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Yeah if not spreading unnecessary hate and not hating jisoo gets you banned. Then I think you might actually get banned.

I didn't see that thread, I'm completely clueless

How about we ban people who spread unnecessary hate, harassment, or bias-driven attacks? The problem isn’t negativity itself—it’s baseless hate. I’m not saying we should silence criticism, but there’s a clear difference between fair critique and targeted hate.

Fair Criticism: “The plot is weak, the comedy scenes don’t land, and the acting feels forced.”
Hate: “The actor is garbage, should quit acting, and doesn’t deserve the lead role.”
See the difference? One critiques the work, the other attacks the person. The issue is that most so-called "criticism" online isn’t fair—it’s just hate, not opinion. And when that hate is directed at someone, a person in general, what do you expect? Should people just sit back and ignore it? Or should they push back? Well, both are valid. If someone defends with the same thing, which you call spamming, when actually it's the same point they are trying to prove with the same hateful comments, it's tiring for them too, so why don't we remove the root cause?

Also, let’s not assume everyone defending something is a biased fan. Some people are just active on the platform and speaking up against unfair treatment. If we critique something, we should critique the art, not attack the artist. That’s the real distinction. And, honestly Idk where you're coming from with this banning thing. The comment section will be more peaceful with no hate comments, which is unlikely.

I, who never wanted any nail product to touch my virgin nails, now want a nail art done on my nails just as excessively as them. It's just so cool and cuteee!!!

I watched the first two episodes and liked it so far!

I understand that he/she assumed you were criticizing Jisoo when you weren’t. They also assumed you were a K-drama reviewer who shouldn't be affected by a fandom’s reactions. Personally, I don’t think you’re trying to gain sympathy—if that were the case, you’d be playing the victim card, which you’re not. Maybe your past experiences with toxic fans make you feel that way.

That being said, I wouldn’t call the person who said these things to you a bully. First, that’s not a label to use lightly, and second, I personally don’t see it that way. Defending their idol doesn’t automatically make them a bully, and your frustration with the fandom as a whole may have influenced your reaction. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t feel upset about someone making assumptions about you.

You have not said anything negative about jisoo herself but you have generalised your opinion on the whole fandom. Its true that there are toxic fans in each fandom but so are there people who actually admire her and her works.

If what you're saying is true then you and the people you're talking about are the victim. It's just the toxic fans that target people who have genuine opinions. Liking or disliking is a personal opinion.

I think she will in the later episodes because now she just thinks of her as a friend.

It's the other way around so far. Jae yi is the one obsessed with Seulgi from what I've seen.

I thought the same when I saw her smirking.

Ayo! That's ma gurll right there!!😏🙌🏼

Yeah, you can't expect negativity to stop.

Yeah, for some it might actually be true, because then they can use the counter argument as bullying. Very thought out indeed.

hehe, very demure of them!

Ikr, people should at least think twice before saying that.

yes, and that can affect people on a personal level

We need both kinds of people right? And, thank you you're such a sweetheart!!

Ofcourse they would!

Disliking a show is a personal opinion. However, statements like "This show is bad" or "This show is trash" can spark unnecessary debates. People are free to comment and express themselves, just as others are free to defend something they like—provided they don’t target individuals, as that would be bullying. What you consider bullying could actually be a debate or simply people expressing their opinions, and this applies both ways.

Since this is a public platform, debates like these are inevitable, especially when a big idol is involved. Expecting no counterarguments is naive, and allowing negativity to spread unchecked isn’t ideal either. Positive comments, even if exaggerated, usually don’t lead to debates, whereas negative ones often do—simply because that's human nature.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t present the other side of the argument, but if you do, adding an explanation (constructive criticism) helps. Otherwise, people might label your comment as hate. Of course, you're not obligated to do so, but without an explanation, your comment is unlikely to be perceived positively.

I wrote this because people are confusing counter arguments with bullying. Bullying goes both ways and should not be taken lightly so please be mindful when you state something like that. I hope there are debates and not bullying or harassment.