Pyeong. We have to think about his feeling to understand him. Nam Do San is just plain simple, nothing to think about - he is smart, shy and sure about his feeling for Dal Mi. I like how Ji Pyeong even himself doesn't understand his own feelings.
3. He wrote the letters. Grandma helped him with a first few, but later he continued to write them on his own and was genuinely looking forward to Dal Mi's responds.
4. He is not selfish, unlike Nam Do San (towards Dal Mi at least). He is lying about the letters so he wouldn't hurt Da Mi's feelings and her memory of her childhood friend and first love. Nam Do San is going too far with trying to cover it up and is doing so for selfish reasons - he wants Dal Mi to continue to like him.
5. Ji Pyeong may not know yet that he likes Dal Mi, but Nam Do San can clearly see it, and does everything to come between them.
6. The love between JP and Dal Mi is so much more believable. He has so many more reasons to like her and to fall in love with her. NDS literally fell in love when he saw Dal Mi standing and waiting to buy a ball from him. And then he became obsessed with her.
7. Development of a relationship is one of the most important things in a drama. We can definitely have that with Ji Pyeong and Dal Mi, while characters who like each other from the start like Nam Do San and Dal Mi just make a drama boring.
8. The way Ji Pyeong looks at Dal Mi. When he first sees her, when he follows her, when he holds his hand while she's entering the car. Even though he says he doesn't like her, he still gives out that sad look when he sees her with Nam Do San. Also the look he gave her when she chose him as a mentor and later when they were talking and then when she said she though he liked her but now knows it's not the truth (it hurt him because it is truth and his feeling are real). When grandma asked him if he had feeling for Dal Mi he said no, but gave off that look of getting caught... And when he looked at her while she was sleeping and later laughed uncomfortably when getting caught.
9. Dal Mi needs him more that Nam Do San. She wants to be a CEO, she needs someone to teach her how to do business. I loved that moment when he opened her bottle of water and helped her write her speech for presentation. Plus he looked really good in that mentor T-shirt. Also it was so funny when he woke up and saw all those 500 messages.
10. Ji Pyeong has problems sleeping and it's because of Dal Mi. And his interactions with that machine he says he doesn't like are so adorable and it is growing on him.
11. Also I know that Nam Joo Hyuk is a lot more famous than Kim Seon Ho and a lot of people have started the drama for him, but Kim Seon Ho's character is so much better written and with more emotions and thoughts. I personally prefer Kim Seon Ho as an actor and he is prettier to me too, but choose him as a character (Ji Pyeong) for his personality and story.
To be honest at first i watch Sandbox because Nam Joo Hyuk is my bias, but as the story goes I couldn't decide whether I want Dal Mi ends up with Nam Do San or Han Ji Pyeong. But boy oh boy isn't episode 7 seal the deal already? I mean at first i still could lie to myself thinking yeah maybe HJP is the male lead but nope, writer-nim make it obviouss. huhu
please writer-nim dont make us suffer like this
To be honest at first i watch Sandbox because Nam Joo Hyuk is my bias, but as the story goes I couldn't decide whether I want Dal Mi ends up with Nam Do San or Han Ji Pyeong. But boy oh boy isn't episode 7 seal the deal already? I mean at first i still could lie to myself thinking yeah maybe HJP is the male lead but nope, writer-nim make it obviouss. huhu
please writer-nim dont make us suffer like this
After completely making my mind for MIJI i got to see this in ep 7
I mean till ep6 i had a little hope for MIJI but now its almost gone. And the reason is not the kiss but the things NDS did in this episode like how he smashed the name plate and came up with such a thoughtful idea for dalmi's grandmother which makes it pretty clear that NDS is the one.
But i still can't accept daldo. It's like first writer made us fall in love with HJP and now they want us to shift for NDS but to me it seems not at all possible. In reply 1988 it was atleast in the last few episodes which made us suffer through SLS but this show is doing that from 1st episode=(
But because this show is perfect in everything except this so i am not gonna drop it because of the frustration;)
dalia:I agree! in ep 3, Ji Pyung is the one who understood her feelings perfectly about wandering aimlessly BUT I can also see Do San changing and begin to understand her as they get closer so :/
I tend to suffer from SLS frequently but this is the FIRST time where I'm not picky at all about who she ends up with! unless one of the male leads change for the worse, I love both Do San and Ji Pyung, they're both endearing in their own way.
so can I say I'm for both? lol
I agree. I am for both right now! I am glad that there are 2 great guys and I am excited to see how it plays out.
I really loved Han Ji Pyeong’s character- so kind and complex. But I really don’t see him ending up with Dal-Mi though?? They’re kinda different and the mentor-mentee dynamic is too strong...
Also...everyone should be clear that Dal-Mi’s first love is NOT Ji Pyeong but the “Nam Do San” Ji-Pyeong created. Yes, it definitely had some resemblance and some personal response written in it, but most of the instances it was just him writing whatever he saw on TV and he wrote it reluctantly... (like the Go-Stop birthday wish).
So MinJi shippers can’t claim that Ji Pyeong has always taken care of her since young...cos it’s not true haha, he just did it out of gratitude for the grandma. point is, Do San and Ji Pyeong are kinda at the same level field- being there for her when she was younger doesn’t make him any better of a partner, what matters is who he is now.
also, I find it kinda ridiculous how she can be so fixated with her first love lol. esp since she fell in love w the letter-guy when she was like 9??
Im sorry to all miji shippers if i feel kind of off to all of you. Hehe. Nothing against. I adore HJP character (greatly thabks to the wonderful portrayal of kim sunho) but not as a potential end game for dalmi but as an individual. I just really want to say that i do understand why most would lean to HJP end game and see dosan as a sly guy for having it easy to have dalmi. But i do think otherwise. Maybe it's because of my personal bias for guys who takes action without second thought (team taekiiiie for example hehe), thats why im a daldo shipper. But i see how dosan is good for dalmi. Ive read the metaphor of dosan to the swing that carries dalmi instead of the sand and i would like to add, that ive realized.. that dalmi is also that swing for his dad before. The one that cheers him as he promotes his ideas, the one that pulls him together despite the difficulties. This similarities with dosan and dalmi makes them a good couple (well for me) aside of course with all otber characteristics.
I like rooting for the underdog, and it's interesting many people feel NDS is the underdog, I actually think it is the other way around. I feel HJP, regardless of his wealth is the big underdog here. Let me explain.
I've only seen until episode 6, but the way I see it, regardless of what happens, NDS would have eventually succeeded or gone somewhere regardless of if he met SDM or HJP. The reason for this is two words, his mom and dad. NDS has always had his parents love and support his whole life, and it has actually shaped NDS to be this kind and caring, albeit naive person. His parents, although they appear strict, know there son well, and never actually discourage him from being too nice, or push him to be overly ambitious. Although their patience began to run thin the older NDS get, they would have supported him and loved him regardless. So even if he didn't meet these other characters, they still would have won KODA, and maybe get an investment from Alex or somebody else. Plus he has these two friends who stick with him for so long, so he has that bond of bromance/friendship.
HJP on the other hand was dealt a bad hand early in life. He had to learn to fend for himself at an early age, and only thru the random kindness of grandma, was able to find stable enough ground to make something of himself. And he has worked tirelessly, and from the looks of it, mostly solo. And being a VC who shuts down so many business proposal, I am sure he has probably not made many fans, which reflects on his cold/selfish, monetary dominated mentality. In fact, quite tragically his closest friend, is his assistant, who only sees HJP as a boss. And prior to reconnecting with Grandma, his only companion when he gets home is his Robo Butler. If he never meets NDS and gang, Grandma, and SDM, it is very likely, he would continue his lonely life, only caring about money, and never being the good boy that grandma always saw in him. By being with SDM, it actually brings the story full circle. HJP was there for SDM during her young lonely years, and now SDM can be there for HJP in his adult lonely years.
With SDM and HJP, I feel both of them can help each other grow.
With NDS and SDM, I feel it's more like a big sister helping the younger brother grow. And it looks like NDS is more of a stepping stone for SDM to reach her goals, as selfish as it sounds.
But having said that, there are just too many scenes being shared by the SDM and NDS, and too many promotional material, and slow motion romantic scenes for HJP to get his happy ending with SDM, so i'm not holding my breath.
DALDO, a very very poor choice of ship name
Anyways
Yes to DALDO
- He's a completely relatable character and they are at the same level career wise (yes that matters). Grow togetther DALDO!
- SDM's passion motivates NDS and SDM works harder seeing NDS work so hard. Make each other's dreams come true!
- He was touched by the letters and showed up to her rescue without anything in return from HJP.
- He knows what he wants and is expressive towards SDM, just SDM herself. No time for tsundere HJP.
- He's emotionally stable. Knit out the anger bros.
- The relationship he formed with grandma :')
- Genuinely likes SDM and doesn't want to see her get hurt (the scene with WIJ's dad)
NO to MIJI
- The plant. Why'd he have to trash the plant like that. Deal with your feelings without denying them.
- He lashed out on SDM when she helped him. Dude needs anger management.
PS: I don't hate HJP. May all the charcters in the drama experience the growth they need, WIJ included.
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