I honestly can't keep myself from commenting anymore. Ever since they suddenly extended the series to 18 episodes,…
I'm stuck on ep 9 and this didn't help. I don't know how to finish this show. 😆 Props to you for watching in normal speed. I have been struggling even in 2x. The girl walks so slow. Everything she does is slow. How to finish this? 🤧
I don’t want to defend him, and it bothers me that I have to put a disclaimer before saying anything related…
I hear you. My point is that he did everything with intention and people rarely change without making an effort towards change. Yes, he was saying all that because he missed him and is obsessed with him and that is why he will just fall into old habits. That's basically what I meant.
If you recall their first time, he forced himself onto Yi Chen. Then he apologised. Now he is doing that all over again. That's his default. He wants to take control. He can't handle his anger, he can't handle when he feels he is being wronged, he can't think of Yi Chen's happiness, just what makes him feel good. So inevitably he will repeat his actions.
The last episode seemed to suggest a romance development with that string. Am I really wrong? Not that I mind…
I went in this blind as I usually do. I just ask if people are enjoying a drama and start watching. I don't think it's about lowering expectations but correcting them in my case. 😄 anyway, thanks for confirming. 😊
Can you blame LF for lying? The brother did exactly what LF knew he would do. Take YC away. I think it’s pretty…
Thanks for clarifying. I haven't read the novel so I don't know how this will end but people have said it will be a happy ending. I don't know how it can be justified without drastic changes.
Regarding lying, it might seem justifiable in the moment but it leads to trust issues. Again he can ask Yi Chen not to leave him, to give him a chance, to go to therapy so he can deal with his issues, etc. I don't see why Yi Chen should stay when Lu Fend continues to manipulate and lie.
I just got yelled at for recommending Wu and calling it a BL. 😂 The things people take offense at. Anyway,…
The last episode seemed to suggest a romance development with that string. Am I really wrong? Not that I mind a bromance. I am just getting different vibes. 😅 Maybe I misunderstood because it's a Thai drama. 🫣
Can you blame LF for lying? The brother did exactly what LF knew he would do. Take YC away. I think it’s pretty…
There is one aspect you are forgetting and that is consent.
Lu Feng may have suffered but if Yi Chen doesn't want to be there, he has no right to hold him hostage. He even raped Yi Chen without caring about his mental well being at that time. Just because LF is hurt means he gets to do all that?
Any sane person would think this person doesn't want to be with me anymore, I should be with someone who does care about me. Or "oh I finally found the person I love, maybe this is our chance to make things right again. We should try to talk things out." Not drug him, molest him, possibly he raped him in that drugged state, trap him, play mental games, refuse to accept how his own actions and anger led to the situation they are in. Basically he took 0 accountability. Lu Feng doesn't need Yi Chen, he needs a therapist and jail time.
Instead of thinking about only Lu Feng, think if Yi Chen deserves to be treated like this just because they were once lovers. He had no right to be angry? His mom and brother were hospitalised but did Lu Feng take any sort of responsibility or try to help with their treatement? When he gets mad he ties Yi Chen up because he is stronger. Does Yi Chen deserve to be treated like a rag doll?
Worst thing is that this drama is not even acknowledging the rape.
Forget about these actors and think if you would be able to love or respect someone that raped you against your will? Would you tell your friend or family member to forgive their rapist and be with them because their rapist is obsessed with them? I really hope your answer is no.
Definitely avoid this one. There are some good BLs out there even if you like the red flag trope. Or just green…
Seems Wu might be a bromance possibly. So far there is no romance. Other BLs that I liked are The Time Of Fever, Secret Relationships, Be My Favourite, The Boy Next World: My Destiny, 4 Minutes, Sammy's Children's Day.
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How did Pete defeat the monkey demon? Was it really the monkey demon since everyone else was battling illusions.
Is this show really only 1 season long?
If you recall their first time, he forced himself onto Yi Chen. Then he apologised. Now he is doing that all over again. That's his default. He wants to take control. He can't handle his anger, he can't handle when he feels he is being wronged, he can't think of Yi Chen's happiness, just what makes him feel good. So inevitably he will repeat his actions.
Regarding lying, it might seem justifiable in the moment but it leads to trust issues. Again he can ask Yi Chen not to leave him, to give him a chance, to go to therapy so he can deal with his issues, etc. I don't see why Yi Chen should stay when Lu Fend continues to manipulate and lie.
Lu Feng may have suffered but if Yi Chen doesn't want to be there, he has no right to hold him hostage. He even raped Yi Chen without caring about his mental well being at that time. Just because LF is hurt means he gets to do all that?
Any sane person would think this person doesn't want to be with me anymore, I should be with someone who does care about me. Or "oh I finally found the person I love, maybe this is our chance to make things right again. We should try to talk things out." Not drug him, molest him, possibly he raped him in that drugged state, trap him, play mental games, refuse to accept how his own actions and anger led to the situation they are in. Basically he took 0 accountability. Lu Feng doesn't need Yi Chen, he needs a therapist and jail time.
Instead of thinking about only Lu Feng, think if Yi Chen deserves to be treated like this just because they were once lovers. He had no right to be angry? His mom and brother were hospitalised but did Lu Feng take any sort of responsibility or try to help with their treatement? When he gets mad he ties Yi Chen up because he is stronger. Does Yi Chen deserve to be treated like a rag doll?
Worst thing is that this drama is not even acknowledging the rape.
Forget about these actors and think if you would be able to love or respect someone that raped you against your will? Would you tell your friend or family member to forgive their rapist and be with them because their rapist is obsessed with them? I really hope your answer is no.