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I'd have to rewatch to be more precise with the example, but there's what comes to mind overall: When you're pursuing someone it's a norm for guys to being gentle, doing things for them and stuff, right? But there were scenes where he crossed the line. He gave her the umbrella in the rainy day, nice gesture, but also an excuse to see her again (was used in More Than Friends too). He does everything to make her have good time, being positive, smile in his presence and while there is nothing inherently wrong with it, it can create a psychological and chemical bound when you associate the good feeling with the person. (Jae On uses more of this psychological manipulations tho, like touching the bare skin, smells, smiling a lot, gazing ect, so it's hard to beat him in that). Life is not only about feeling good tho. I think that a good partner needs to share also bad moments with you and being more open with each other about each other's flaws. He constantly over prizes her, despite knowing she lacks confidence and makes her feeling indebted to him with his attention and presents, which is another way to bond her to him. He said she was his first love in front of everyone, that pressures her into taking him in consideration, because now her friends know and will ask about him. Most importantly he lied Jae On about how she feels about him. It was never his role to say that to him. Even if they started dating, that's something that she herself needs to say.

Doing what exactly? This comment is pointing out ONE thing, not talking about the relationship or the show as a whole. He is a hypocrite and so? It doesn't mean other characters are better. You're being overly defensive for no reason.

I advise you to not read this comment section if you're behind with the episodes. Almost no one is using the spoiler tag anymore.

Na Bi has a not cured PTSD, lacks self esteem so much that she jumps on any guy giving her minimum attention (and tries to keep all of them, without saying a straight no), thinks with her vagina, instead of working harder. Jae Eon has a very wrong idea of a relationship, that keeps hurting people around and himself and also acts obsessed and manipulates girls into sleeping with him. Do Hyuk is sweet, sure, but he can be manipulative when it comes to Nabi. He does anything to conquer her, even some wrong things. Seol Ah also is obsessive and jealous. NaBi's aunt is dumb for letting a stranger in her house and believing his words just like that! He might have been Nabi's stalker she ran from to another city! (Well, he kinda is). Bit Na is probably aromantic, which is fine, but she need to be more considerate of Kyu Hyun's feelings (or even other people's ones since she enjoys the gossip even if that makes people uncomfortable/hurt). Kyu Hyun on the other hand didn't even give her a try and just broke up because she didn't meet his expectations. Seo Ji Wan needs to figure out how she feels. She's been in a comfortable zone where she can keep Sol without being open about who they are, that's not ok. At the same time Sol was angry with her, but it's her fault too for not have been open about her feelings and orientation in the first place. How are people supposed to know you might like them not just like a friend? They don't read you mind. Sure, there were signs, but it's not one sided fault. Same for the pair with glasses. JUST TALK. Jeez. It's not like you're 10 yrs olds, you're adults!

Don't try to defend him. They are both being toxic and immature in their relationship. It's never one person's fault.

I hope the ending will give a good lesson for the young audience watching, really.

Who are the characters on this show being smart/mature/emotionally/stable/not toxic? I can't find ONE. Hoping in an eye opening finale with some characters acknowledging their flaws at least (it may be a little too late and rushed to show a development).

sssssssssh let the people keep pretending he's a misunderstood poor guy who fall in love for the first time.

He missed her so much, that he f*cked other girls in her absence. hahahahahaH Sounds more like he missed some good b* job.

Exactly. I just can't stand all the characters in this show :°D

HAHAHAHAHAH

mood!

Thank you very much for sharing! *fangirling*

I'm more surprised of the fact that there are people who don't see how problematic his character is and defend him. It's scary to think who they might end up dating irl.

He condemned her for doing exactly what he has done before. That's what makes him a hypocrite / moralist aka "a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings" . He stated that it hurt him that she doesn't replayed if she was dating but he didn't do that either before. He's consistently being toxic, that's for sure.

I'm not blaming him, just stating a fact: he's a hypocrite. Him being one doesn't make her a better person.

She answered that "Right. It's not my business", because with that answer he made a line between them again. And that's exactly what she has done to him in the next episode. She learned from him.

he never said he's not f*cking other girls. He said "that's not the issue". A normal answer for someone just sleeping around. If he was sincere and really cared about her feelings he would say he doesn't have a gf or at least that they broke up because he wants to be with her.

Ji Wan learning more about her sexuality is so cute.

She asked about him dating another girl in episode 7.