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I believe it meant he wants to marry her.... I remember reading comments when that episode aired. I could be wrong.

I think he assumes that she rejected him because she wanted someone with more power and status. After all, he had good impression at the beginning. If not, why did he even propose to her? I would love to see his reaction when he learns that she had no idea what that ball meant...

How awkward must be, to be CSS? She ends up being in the same place as LY, YS and LBY so often. If I was her, I would die of awkwardness.

Wasn't slavery legal in joseon dynasty? You can imagine what sort of person @ACB would be, if she was born then. That's why I said, they are an awful person.

Thank you for respecting my opinion. It is your right to think I am being aggressive, and it's uncalled for. It is as much your right as it is my right to think she is a lazy, self-centred and arrogant person who doesn't deserve to be a parent.

You can't be a hypocrite. You think expressing your negative feelings towards homosexuality is warranted and acceptable. Then I get to express my negative feelings toward a despicable person.

Don't force me to think like you. Don't interfere with my personal beliefs. I think you will make a lazy, self-centred, and arrogant parent. It's my belief. You have the right to be conservative, yes. I have the right to believe that you don't deserve to become a parent.

You believe same sex couple doesn't deserve to have their relationship be legally recognized. I believe you don't deserve to become a parent. I am not asking you to change your belief. Don't ask me to change my belief. I, without any doubt, believe that it would be a curse to have a parent like you. You are disgusting person. I hope you never become a parent. It's just my belief. I have right to my belief the same way you have right to your belief. No offense.

It's not a cultural difference, it is a generational difference.

We live in the information era, where you can use the internet to learn and understand anything. In this time and place, if you choose to be ignorant, if you chose to bully your child, you deserve to be disowned.

After all, it shows what kind of a parent you will be. Lazy, self-centred and arrogant. My parents are way better than you. They don't know English, they are extremely religious and conservative, and they use the internet only to share pictures with relatives. Yet, when I told them I am gay, they educated themselves. They were very careful about what they said. They apologised if they misspoke and hurt my feelings. they ensured that I know that I am more important to them than anything else.

It's not cultural difference that makes encourage your kids to cut you off. It's my standard for parental love. After having my parent's love, I am disgusted by the thought someone like you could become a parent. How Lazy. How self-centered. How arrogant. You find homosexuality to be disgusting? I find parents like you to be disgusting.

I am not from the west. I don't care about politics. I care about science, evidence and facts. I care about what science says about homosexuality, not culture, not religion.

Thankful, my Asian parents valued me, more than their cultural and traditional practices.

If I were your kid, I would walk out of your life when I turn 18. I wouldn't respect or care about you. I won't care if you are dead or alive. If you can't accept your child, the way you gave birth to, then you don't deserve to be a parent.

Imagine living in 21st century and relying on 20th century science.

Yes, you are right. It wasn't Golden Girls, it is "All in the Family", the episode, Cousin Liz, aired on October 9, 1977. And it was reaired the night before California voted on Briggs Initiative.

It is from this video: https://youtu.be/_6HYnz2ToFg I watched it long ago. It's beautiful channel, it examines the old tv shows, and how they influenced public opinion on issues around gay rights.

They also have a video on Golden Girls. You could check it out if you are interested.

Precisely! US did that in 1970s and 80s. Which is what lead to wider acceptance of LGBTQ people today.

Yeah, it is not documentary.. lol

Golden Girls [Correction: It was "All in the Family", the episode, Cousin Liz, aired on October 9, 1977. And reaired on the day before the election] had a plot line that criticized discrimination against gays and lesbians. In that episode, when one of the leads makes a discriminatory comment, all others question her. The whole scene makes it feel like anti-discrimination was the norm, and the discriminatory comment was the one that was out of place, and quite shocking. FYI, all the four leads are old women, and this episode aired on 1978. Not your liberal America.

Also, the polls showed that Briggs Initiative had enough votes to pass. [Briggs Initiative is California Proposition 6 which prohibited gays and lesbians from working in schools, and with children]. The show aired a few days before the voting.

Similarly, Golden Girls did another episode on Same-sex marriage.

That's just one example I can think of. There as always been a practice of using media to normalize a minority who are generally hated and discriminated by public. Given how the show is challenging the viewers on autism, it is quite possible the lesbian scene was written to challenge the Koreans about the homophobia in their own country.

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I like this. Yes, I think that is what the wedding dress moment was. He was intrigued by her from the revolving door incident. He develops a admiration from the time they work their first case together. Like, if you remember the scene where she tells the defendant, that defendant's behavior is consistent with someone who is in love, and someone who intended to kill her husband. He develops a respect and admiration for her.

Similarly, before wedding scenes, we see him constantly being intrigued by her peculiar way of doing things, and awed by her talents and skills.

He truly means it when he says he would like to have her as attorney by his side in ep 4.

There was a moment, JH felt very conflicted when in episode 5 when she coached a witness on lying to the Court. He didn't immediately jump to a conclusion.

It was like, he knew enough about her, and he felt she was being different at that instant. He either thought it wasn't his place to call her out, or he was thinking maybe there is more to her. That is, she cares about winning more than being on the good side. It was reasonable doubt too because, before ep 5, she was on the right side of the case. So, he doesn't know if she cares about justice or winning.

When he finally sees her in the pantry at the end of the episode, being embarrassed. He wasn't really surprised, but he also had a sigh of relief.

It was refreshing to see an ML who was observing and drawing conclusions after being thorough. Instead of jumping to conclusions, imagine the absolute worst of the FL.

Also, I liked how he gets to know her through day-to-day life, and her work life. To me, it feels more mature and realistic.

Can anyone share the literal translation of the conversation between WYW and her biological mom, at the end of episode 8? I feel like the English subtitles on Netflix didn't reflect the intensity of WYW's questions.

IKR? Also, people who have really been in love won't bother looking for "reason" someone fell in love. We can try and rationalize it, make a list of reasons why we fall in love (not infatuate) with someone. If we meet someone else with the same qualities, they won't move us.

When we fall for someone, we ourselves don't know why exactly. How can a third person understand it better?

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