10joyboy

yes , mature relationship that both partners make effort for each other and love each other, and respect each other, not only on one to make the relationship successful,
I like the Cdrama with this kind of mature relationships like; road home/ forever and ever/hidden love/the brocade and sword ( after she knows she misunderstood him she make more effort to win him back and apologize sincerely and show her love )

this dramas remember with mature relationship that both make effort even if someone make more than the other but not like this fantasy romance about Simps and red flags fls

Yes, it's a toxic way to show them loving fls like that and they always fell in love from first sight, and chased after fls even if fls rejected them a couple of times and they low themselves to be in friendzone and do everything to make fls fall for them !!! What is absurd is when they write mls as CEOs and high-value men fall for fls and all the time chase them and make all the effort, and help them, and give their jobs less time and focus more on chasing fls who are more interested in her job and career ( and she never in drama make him more important than her job), and they write that kind of men never being in relationships and perfect green forest that do everything in the relationship and never ask for anything from their partner lol, even being friends with men that also like them romantically is okay because they are afraid to make them angry if they say something about their jealousy, so they don't have any boundaries or standard.


like you said it's pure fantasy, like how someone will wait faithfully for years and years without even look at another women thinking always about some ex that he don't even know is she's married or in relationship!!! and still love her and want to be with her even if she is married or in relationship or she don't love him anymore!? and who is this man who accept to get humiliated by her and her friend and her love interest and still act normal and accept it, and has to apologize every time but she never apologize for her being a bad girlfriend in past!?
this is just in tv shows specially asian shows

You're the minority here who think logically about these Cdramas with simps and red flag fls that only think about themselves and their careers, and mls has to do everything in the relationship and tolerate everything from fls, and apologize even if he didn't do anything wrong and never wait for fl to apologize, or do something for him in the relationship except give him some intimacy when she wanted lol.

I was waiting she make more effort to win him back and show her love like she did for the sml but no this crazy writer make ml a big simp and made fl act like he has to do everything to win her, and she don't give a dam if she ended with him or not, and what is crazy is that she didn't make them get together earlier to see fl doing something for him and even date for some time before get engaged from start without give FL time to make it for him and show her love , not just him !?

Yes, it was the logical thing he had to do but no he got back to her and chased her and she acted hard to get and humiliated him and acted like she never did anything wrong, and it's his fault that he likes her and she was just using him like a boyfriend take her in dates and always beside her in time she was running after the other guy that doesn't look at her and was liking another girl, she did for the sml more she did for ml in all drama, and she always blaming him and she never says it's her fault lol,

I still don't get how that drama is one of the best romance Cdramas for the majority of viewers and has a high rating,

the writer is a girl who writes her dream men and how she likes to make them love slaves that don't see any other women in the world except fls, and fl has multiple men around her and even she loves and makes more effort for someone that doesn't like her but for the one who loves her, she makes him suffer to be with her and has to deserve her !!!!

Lol if you remember I told you it's a Chinese drama lol so never think that they will make mls move on, or not be simps running after red flags fl even though they get humiliated and suffer all the time and it's one one-sided relationship and even if there a SML around fl lol, I know Cdrama very well so I stopped watching it a long time ago, and especially this writer lol like a river runs through him, ml was sml for most of drama and fl didn't love him till last episodes and they didn't get together till last minute lol so I bet she will make another last-minute happy ending and he will propose to her directly without dating 😅😂😅😅😅😂😂

you replied lol , have a good night, at the end it's just drama not that serious 🙃

sorry for my bad english


I don't I just find it absurd how they say those who hate a drama is a moron but if they say they are also morons for liking the drama is a bad thing, and they say it's a fictional character so why they defending it like it's their family lol, and it's not a hypocrite of me to say it's a hypocrite because I don't say it's not allowed of them to say it but just don't make others morons because they don't like what you like or stop them criticize the drama you like,

it's their right to write in any place why do they have to go to feeds or other options!? Why not who likes it there!?
It's a free app so I write what I like and don't like about anything negatively or positively and if you have another opinion just say it and we can debate about it or not, and that's it not say who didn't like a drama is a moron because he criticizes what you like!? Is this free of speech!? And what they said is that it's fictional characters and scenarios so why do they act like it's not !? And has to call real people morons because of fictional characters!?

I as a man I stopped watching Cdrama and kdrama because of this and just read about here lol, it's frustrating to watch a man act like a slave in love and all what he dream about and think it f is fl and be in love with her , and he has no dignity or backbone, always chasing fl and wait for her even if it takes years, and tolerate everything and forgave her easy even if she killed his mom lol

unfortunately it's a Cdrama lol so The make men in general faithful to their love even after breakup and don't get with anyone in time fl or sfl have other men and even get married and have kids likyin this case, and he will end up with her and be a step dad and he will make everything in the relationship and she just enjoy getting with her past love after she tried her other choices, and stuff she don't do any effort to win him back or in the relationship lol. I bet he will take care of her daughter more than her taking care of him lol .

so you have the power to watch that waste of time drama couple of times !?
waw you have super powers lol, I still feel frustration just remembering how ml was a simp without any dignity just a useless love slave, and do everything to be with her I time she just make her job first and her father and family and oh boy if ml did the same she get angry at him and he has to coax her, and her father also humiliated him and talk like ml is second degree citizen and it's his luck that makes him be with his high value daughter ( fl), I didn't even watch the drama but just some recap videos and read spoilers about it and I get frustration lol

I think you don't know Cdrama very well lol , I'm sorry to say it to you but you will get very disappointed if you think he will stop running after her or sacrifice for her to look at him for a second, and it's a more impossible to see her making effort to be with him lol, even when she realize that she love him she will not make any effort, she will even think to kit be with him and he will again chase after her lol , and she didn't even done ruine his life yet , it's a Cdrama so never think ml will have more important things than fall in love with fl or working to make her fell for him , or he will ever be mad at her because of what she did to him, or stop loving her because she stopped loving him and even have multiple men after him in time he was faithful waiting for her and still dreaming about her,

I bet it will just the same happy ending that fl success in her dream after ml help her and she realizes she love him at the last episode and get toghether and she apologize like she did a small mistake and he they make him cook and clean the house waiting for her to come from work late lol

I see you watch Cdrama a lot so you like me know for a fact she will be even angrier at him because she was an evil person because of him lol, this a Cdrama so ml is a simp and Fl is an independent strong feminist who her job is more important than a useless Simp lol, and she had enough of men in her life lol,

I bet she will not even apologize properly and he will say it's his fault and sacrifice more for her to accomplish what she wants, it's just another Cdrama with spinless ML and a red flag fl that they make her look independent and justify her wrongdoing like it's his fault so she doesn't do anything wrong by ruined his career .

it is in synopses , that have intimacy issues, and if she just sleep with one is the other really her husband!? or she just using him for other things, and is he a man to accept to be in a relationship without intimacy and watch her intimate with her second husband!?

but you never think why it's always just fl that can do this but not mls

the difference is they say it's bad to be a murderer and they make murdered get to prison or get killed, nit like this plot when they say it's normal and it's just another way of doing it lol

but it's not your damn business to say anything about others who didn't like what you like, and it's like you said it's fictional so it's not hurting anyone by saying bad things about it, and I bet if they call you a moron because liking this plot you be offended! But you just need people to like it or don't say anything bad about it !?

a reply to someone think if someone didn't like what she likes they're morons and they have to stop saying anything bad about what she likes to be watch, hypocrite

maybe you didn't realize how you sound Hypocrite and have a double standard, and the dictatorship of others' right to feel or say what they like to say because it's fictional it's not your personal situation to call them morons for it, then they will be morons to say something about you or other how they chose to live their life, but if it's just fictional, what gives you the right to call them that if they don't like this crazy plot!?

is there a jdrama about ml married to more than a woman!?

I know the story of a Japanese man in real life has more than three wives and three girlfriends and has more than 8 children with them and he's a house husband and the women working lol , but I don't know if there a jdrama about ml has many wives!?

you're the first one who said what I was thinking for years lol still amazed every time I see the rating so high for a romance drama that mls get toghether and engaged directly ( because there no time for dating, it lost in fl chasing sml lol ) and ml was a an athlete because he run after her all drama and even when she was chasing another man he was helping her lol .

I still get amazed how this is a high rating romance drama and mls didn't get together till last minute literally lol !!! and she was loving another guy for half or the drama and ml was given sml vibes that get the girl at the end !!!! and she act like that it's all his fault and not even make any effort to be with him or apologize for her ignoring him while she's always around sml !!!