I mean if you don't understand how assaulting someone is bad then I can't help you.
Because it was the standard then and the younger people that watch don't know the difference between love and possessiveness is. I know I didn't when I first started BLs at 13
I only finished it cuz I was hoping it got better. It didn't.
you stay away from Asin BLs in general ( truly don't care if you dropped it or not).