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He takes good care of the women irrespective of whether he likes them or not. He also actively listens to them and makes them feel good. This politeness and good ethics or idk what to call it, but this behaviour confuses people.

You have explained it so well :)) I'm an INFP Female (INFP-T taken some time ago). Here is actually a reply that I had written under one of my comments ~
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Oh I have been understanding a lot these past few days. I'm an INFP too. Although idk how INFP in male works, but here is what I realized based on my own self introspection. I am the same exact as Song Hyeon. If people say good things about me, I feel like they are being polite and they don't mean it. When people express interest where I'm not interested, I do not understand and feel confused. I keep brushing it off. However, when someone expresses anything good towards me that reaches my heart - gentle, calm, sincerity, honest, making me understand, then it definitely opens my eyes. Not saying I get interested but it's needed for me to believe that they are sincere and not just half hearted.

If there is a person of interest, I am shy but am always watching them, curious about them, wanting to talk, spend time, gain their attention, happy just seeing them. I also feel jealous if their attention is on someone else, and feel less valuable and think something must be wrong with me and that I'm not attractive enough and maybe I'm weird. I tend to compare and overthink. I even think maybe I should be like the other person because that's the right way to be.

Again, I'm not defending SH. However, I completely understand how he might have felt.
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I'm not young anymore but I guess I'm just immature, lack confidence and have low self esteem :((

why why why?

I'm with you! Love this season from the start till now. All the participants are really good. Every interaction and every couple is fun, and their emotions got to me. Too bad it's ending soon 😔

Anyone thinks there is still hope for YS and HJ?

The friendship between MK and SY was so cute. The interactions between WK and HJ so refreshing. Hope they become good friends after the show 🤗

I think she meant it cos she said it after saying that he is her standard

In BH's words, 'A drug like show' 😂😂

[For those who don't remember, BH said the words 'Drug like woman' about HJ, in a conversation with SY. I think it means he knows she is a no-no yet can't help falling for her or being pulled by her haha. This show is like that to me].

Hehe.. when you said, 'brainless underage children who have no idea what a good man looks like', I remembered what MK told YS. She said I didn't know you were such a good person. [This was part of the conversation where she told him he was her standard].

Haha... power of love I guess 😂😂 I was just watching their conversation when she had the eye redness. So, basically this is how their conversation goes ~

MK: Don't you have feelings for me? That way, I can decide whether to sort things out or not.
YS: Do you want me to be honest?
MK: Are you going to hurt me again? (OHHH MYYY!!!😂😂 GURL WHAT DO YOU WANT TO HEAR??)
YS: What do you want? Shall I tell you what you want to hear? Will that help you?
MK: No
(Pause)
ML: You must be happy about going to Japan. Why did you get worried and come here? I misunderstood. (GURL, IF HE HADN'T COME YOU'D HAVE SAID 'EVERYONE WORRIED ABOUT ME. ARENT' YOU EVEN WORRIED ABOUT ME?"😂😂)
YS: Fine. I won't come anymore. (😂😂)
MK: Why not? You said you'd do whatever your heart wanted.
YS: I'll do whatever my heart wants. Can't I worry?
MK: Let's end this conversation. 🙄🙄

Mannnnnnn... SIGH!!

Woah his patience!! Respect!🫡

Yes. If she continues to the same person, then YS will be the one who will have a hard time. He will be the one to compromise until MK grows mature in this relationship.

Yes that's right. Boi is trapped in guilt and believes that he is responsible for their breakup. She keeps telling him so and he keeps believing it. It's toxic imo. Even if he chooses to start a new relationship, idk if it'll last. He needs time to completely heal from the old relationship.

No, that is okay. I have seen all the seasons. I mean, at one point in the season, they started approaching their exes right? It was like everyone went through that phase at the same time, so it felt like scripted. Exes approaching to talk means they must have had them in their mind right? Also, when the show starts, wouldn't they be itching to talk to their ex? Wouldn't they at least talk about their new interest or what is on their mind, etc? I understand that that kind of conversation cannot be shown until the time comes for the ex reveal. So, what I mean to say is, it is natural for exes to talk to each other irrespective of whether it is day 1 or 10. So, did those scenes get edited out or they were forbidden to approach their ex until a certain day?

I have a doubt. Did the PD script the show in a way that in the beginning, the participants were not supposed to talk to their exes? It doesn't look like there were any interactions or that they were edited out. Not sure because when the ex-interactions happen, it feels like suddenly everyone feels like talking to their ex at the same time.

Oh I have been understanding a lot these past few days. I'm an INFP too. Although idk how INFP in male works, but here is what I realized based on my own self introspection. I am the same exact as Song Hyeon. If people say good things about me, I feel like they are being polite and they don't mean it. When people express interest where I'm not interested, I do not understand and feel confused. I keep brushing it off. However, when someone expresses anything good towards me that reaches my heart - gentle, calm, sincerity, honest, making me understand, then it definitely opens my eyes. Not saying I get interested but it's needed for me to believe that they are sincere and not just half hearted.

If there is a person of interest, I am shy but am always watching them, curious about them, wanting to talk, spend time, gain their attention, happy just seeing them. I also feel jealous if their attention is on someone else, and feel less valuable and think something must be wrong with me and that I'm not attractive enough and maybe I'm weird. I tend to compare and overthink. I even think maybe I should be like the other person because that's the right way to be.

Again, I'm not defending SH. However, I completely understand how he might have felt.

PD also has a talent for 'dramas'

'Genuinely never been this invested in a dating show' Aye me too! It's so good this season! Makes us feel all their emotions 10 fold!

Logically it makes sense but love isn't logical. It isn't rational either. If you keep watching you'll see YS/ MK conversations and you will understand. I don't want to spoil it for you.

I think everyone faces this in their life. It seems like a big issue right? But they have been dating since high school and never parted even once. So it must feel super strange that he became an adult and had additional responsibilities. If it was others, they'd have dated and broken up and met other people, taking breaks and not dating when they are busy with work. But in YS/ MK case, their relationship started since school. That's why it looks like a bigger issue and fault than it actually is.

Just him talking at least once