Drama passerby

Exactly.
I’m seeing comments blaming the FL (just silly to me).
The power dynamic is so off, FL is basically an innocent and ML is taking advantage of it.
He’s emotionally unavailable and doesn’t want to commit, he knows she’s a relationship girlie but is basically manipulating her into a situationship and worse with her boss.
I wish she had asked advice from her senior (even though we know she wouldn’t take it).
Her keeping it a secret from everyone and trying to force distance is part of her brain that wants to protect her and knows that relationship is bound to fail.

He’s hot but a red flag and heartbreaker. From the beginning, I have been screaming “run flora”. He’s so emotionally unavailable and he knows she’s not the type to have a fling but bro wants to have his cake and eat it. I feel sorry for our poor innocent zhitao, she’s in for major heartbreak.
Episode 10 will not change your mind, his communication skills zero but he’s still hot😩

It’s the usual not loved at home red flag man excuse.
He’s obviously afraid to put his feelings out there thinking he would be disappointed so he will rather be the villain.

Well said.

Because women have needs and there’s nothing wrong in that, that’s a sexist mindset. The problem is being in an unequal relationship.

Episode 7 was painful to watch.
Have to try and see if I can watch till 11 since I already downloaded it.
The comedy is cool but it’s too unserious sometimes like the kuai si character just up and became unserious, it’s weird and not in his character setting.

Her father keeps taking shamelessness to new heights. He’s like a parasitic worm, jumping from one host to another.

Ep24-28
I really need someone to beat up young Yu and Mr fu. I can’t stand them.
Anytime I see Yu acting out his obsession after trying to destroy her life, I want to pull a jiang ruan on him

I’m happy madam Chen called Fan out, she acts like a noble lady without having the smarts of one and thinks everyone owes her something .

Ep 24-27
I somehow blame mrs Yu for the current situation with young Yu family. She should have never let him marry fan. He’s so greedy and irresponsible, if he doesn’t love his wife at least have respect for each other.

Ep 24-27
Working for the emperor is definitely a tough job.

It kind of shows you how knowledge isn’t everything . Dude is rotten to the core plus the entitlement, urgh

Ep 16:
Xie tingyun isn’t angry at that Yu dude enough. This guy ruined her now he wants her (men like him that think people are on this earth to serve them). The sheer audacity, wants her as what, his concubine. I was fuming.

Yu Asking zhao ling if he deserved her pissed me off.
Zhao picked her up at her lowest, went with her to lichuzn town even when he didn’t want to , joined the army for her.
That man puts her above himself, let’s be for real.

Episode 15.
Here wer go again, another saint. I guess I’m too bloodthirsty 🤣.
I might (might) save Ms Zuo but I’m never saving a man that did what Yu dude did to her.

Ep 15.
Where does such madness come from?
The hate Yu dude has for xie tingyun and her man plus his jealousy is wild to me. Just a hateful fellow.

Ms Zuo left with a bang. I hate her but she will be missed. Sis was like a cockroach that wouldn’t die

I just love a man that worships his woman especially when he marries “above his station”.
He reminds me of ashes or crown,

General Mo’s wife and concubine are petty and ridiculous.
Makes me side eye him.

Ep 11- 14.
Though I hate ms Zuo, one thing I love about her was she wore her villianry with pride and used the system to her benefit. She was just too bitter and as usual blamed others for self harm and wanted others to share her misery.