InspectorMegre

wow I see it totally differently... The person is saying (to themselves) - I dont trust what all those people are saying UNTIL I SEE IT FOR MYSELF. So I like their answer. They are an independent thinker

FL is weak and slimey parasite, she is used to being dependent on others, so...
First she got to put on about 30lbs and get strong enough to pull through a day ON HER OWN

SML is cute, so I treat him as the eye candy, but his role is rather slimey and boring, SML is an entitled person who is butting his nose into places where noses dont go, i.e. he is FORCEFULLY INSERTING HIMSELF betwen two people who are clearly together already . Sure, he is a realistic character LOL but ... I see enough of those brownnosing in real life... they are usually women though LOL so ... nuff LOL 2ML should have a different script by now.

I like ML a lot more
First the charater in the script is very deep and complicated and complex, and TRANSFORMS - ML is the only person who 100% transformed so far - from a jerk, he became a caring dad

and ML actor is a great actor, imo so much better actor than SML, and with such talent for comedy and DEPTH, he is really conveying the complexity of ML
I am watching the drama for ML and Woo Ju

Woo Ju is just a prop so it is really sad. Sure ... we dont overwork the kid actor... but we could have the plot ABOUT the kid without the kid being there, ... like... ML and FL talking about what it means they put Woo Ju into daycare...
or plot with the kid just playing in the background while ML/L talk about ...them and the kid...

stuf like that would be a lot more interesting than FL stringing two guys for 8 episodes and REPEATEDLY dragging Woo Ju with her on her flirt escapades.
ML is "the dad" to Woo Ju and WJ knows that ML and FL love each other, and WJ knows that ML is upset to see SML, so WJ is very anxious about SML as it looks like he is stealing WJ's mom from WJ's dad, and WJ dislikes that - and WJ said clearly to SML, "NO" to coming upstairs.
WJ is gonna have anxiety if SML and FL keep flirting and almost kissing.

KIDS KNOW EVERYTHING!!!! they can feel and see invisible things too... so every kid gets super worried to see their parent leer off to someone else

(well assuming it is a good parent LOL - dont totally generalize what I am saying Listen to what I said and what i did NOT say, use discernment and common sense, I am never talking in absolutes )

Yeah, I see the pattern. So the pattern is that FL is written in a sexist way, as a weak person, a loser, someone who depends on men to KEEP saving her.
The physique and demeanor of the FL actress is perfect for that kind of "overall weak and slimey dependant" role.

Bc according to the health standards, she needs to have at least 51kg for her 5'5" height (165cm) and she clearly does NOT. So no wonder she lacks energy, she is underweight and essentially malnourished. See the medical stats below that I got on the Internet.

Yeah FL role is writen as a tiny femme fatale, not as someone who has a connection with a child. Woo Ju is used as a prop, not as a real character... FL has no connection to Woo Ju,

even if the script asked her to connect to Woo Ju, FL actress could not. How could she??? She has no energy for anything and a kid requires energy..... She is malnourished. The people on the net had a good name for this - ANOREXIC LOOK. She looks like that.

FL has no energy and has that tired, anorexic look, she clearly has issues with her HEALTH, her body is just malnourished and she cannot think straight nor take care of her life. AND THAT FITS THIS SCRIPT PERFECTLY. I am not sure what is chicken what is egg, did she make the script go in this direction bc she canNOT act energetically, or they picked her precisely knowing she is lifeless and flakey.... in any case it is what it is.

My pet peeve is that FL is supposedly swooning 2 men but does not LOOK like someone attractive that 2 men would be fighting for her. She is gonna die out of breath after one kiss, she has NO energy.

I bet every man would rather go after Marylin Monroe, who is so super sexy and yet according to these impossible standards, a fat pig. I used Marylin bc she is known by everyone. You can pick someone else. Serena Williams. J Lo, or Shakira are all da bombs we all know.
Heck so many great looking women out there who are strong enough for some serious action, why go after this puff of nothing who cannot breathe heavy for more than 1 millisecond??? Unless you are someone malnourished like that too.

AND THE TRUTH IS.... "the fat pig Marylin" is 100000 % sexier than any of the "fashion model lookiing" plasticized anorexic-looking robots. And, Marylin looks like a healthy woman to me. IFYOU LOOK AT EVEN 1980s PHOTOS, EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE MARYLIN. So when did we start wanting to look like Twiggy? when someone decided they can rob us of all our money and time hopelessly trying to diet?

==== "MEDICAL STATS" ====
And this is the "medical stats" as to why. I had to search for this bc the famous Park actress boasted how she has 37kg (82lbs) on her 5'5" body (165cm). That is like BMI of 13. - and she was going to lose more weight.
FYI, because many of us complained that she is focused on losing weight she does not have, that article was quickly taken down from the MDL home page. It is still there if you know the link to it, but you cannot see it displayed.

SO THIS IS WHAT I FOUND OUT ON THE INTERNET:
"Fashion models are generally expected to maintain a slim, toned, and proportional physique, with typical weights for female high-fashion models ranging from
**** 110 to 130 lbs (50–59 kg) for heights of 5'9" to 6'0" (180-183 cm) *****
While strict numerical minimums are rare, some industry standards and regulations, such as those in France, recommend a Body Mass Index (BMI) of at least 18.5 or 18 " **** COMMENT - THAT IS MIN POSSIBLE BMI

"For a woman 165 cm (approx. 5'5") tall, a healthy, ideal body weight generally falls within the range of 51 kg to 65 kg (113–143 lbs), based on a standard BMI range of 18.5–24.9.
Common ideal weight formulas (like Devine or Robinson) often place the target weight around 56–58 kg (124–128 lbs)" says Mozila AI

This FL actress is also 165cm. I doubt she has at least 51kg.
SO - is this healthy? Is this what a public person / influencer needs to promote?


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==== MY TAKE ON IT ======
These impossible standards of "fashion model beauty" are impossible for any ordinary person who works!!!! you can look like that only if you are laying on a couch all day, doing nothing. And yeah once in a while get up to be photographed.. and your physical exercise is walking 50 m on the runway.. That's totally unrealistic.

Also, these impossible standards make ALL of us feel guilty for not being able to reach this impossible standard, bc of our genetics and physical demands of our lives... so we spend tons of money and time feeling guilty we eat... we pay to diet, wear concealing clothes, etc. NUFF of that!!!!
Not to mention all those diabetic pills and injections that are now the rage to lose weight fast... that just gets rid of water and then... all is back fast.

the ONLY way to maintain good health is to eat enough good food, exercise, breathe, go outdoors, sleep well, drink enough water and RELAX AND BE HAPPY. There is absolutely no other way. ANd how you look - that's how you look!!!! there is genetics!!!!! you are born with a body constitution and frame - and also FED during your growing season - to become a tiny chihuahua or a Big Bernandine dog or an athletic rothweiler - and so you gotta live with that!!!! HOWEVER YOU LOOK IS OK!!!! as long as ..... you can run after the bus for 5 mins, last a whole day heavy at work without any issues,.... you have no health issues, and you are radiant, energetic and vibrant and HAPPY positive sunshine presence.


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My test is - CAN YOU RUN AFTER THE BUS, HARD, FOR 5 MINUTES AND CATCH IT? if you cannot - then... sorry... you are unhealthy, I think this video had a lot of impact on me, bc when I saw it, I finally realized why so many ppl feel so left out of the beauty standards. Yeah this is a very white singer but the message is very universal, as so many cultures genetically have a strong frame - and she happens to be one of those N European / North American Indian stocky build people to be able t survive the cold weather, all N Europe / Native N America is stocky build - but in tropics we also have various kinds of Africans, also various kinds of Polynesians who are also stocky built - and also ppl have phsycial lives and hobbies and many are athletes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PCkvCPvDXk So yeah, according to these "13 BMI standards" they will NEVER be considered beautiful, which is a terrible discrimination.

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And no, this is not body shaming or fat shaming, this is sheer MEDICAL STATS

and if you wonder about me - I train people to move correctly and be healthy.
So I am not speaking as someone who is fat and trying to lose weight LOL I am speaking like someone who KNOWS something about good health. I train in yoga, tai chi, etc and understand many of the principles.

Ultimately, good health is the ultimate sexy, it makes you look RADIANTLY VIBRANT

so everyone needs to be strong, flexible and healthy, in their own weight/ bodyframe category.

Be the best chihuahua, the best Big Bernardine, the best rothweiler, or whatever YOU are, for YOU.

I recommend reading Indian Auyrveda on different body types - vata, pitta, and kapha - understanding the limits of your physical body that you incarnate into is extremely useful for knowing how to take proper care of it

ttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PCkvCPvDXk It's all about that bass!!!!

She is malnourished and cannot think straight nor take care of her life :) and is also patterned on the typical kdrama sexism that FL is a dumb loser and has guys who keep saving her. This actress is perfect for that role precisely bc she is malnourished, weak, feeble and lifeless. So yeah, she is perfect for "weak woman" scripts bc she conveys that "overall weakness" vibe

Ariana Grande is 5'1" and was 104lbs during her "slim" period and is now 112lbs, and Ms. Park is 5'5" and only 82lbs that is 37kg..... and she needs to be at 53kg!!!!! So really Ms. Park needs to be around 120-150lbs

"For a woman 165 cm tall, the ideal or healthy body weight typically ranges from 53 kg to 68 kg, according to BMI standards. Optimal, more specific weight targets for this height often fall between 58 kg and 62 kg" from Mozilla AI - it seems about right, many sites have similar info

Then... Queen's House and First Man bc of the FL who actually CAN act, also those teams had some decent actors.
This drama is convenient bc I can fast forward through all the crying and luff scenes and watch an episode in like 10 mins :) as a cultural experience. I wont hold on too long though LOL
The evil Man is actually a great actor and it is worth watching just him.

Hm it is kinda convenient to watch this drama bc the acting and plot are so dismal so I can just fast forward the crying / screaming scenes and finish an episode in like 10-15 mins and just enjoy the "local flavor" of this drama and some rare moments of good acting and call it a cultural experience

About 24 hrs ago, I CHANGED my post to say "some country in Africa" as this person asked for
- and I informed this person about it
- and the person read that....
- and the person is now lying that it never happened
I dont have time to waste on this.
I give up on this. Shortly, I can block this person and so FAREWELL.

I replied to another post in your thread.... . Thank you for your patience :)

Ough... JM as the lead... JM has no ability to self reflect!!!! It's all about "bad sekiya Hwa came to our house wearing a mask of angel so I am gonna punish her"

=====>So where is the rewinding of the self tape to figure out what she should do? Something like - I should have yelled to Seo Rim to stay on the other side, or to run towards me.... I should have looked up and down the street first..... I should have taken it seriously that someone was trying to kill me... I should have taken seriously warnings of my mom and BH..... .I missed this clue and that clue and that clue because......... "
SHE NEEDS SELF REFLECTION AND IDEAS FOR IMPROVEMENT. ..... PLANNING..... .

OK she just got out of accident and she is emotional - BUT she has always been too impulsive rash dumb emotional, and I am worried.

At least she did not get caught yet and defended herself a few times... but ... she is gonna get caught. I think she needs Baek Ho and Jun Ho on her side, on her own she is tooooo WEAK to pull this off.

JM cannot even go through her mistakes to see what she could do better...
JM is a C+ student and she driving the drama is gonna be PAINFUL AND SLOW.

Just like her brother - Ok Hee Tok Hee Suk Hee... I have no idea what it means... and Baek Ho: yeah Seo Rim looks just like Jang Mi so why would she be in the accident too... ?
HEEEEEELLLLLOOOOOO ... turn your brain on...! you got so many pieces, why not putting the puzzle together... ?

but it is only ep 52 so they are ... taking time LOL
I wish they took time differently :)
Oh well - I give up LOL

I 100% agree

JM is too dumb so .... :( I think she needs to colab with Baek Ho and Jun Ho, this is too big of a task ... but .. BH is dumb too :( cute and kind and loyal and reliable, and dull :)

JM is quite dumb so ...... dont expect too much of this drama as long as JM is in charge...

Oh .. Baek Ho is cute and kind BUT quite dull and dumb.... ... So sad!!!!! He keeps refusing to see evidence. He SAYS the evidence... and then.... no neurons firing in his brain...

Let's use facts to back up our statements:
a 39-yrd old woman is about 164cm tall ( 5 ft 5inches).
DO YOU THINK it is healthy that she weighs 37kg (82 lbs) ? Yes/No
DO YOU THINK that it is appropriate that a public figure and/or an influencer) promotes that kind of weight as healthy? Yes/No

I googled this to provide some comparison facts:
"Fashion models are generally expected to maintain a slim, toned, and proportional physique, with typical weights for female high-fashion models ranging from
**** 110 to 130 lbs (50–59 kg) for heights of 5'9" to 6'0" (180-183 cm) *****
While strict numerical minimums are rare, some industry standards and regulations, such as those in France, recommend a Body Mass Index (BMI) of at least 18.5 or 18 "

"For a woman 165 cm (approx. 5'5") tall, a healthy, ideal body weight generally falls within the range of 51 kg to 65 kg (113–143 lbs), based on a standard BMI range of 18.5–24.9. Common ideal weight formulas (like Devine or Robinson) often place the target weight around 56–58 kg (124–128 lbs)" says Mozila AI

Just in comparison from the local locker room: 5ft 7in (178 cm) caucasian/asian athletic WOMAN who is slim and in good proportions and shape weighs about 130-160lbs (59-73kg), depending on age and build. Some of African, Polynesian, American Indian and N European-descent likely weigh more for that height, bc of bigger/ heavier bones and more muscle. ( Muscles are heavier than fat, so a person with more muscle will look slimmer yet have a higher weight - this is what you learn in any diet program. Weighing yourself is not too indicative - you gotta LOOK toned).
"For a woman 5'7" (170 cm) tall, a healthy, ideal weight range generally falls between 121 and 159 pounds (approx. 55–72 kg), based on a normal BMI range of 19–24. This range allows for variations in body frame size and composition"

This article says this actress was 37kg ( 82lbs) and I am not sure why someone wrote she is going down to 75lbs (34kg). Google says she is about 164 cm or 5 ft 5 inches tall

SO SEEMS LIKE SHE IS 30 LBS UNDERWEIGHT

AI Overview
For a woman 5'5" (165 cm) tall, a healthy, normal weight range is typically between
114 and 144 pounds (52–65 kg). This range is based on a standard BMI of 19–24. Ideal weight formulas often suggest an average of roughly 126–128 lbs, though a healthy weight can vary based on frame size and muscle mass

Sure if this role is such but ... how come everythng she does ends up as her losing weight? And did you check the numbers? Currently 81lbs, going to 75lbs... do you think that is healthy?
and honestly, her picture here does NOT look healthy at all, she is so pale and so thin, and there is something off about that image, she looks like a ghost.

Yeah, that's it, imo you nailed it. This is one sentence summary of the issue

Exactly, well said, that is what I was trying to say

yes :)