It is kind of sadistic, what Ji Woo does. I hated it too, and thought it would be better off if they didn't get…
I don't think so. Sometimes, some conversation changes things more than professional help. I have personally experienced it.
For JW, it was that conversation with his ex. The idea of missing someone, he never missed his ex, but he missed SJ. He thought it was a bad thing, but during the conversation with his ex, he realized. It just meant that he didn't have any real feelings for his ex, but he did have feelings for SJ. He also ended up acknowledging SJ was already doing his best.
Also, one of their conversation, right before they get together was that they would share their concerns without self-censoring. Which immediately JW does. By opening up about how he feels jealous when SJ socializes unreservedly.
Sure, what you said is still possible. But I would put it at 50-50 odds. Before watching last two episodes, I thought odds of JW going back to toxic behavior was higher.
JW's biggest problem was he put his pride above his relationship, the way he waited outside the door after SJ chased him from the forest. That, old JW wouldn't have done.
I'm seeing people saying they loved it cause it felt real and they could connect with it.. I'm sorry... who in…
It is kind of sadistic, what Ji Woo does. I hated it too, and thought it would be better off if they didn't get back together. But, I liked how SJ gives up and walk away. When JW comes back, he is open-minded enough to hear SJ out. And they talk it out, before getting back together. If I was in SJ's place, and if I had truly loved JW, this is how I would have reacted too.
I think no people who in the comment section didn't feel loneliness in a relationship/life ever in their life.…
I don't think it is JUST that though because especially after Ep 7, where we see JW had known all along that SJ was doing his best, whereas, he never did that for his ex gf.
But, definitely part of the reason.
P.S I have experienced loneliness. My last relationship ended because I felt lonely in it. My ex wouldn't miss even a single work event. Unlike SJ, it wasn't even normal. He just couldn't stand anyone disliking him. So, he would spend his nights getting drunk with his subordinates, hoping to get them to like him. I still stuck around. But different to JW, I started to hang out more often with my friends. I thought that was the best way for our relationship to survive. But my ex got insecure when he realised I am not waiting for him at home. Our relationship ended when he accused me of wasting my time with people who already likes me. Because at that moment I realised, he would never make an effort for a person who already likes him.
The only happing ending I am willing to accept is that one where Seo Joon realises that he deserves better and walks out of there. Ji Woo values his own pride more than his relationships. He would rather be the one leaving than be left behind. This is not a great trait, to be honest, if he ever does something bad, he might not even confess or apologise, he might just pack his bags and leave.
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For JW, it was that conversation with his ex. The idea of missing someone, he never missed his ex, but he missed SJ. He thought it was a bad thing, but during the conversation with his ex, he realized. It just meant that he didn't have any real feelings for his ex, but he did have feelings for SJ. He also ended up acknowledging SJ was already doing his best.
Also, one of their conversation, right before they get together was that they would share their concerns without self-censoring. Which immediately JW does. By opening up about how he feels jealous when SJ socializes unreservedly.
Sure, what you said is still possible. But I would put it at 50-50 odds. Before watching last two episodes, I thought odds of JW going back to toxic behavior was higher.
JW's biggest problem was he put his pride above his relationship, the way he waited outside the door after SJ chased him from the forest. That, old JW wouldn't have done.
But, definitely part of the reason.
P.S I have experienced loneliness. My last relationship ended because I felt lonely in it. My ex wouldn't miss even a single work event. Unlike SJ, it wasn't even normal. He just couldn't stand anyone disliking him. So, he would spend his nights getting drunk with his subordinates, hoping to get them to like him. I still stuck around. But different to JW, I started to hang out more often with my friends. I thought that was the best way for our relationship to survive. But my ex got insecure when he realised I am not waiting for him at home. Our relationship ended when he accused me of wasting my time with people who already likes me. Because at that moment I realised, he would never make an effort for a person who already likes him.