It's the cliché of C-dramas: they make the SML look good, and he is just obsessed with the FL because he loves her that much. Also, she doesn't set boundaries, and she goes to him many times, so it's easy to misunderstand her and think he has a chance. They also give him a sad story so most fans feel sad for him and some start justify his actions, most of the time the SML's story is deeper and more important to the plot than the ML's story, and also they don't write fl have boundaries with sml to make ml misunderstood her and jealous and mad.
so everything is fine but there is something that i dont get it, You've been rejecting the secondary character…
she didn't even need to apologize for that stab because he's who stabbed himself, and you're right she act like she's doing no wrong and when her sister hate her she get disappointed and many say sfl is evil and fl innocent, and ml also has to tolerate it and if he get mad she get mad at him 🙃
so everything is fine but there is something that i dont get it, You've been rejecting the secondary character…
and act as she didn't do anything and some fans also act as others evil and fl just a kind person didn't do anything wrong, and I even disagree with you about her going to him after he stabbed himself it's not her fault.
I don’t know at which episode you are but do keep on watching the first 2 episodes are boring but it gets better…
It's the typical love triangle of K-dramas: two good men chasing the same FL, who likes her job more, while she still has her past relationship problems that need the ML's help to deal with.
As always, the ML loses his personality after he falls for her and just does whatever she likes and whatever makes her happy. He does most, if not all, of the effort in the relationship. And we get the same cliché where the ML says the FL's ex is a great man, and her ex also says the ML is a great man, just to show that her taste in men is good 😂😂😂.
Long story short, it's a drama that tries to show the FL as the greatest and best woman in that world, that she deserves the best, and that she is never wrong and never needs to make an effort for the ML.
With the SML, she makes effort and keeps doing so until the last episode 🙂😂, but with the ML, he is the one who has to do everything and chase after her even after she rejected him, instead of her making an effort to win him back.
What I’m saying is that, for me, it’s just a normal waste of time. I didn’t even see the chemistry people were talking about. Even after dating for one year, they still act like they just started dating. She has less and less time for him, and in the end, she changes her job so she has even less time for him. Then she tells him to move into her house so she can have someone to help her with the dishes and cleaning 😂😂😂.
I can’t find any good reason for her decision except that, and it’s another FL who doesn’t want marriage while the ML does, but he has to change his mind about it so they can be together.
no but her appearing in court dress does make sense because it's mentioned her entourage was deployed to the front…
about fl!? so all three or four like fl!? thank you, I read she was married to one and engaged to another and now she's with ml is it true!? is it like love like galaxy!?
no but her appearing in court dress does make sense because it's mentioned her entourage was deployed to the front…
what you mean by 2 leads bickering!? are you talking about the leads fl and ml or someone else!? thank you, and is she have time alone with other "harem reverse" of her or only with ml thank you
what ml you're talking about!? and what happened to the 304 fl also thank you
thank you I appreciate it and sorry for wasting your time, I wouldn't watch it even if they're good people because I don't like love triangle and you said they are trash🚮 so it's impossible to waste even one minute watching a clip about it 😅 , and you said they get happy ending 😕🙁 what a frustrating thing they did, if I watched it I will travel to China to find the writer to talk with him just talk 😅😂😂😂
i'm sorry but it is so annoying that she never slapped mundo or the fiancee once and I know it's all part of the…
it's the cliché in kdrama and C-drama fl slapping ml is showing her love and respect and disappointment on him and he fall for her more because of the slap and in this she did it twice 😅😂😂 I talked about it below.
what ml you're talking about!? and what happened to the 304 fl also thank you
oh but I watch in the clip that she go to her ex ( lin bai as you said) but I read below that he's also a trash worse than her !?
this drama is a trash and I didn't even start watching 😅😂😂 get confused who's more worse and live triangle I dislike especially like this when fl dating two same time lol .
I've seen SML (2nd Prince of B state) slapped SFL(Grand Princess of A state) in a Chinese Drama, Fated Hearts.…
They say that because they hate that SFL and what she did, and there is a difference between MLs and supporting characters. Let’s say he slapped the FL , you would read the opposite reaction. I’m talking about the main leads in this kind of situation, not evil characters where you expect anything from them, because you can always read comments wishing horrible characters death, not just that they get slapped 😂😂😂. And I’m sure if we use “context” as an excuse, we would end up accepting many cases of abuse, domestic violence, and crimes of many kinds. Being abusive is not acceptable, and that’s it. Any excuse or attempt to make it seem okay is wrong. And anyone who thinks there is a difference between a woman slapping a man and a man slapping a woman is showing a double standard. If someone wants equality between men and women, the same standard should apply to both, especially in something where we don't have any differences.
what ml you're talking about!? and what happened to the 304 fl also thank you
oooh boy you're saying to me he ended with her even after she cheated on him and left him for the other one!? sorry I just watched a clip of her was with her ex for one week and she comes to break up with him and left him 🙂
She's an ancient royal concubine who may have slapped a lot of people in her past life. Even in the first episode…
If we follow your logic, we would have to not say anything about the king because he’s a king, and doing what he’s doing is normal for someone like him too. It’s just his character sitting there. 🙂🙃 Being a concubine or an empress doesn’t give her the right to do that. It is only accepted because it’s the FL doing it. We have seen many MLs who are kings and emperors not do anything like this to an FL who was rude toward them. Our discussion is about the writers, not the characters. If we only talk about the characters, then there is nothing to discuss because it’s just a drama, not real life. But the writers and fans who praise these abusive scenes are the issue. If she is disappointed with him or hurt by him, she should talk about it, just like he should talk to her, or she can be angry and let him chase after her as he did from the beginning. That’s enough. It doesn’t need to turn an abusive act into a romantic scene and say it happened because she was disappointed or too angry. fl also could have talk to him about it and assure him she's also deeply in love with him and he's misunderstood her and that's it or jer ego can't let her think from his pov!?
I really hate how physical violence from the female side is somehow normalized within some female communities…
Yes, unfortunately , it's normalized it has become like a love confession and a way to show how disappointed she is with the ML when she slapped him because her ego can't accept him misunderstood her or say to her something bad . I agree with you completely. I find this double standard absurd, and it even exists in real life: when a woman slaps or hits a man, it is often seen as not that serious, and some people even laugh about it. You can read comments here or on other platforms where people make excuses for it or don’t even see it as something worth discussing. It’s just “the FL slapping the ML,” so it’s treated as a normal thing. They say he deserved the slap, and since he didn’t say anything about it, why should we even talk about it? But you notice that when the situation is reversed, it’s almost never shown in romantic comedy dramas. It’s usually in melodramas, and it’s used to show him as a scumbag or a red flag because he “can’t communicate.” And what’s even more absurd is that even scumbag or red-flag characters usually apologize for the slap, but you will never see a FL apologize for it in this romance kdrama C-drama Turkish drama . Why? Because she often doesn’t even think she did something wrong, and many fans don’t think she did either some even love her more because she slapping him in Turkish🇹🇷 drama because it's long you will see her slapping him many times and no one say anything about it . I bet if she apologized, some people would say she didn’t have to or think she's soft 😅
most of the time the SML's story is deeper and more important to the plot than the ML's story, and also they don't write fl have boundaries with sml to make ml misunderstood her and jealous and mad.
and you're right she act like she's doing no wrong and when her sister hate her she get disappointed and many say sfl is evil and fl innocent, and ml also has to tolerate it and if he get mad she get mad at him 🙃
and I even disagree with you about her going to him after he stabbed himself it's not her fault.
I watch a clip her sister husband also love her !? because he was mad she was marrying ml!!?
As always, the ML loses his personality after he falls for her and just does whatever she likes and whatever makes her happy. He does most, if not all, of the effort in the relationship. And we get the same cliché where the ML says the FL's ex is a great man, and her ex also says the ML is a great man, just to show that her taste in men is good 😂😂😂.
Long story short, it's a drama that tries to show the FL as the greatest and best woman in that world, that she deserves the best, and that she is never wrong and never needs to make an effort for the ML.
With the SML, she makes effort and keeps doing so until the last episode 🙂😂, but with the ML, he is the one who has to do everything and chase after her even after she rejected him, instead of her making an effort to win him back.
What I’m saying is that, for me, it’s just a normal waste of time. I didn’t even see the chemistry people were talking about. Even after dating for one year, they still act like they just started dating. She has less and less time for him, and in the end, she changes her job so she has even less time for him. Then she tells him to move into her house so she can have someone to help her with the dishes and cleaning 😂😂😂.
I can’t find any good reason for her decision except that, and it’s another FL who doesn’t want marriage while the ML does, but he has to change his mind about it so they can be together.
thank you and have a great day as well bye.
this drama is a trash and I didn't even start watching 😅😂😂 get confused who's more worse and live triangle I dislike especially like this when fl dating two same time lol .
thank you and sorry for bothering you
And I’m sure if we use “context” as an excuse, we would end up accepting many cases of abuse, domestic violence, and crimes of many kinds.
Being abusive is not acceptable, and that’s it. Any excuse or attempt to make it seem okay is wrong. And anyone who thinks there is a difference between a woman slapping a man and a man slapping a woman is showing a double standard. If someone wants equality between men and women, the same standard should apply to both, especially in something where we don't have any differences.
thank you
Being a concubine or an empress doesn’t give her the right to do that. It is only accepted because it’s the FL doing it. We have seen many MLs who are kings and emperors not do anything like this to an FL who was rude toward them.
Our discussion is about the writers, not the characters. If we only talk about the characters, then there is nothing to discuss because it’s just a drama, not real life. But the writers and fans who praise these abusive scenes are the issue. If she is disappointed with him or hurt by him, she should talk about it, just like he should talk to her, or she can be angry and let him chase after her as he did from the beginning. That’s enough. It doesn’t need to turn an abusive act into a romantic scene and say it happened because she was disappointed or too angry.
fl also could have talk to him about it and assure him she's also deeply in love with him and he's misunderstood her and that's it or jer ego can't let her think from his pov!?
it has become like a love confession and a way to show how disappointed she is with the ML when she slapped him because her ego can't accept him misunderstood her or say to her something bad .
I agree with you completely. I find this double standard absurd, and it even exists in real life: when a woman slaps or hits a man, it is often seen as not that serious, and some people even laugh about it.
You can read comments here or on other platforms where people make excuses for it or don’t even see it as something worth discussing. It’s just “the FL slapping the ML,” so it’s treated as a normal thing. They say he deserved the slap, and since he didn’t say anything about it, why should we even talk about it?
But you notice that when the situation is reversed, it’s almost never shown in romantic comedy dramas. It’s usually in melodramas, and it’s used to show him as a scumbag or a red flag because he “can’t communicate.”
And what’s even more absurd is that even scumbag or red-flag characters usually apologize for the slap, but you will never see a FL apologize for it in this romance kdrama C-drama Turkish drama . Why? Because she often doesn’t even think she did something wrong, and many fans don’t think she did either some even love her more because she slapping him in Turkish🇹🇷 drama because it's long you will see her slapping him many times and no one say anything about it .
I bet if she apologized, some people would say she didn’t have to or think she's soft 😅