did you realize that this situation (being 40, meaning that it's probably too late for children) is being so usual that you have k-dramas casually depicting this choice? did you have any feeling or thought while watching this drama due to this situation?

in samdal's family the younger sister is the only one having a child. in their friend's group, out of 5 people only 1 was in a relationship and had children.

for me it was like: oh... so now this became a thing so much that no one only talked about this situation. it has become just the day to day normal life.  in 20 years from now the number of humans on earth will fall drastically...

OMG! Never even thought about this! You're right, it was definitely just "normal" in this drama??!!


Is the birthrate and marriage rate truly THAT bad nowadays wow ???

For me, it felt more like this drama was first written with a bunch of people in their late 20s or 30s. And the production decided to add 10 years to everyone last minute.  So the childlessness barely registered. 

I mean, that friend group was incredibly childish, not to mention the sisters. They got drunk basically everyday, skipped work when they fancied, had little to no responsibility (most still worked for their parents  - not that there's anything wrong with working for the family business, but they acted like 15yo watching their mom's shop, not like business quasi-owners  ).

Take the younger sister for example, she's supposed to be a mom of a 9yo but she seldom cares for her. In fact it's the other way around.  She basically drinks every night...  Never is she seen teaching something . Or brushing her hair, feeding her...

Not once are the character seen worrying about money, job security, house payments, the general future, politics and the world...  All things that most 40 yo I know do once in a while

And what cemented this is the attitude of the parents/grandparents towards their children. ( Maybe it's a Korean thing, but what kind of parent scolds and slaps their 40 yo child ?  or even enforces curfew ? ). That attitude seems acceptable towards college kids, not grown ass adults. 


So, I didn't see the childlessness as a reflection of Korea's abysmal birthrate, just as questionable writing. If that was a nod to a broader societal issue, wouldn't the older generation have at least nagged a bit ? Or lamented at the fact ?  Wouldn't it have been addressed ?