Honest Swan

I had so many mixed feelings in the last 5 minutes of the sixth episode. I was at first sad, my endgame didn't work out. So, I was like okay, I can settle for this couple. And then back to sad again (you will know why), then shocked after reveal from the self-cam. I thought I had experienced it all. My last expression was disappointment.
But I enjoyed the show. If I had to rewatch it all again, I would. But please don't show me that ending again. It completely killed me.

I swear this PD is only attracted to making banger dating shows. She never misses. All her ideas are refreshing and you will always see a unique concept. Like its never a cheap copy if ever its a copy. She's almost always original. I would love to see how her brain works. She's simply brilliant. I would love to have that touch.

I might be wrong, but Gyuri just drop out of the show after the rejection date? I am super shocked. Someone clarify it for me if you don't need it subbed.

The ratings for HS has never been good. Maybe look back to when it started airing. I have watched all seasons, and it was a hot topic maybe first ( for just being fresh) and/or second season. After that it just kept retrogressing. And I am not saying about MDL ratings like y'all use to determine a good show.
So the current ratings aren't even bad when they have never been good.

Edit: Actually my favorite was season 3, though it had and still has one of the most disappointing final couples. But the casts and just entire dates were good and fun to watch.

I might be wrong but I think maybe Gyuri dropped out of the show after her rejection on the beach and not the scandal. She didn't go back with him. Again, no subs yet so I can't tell yet.

I just found it interesting. I understand how it can feel like being under attack for your sexuality. There's a lot of that going on. I have just come to the conclusion most of the lgbtq+ don't make sense logically. Because I tried to do that. Like have a one rule fits all. It just doesn't.
To answer you, I thought since they're BI, they'll be like go for someone based on their energies. I was picturing that being BI means that gender isn't necessary. So, they will go for whoever. But I am surprised to see that actually they have a gender that they would want to hook/date more with. And even more surprisingly, its mostly their gender. Like there is no anomaly. So I am left thinking, isn't that just being gay/lesbian with a little sprinkle of being straight. Anyway, it doesn't make sense. Even the guys, like the most popular one and the one after him, just act and feels gay to me. I am sorry for my prejudice. Its just how I see them. The way he acts and talks, he just feels gay to me. If he gets paired with a girl, I would greatly shocked but let's see.

Interesting. I didn't know you could have a preference. You know its like how its black and white for gays/lesbians/straight. Its either that or not. So a BI somehow looks differently. I thought they would have equal chances for everyone. But it turns out, they're actually more willing to make it work same sex than opposite sex. Like for example, the girl that matched with Heejin first episode, when she said what she looks for a girl and boy, they're completely different. Like if its a girl, its filled with more butterflies. But if its a boy, its more comfort, almost a friendship vibe. I found that interesting.

Maybe I am wrong. It could be a week. But we are almost half-way now for it to make sense when we only have like 2 days worth of broadcast.

I think it was a guy he said. Maybe I am wrong. He was in a relationship with a guy for I think 7 years so he wanted a girl this time. Again, its now a guy who he is more interested in.

That I can agree. I don't know why. I guess only a person within their community can understand them.

Thats the thing, because of the rumor, its hard to be objective. The last thing I would want is to gang up against a girl or anyone on the show. The backlash is already enough.
When I said she's on her shell, I meant also that she can come across as mean and selfish in some areas. Especially when you don't heal a traumatic experience. She's a girl who is anxious and worries a lot. You could see that in Seowon's date. In other words, she has a lot of baggage, which I was attributing maybe to having been through a scandal with a married man.
All that said, she is not ideal to date anyone at this point. She needs to get some healing and rediscover herself before she pours herself to anyone. She's more likely to end up in a toxic relationship.

Just watch a few first episodes and decide. I mean all the rumor doesn't matter if you have a bias and they do well. If not, then the show isn't for you.

You are not a good listener are you? I told you where you might get the arguments I am raising. Not even mine, his but it seems it went over your head. And aren't they already taking my advice? They are going for whoever they want and clumsily sharing their feelings. They should keep doing that😂 More or less. More on sharing their feelings and less on changing their crush like cloths.

Yeah, I am not even faulting anyone. They are all doing what they should do. Maybe she noticed maybe she didn't. Who cares. Thats how he felt. I am arguing based on how he felt. If you ask me who is at the wrong? No one. If she didn't notice maybe she didn't like asking or having to take care of him. Or maybe she just thought he's okay.
What matters is what he interpreted it as so that we can understand his actions. Scram off? So now he isn't interested in her? I doubt. Simp and obsessive? I found him a bit delusional instead. He reads too much into things. Things like fate. He wasn't a simp or obsessive anywhere. He reads too much into things. Like the perfume bla bla bla and that it could mean they're fated. I thought its a Korean thing, so I didn't pay much into it. Is he popular? Maybe. But I think he leans more to the girls because they expressed their interest. More like how the girl also changed her priority to him as no. 1 just because he was more expressive towards her.

I am tired of telling you the same thing over again. Go watch the episode again. I am done.

Oh well, thats such a little thing. Judging by how she reacted when he said he went to get the medicine, my guess she already knew. And like he said, she chose to be 'oblivious' of it. They spend the whole day together so she must have known. Her reaction was that, 'You must really be under the weather'. I know its petty but he thought if you like someone and they say they're unwell, you constantly keep on checking on them. And he didn't feel that.
Also, it doesn't matter whether they get paired or not. He should just go for what he is feeling. He is not there to make sure she gets someone at the end of their experience. He is there to get himself someone. So he will act selfishly to explore a connection if he finds one or not. Whether it works out or not, it depends on how sincere he will be.
Also, I can't fault him. He used those big words because thats what he felt at the moment. It was honest in that moment. And I encourage someone to do that under any given situation. Share you feelings. And now he should man-up and use the same energy he used and tell her if his feelings change too in the future.

So I wouldn't advise anyone to play it safe. Express what you feel when you feel it. And thats how you take advantage of any opportunity that comes along. And if those feelings change again, express yourself again. Do not lie, cheat or deceive when your feelings for that person has changed.

Ooh the girl in the kitchen is Han Ju.

You didn't go back to that scene like I told you to. Its literally the last six minutes in the fourth episode. The girl who noticed in the kitchen was not her. The girl in the kitchen literally asked, 'how is your cold? Do you feel better?' I am still not familiar with their names. But the same girl who checked up on him was the one who expressed interest and said she choose him for her first impression. So yeah, you can tell the girl was interested.
Her? I couldn't tell. And that joke doesn't cut it. But okay let's use it as our basis, its true she shows her interest. That doesn't mean she's not interested in the other guy too. The joke doesn't imply he is the only one. And so does him exploring also imply he's not into her anymore.

He's just thinking maybe he's devoted too soon that he hasn't explored others who might be just as compatible. And just like you can go from liking three people to just two, you can go from liking from one person to maybe even three. Its perfectly alright as the show is all about exploring. He just has to be upfront with it and not confuse or lead the girls on. I don't see any trouble with him exploring unless he is leading someone on.

Edit*** By the way, I remember she did say in a roundabout manner that she has only gone to dates with the ones she is interested in. And that clears things up. However, my main point stands. She expressed she has options she's exploring and so should he. I mean if I am not your only one why should you be mine.

Wow, you are so out of the loop. Just a rumor that she had something going on with a married man. The married woman was the one who exposed her and she alleged that Gyuri already knew he was married and with children while having an affair with him. The comments were so nasty and some even said that she slept her way up to a director position. They were so mean that I don't even think it could be true. Maybe a portion of it.
Anyway, as a result, the production decided to reduce her screen time. I didn't notice though because I saw her screen time good enough as she was key part of the love story line in the house.
But I don't know why, after those rumors, I kinda started to see her as a mean girl. I felt bad as a viewer because it could be the scandal that is shaping my perception. But then the truth and dare game episode aired, and I just felt maybe she's someone who is on her own shell. Instead of seeing her negatively, I just felt she just has her defensive guard up, which makes her somehow misunderstood.
She could have made a mistake and dated a married man in the past. Heck, she could also been deceived and lied to by the married man. Only her and the married can tell. But for sure, I can tell she's been hurt before. And in their last date with Wooyeol, he said there's always a disconnect with her and the rest of cast mates because she has her walls up. And I can see that too.

Nope. He told her he was sick. Go watch the episode again. She just never followed up. Like show you are concerned. Okay, let's assume he didn't. Other girls noticed and she didn't. Thats a world difference when you are developing feelings for someone.

Lastly, she can like two guys why can he not? Other girls are doing a good job telling him how they feel. She didn't. Thats where the gap is. So he is feeling like he is pursuing while there are some girls who automatically show interest.
Didn't she do the same? She placed him first because he was expressive. Her first impression guy was her top list until he came along. I am thinking he is matching the energy. Other girls became expressive and he is folding just like she did.