Timi89

I loved this drama so much, but there is a huge question for me that I don't understand at all... why is everyone blaming the ML? he didn't do anything wrong, he tried to prevent the old man to invest hastily and impulsively, he tried to kill himself and the car accident was just that and accident... so I really don't understand this aspect of the story... this was the only downside for me, otherwise it was perfect

For me personally it is not normal either healthy that the woman controls. A relationship, especially a mutual and healthy relationship should be managed as much as possible by both parties, reciprocity and emulation are vital for a healthy growth, if one is dominant and the other submissive how can that be called a healthy relationship? Always pushing and never truly trusting that one can become their best selves without pressure and expectations is not a healthy example. At the end he fully dedicated himself to her, did everything for her, went back to school for her protection, if we dedicate fully ourselves to another person and do things only because of them, then what happens when that person disappears? The motivation also goes with them, because there is no one to push us anymore. For me, those 5 years of missing from each others life was pointless and unnecessary, they missed so many happy moments and hardships that they could've faced together just because of a stupid idea "grow up before we can be together" instead of "let's grow together", this story didn't convey true love just heavy attachment and clinging to each other. For me this wasn't an example of healthy relationship, the only cdrama that has a truly healthy relationship is "Shine on me" with Song Weilong, my ultimate favourite example how a relationship should be, with bad and good, but together.

I haven't seen yet the last episode, it will appear today, I don't really have a problem with the pacing of the drama, however I would've loved 2-3 extra episodes detailing there adult life and their relationship, just like how detailed was that one year which took up 27 episodes 😅I think they would've deserved at least 5 episodes being together as adults.

Chinese mentality is different from western, most Chinese men need to prove that they are worthy of the woman's love, since they come from different financial backgrounds, he had to prove that he will be able to take care of her in the future. I honestly don't understand either, but in many scenarios (especially in cdramas, but in some cases in reality as well) this happens. I personally don't agree with this attitude, in my opinion they could've grown together to become their best selves and not wait until everyone is the best and enter a relationship. This in my opinion is not a good example, that you can have a healthy relationship only if you achieved your best self. What is your opinion?

no worries it wasn't that expensive, at least we know now

yes the last scene is the wedding photo shoot

I just downloaded mango tv and bought subscription and the 46 ep are the same as the 40 episodes just on mango tv each episode is shorter

thanks, I was confused why does it say here in the description that it has 46 episodes

on viki there is also only 40 episodes

can someone please tell me where can I watch episodes 41-46? on iqiyi and netflix there are only 40 episodes. thanks

I like this series so much… showing how great food can bring family and friends closer to each other, very beautifully made and intentional

it is quite funny 😂😂😂laughed a lot

oh I know… possessiveness can bring out the worst in people… being grateful and being possessive are two different things… why are all the SML so clingy… I don’t understand… where is there dignity? 🙄

me too 🤩

I was actually thinking the same 😅it is so repetitive and kind annoying sometimes…

most actresses don’t bulk up for these kind of roles… because they are playing 2 genders, if she would be bulk then she couldn’t play the wife role in these episodes… also in European tv shows like Fantaghiro, the actress also isn’t bulk…

oh… then of course he wouldn’t recognise her… thanks!

the only annoying thing for me is that I can’t understand such a well trained and highly perceptive general how cannot recognise He Rufei in He Yan, especially when she wears that fox mask 😫can someone who read the novel tell me when does the ML recognise the FL as He Rufei?

I so agree with you, and I also know that sadly these kind of situations happen way to many times in real life and not so many people are so blessed to meet someone like the FL or their insecurities are stronger and run away without a trace… I am really happy that they made the tv show to these kind of things

I resonated so much with those words, the last few episodes were so full of important messages that a lot of people should take into consideration regarding their own life