InspectorMegre

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why.... ??

YES!!! I was so concerned about the baby being traumatized by having to film scenes with adults yelling, etc

obviously you havent seen healthy toddlers... ? the kid is 100% real LOL

but babies cannot wait even one day for someone to get their bearings. They need help IMMEDIATELY and that selfish jerk just doesnt see it

that kind of "jarring" is what kids watch these days... sick..

something needs to wake up our entitled and selfish Sanchun :)

she is a lot better than ep 1, she is a lot more energetic and outgoing

LOL chill out :)

yeah FL picked up thank God!!! she was lively alive fighting for that kid, YAY!

I am not sure if you evr took care of toddlers, esp boys and girls who are allowed to be who they are ?
and these two are totally inexperienced. ...
The plot is totally realistic LOL

Chill :) and enjoy

I AM NOT SOCIETY OR SOME TRASHY DRAMA

WHAT I WROTE IS VERY DIFFERENT
READ IT

Bye

I AM NOT THAT MARRY ME TRASHY DRAMA.

I WROTE SOMETHING VERY DIFFERENT. READ IT.

IN ANY PAIR, BOTH ARE RESPONSIBLE. THE RULES ARE THE SAME FOR BOTH.

Bye :)

At this point this is unreasonable as you are behaving in a very biased way and choosing to disregard what I wrote. So honey pie Oppa, the discussion is over now :) Bye....

it is. Toxic behavior is enabled by an enabler like that. HE has the power to pull the rug under her. He just needs to say: DO YOU LOVE ME OR THAT OTHER GUY? and dump her if she cannot answer it properly.

SHE CAN CHEAT ONLY IF THE OTHER SIDE ALLOWS HER TO PLAY THAT ROLE. Bc he is not taking care of himself. He is not loving himself, he has no respect for himself, he does not love her but he tries to own her, in a deal-like cohabitation situation. THEY BOTH CONSENTED TO THAT TOXIC DEAL AND ARE EQUALLY GUILTY.

their marriage is fake and DEAD. .... It is a crime to live in a marriage like that.... suffering... inflicting suffering.... One or the other would have cheated or done something bad. Even if both stayed loyal, their marriage would be toxic and unpleasant and FAKE all their lives. you have seen plenty of marriages like that....

You are saying her husband was "devoted". To what? to her, to himself, to their marriage? Heck no. He was devoted to this game between them. He suspected her for cheating, he rummaged through her stuff, etc. But lied about it, to her face. That is soooooo... trashy. That is not devotion but obsession and toxicity

Oh I beg to differ. He fabricated stories - rummaging through her earings, lying that there is nothing wrong.
He betrayed HIMSELF and their marriage by allowing himself to be with someone who lies on him and he had to be living in permanent doubt about her. That is self torture and jailing him and her in a cesspool of doodoo.

He did not sleep with anyone else, but he also did not really sleep with her. What kind of s.x life did they have when they have no connection and they keep lying to each other??? THEIR LOVE IS FAKE. She clearly has no respect for him, and he has no respect for himself either. They both are incapable of love. It is a CODEPENDENT toxic relationship. A drug dealer giving drugs to a junkie and pretending there is nothign wrong.

So enough explaining. I am done with this topic and for this evening. Bye.

ah that is your sexism. First, I am not justifying this cheating woman. You seem quite biased.

Second, please use logic. It goes both ways. If a man is cheating, then half of the blame is on his woman. It is equal opportunity situation LOL it takes two to tango. If the cheated partner knows of cheating and does nothing about it, they are equally responsible.

If you keep refusinig to understand what I wrote so many times, then I have no other choice but to stop respondiing to you on this topic. Sorry but this was enough of my time and effort to explain.

I rewatched the scene and he NEVER did anything without her inviting him. First she barged in late at night and he just shivered... He was really shook by it. There is his love, right in front of him, and they are alone at night at his place... They talked business and there was nothing going on, both of them were holding up pretty good.
BUT THEN SHE CHANGED THE TONE TO 100% PERSONAL... AND SHE FIRST ASKED HIM why he did not throw that nike statue. It was a genuine invitation to talk about their personal relationship.... So... He pecked her in a kiss as an answer. She said HECK NO and he instantly let her go and she started leaving.
Then he tried to grab her for the hand and she said NO and he immediatelly let her go. he stood far away from her.

SHE WAS RIGHT BY THE DOOR ON HER WAY OUT. She COULD have left then and she SHOULD have left then...
BUT she did not. SHE STAYED THERE!!!!! at that point, she was already falling in and there was no way back...

**** SHE ASKED HIM WHY IS HE GRABBING HER? ***** A WOMAN WHO IS NOT INTERESTED NEVER ASKS THAT KIND OF QUESTION!!!! THAT QUESTION MEANS: LET US TALK ABOUT US, I WANT TO UNDERSTAND YOU, I AM CONSIDERING YOU.... I am interested in your grabbing me. I want to know you. I am exploring this grabbing.

He handled that question well. He came closer and he said, without any physical contact, but in a very emotional convincing voice, looking her in the eye: I MISSED YOU. At that point, she was just standing still and so ... he saw the opening and stepped forward and kissed her and she dd not move, she melted into it.

Overall, SHE kept poking him to confess, she kept edging him on, OUT OF GENUINE INTEREST that she wasnt even aware of. HE was aware of his interest in her and yes he was intentionally trying to steal a married woman for himself. He was acting like any player acts and any genuine unethical person acts LOL Players also stand there and tell you they miss you LOL and guys in love who are keen on stealing you also say the same thing... He was willingly and very unethically stealing her by using any weapon he had, and he had his s.x charms, and he knew it would work, and he intentionally used it to bag her. BUT HE DID IT WITH HER CONSENT.

Ok let us not nitpick on words. So I am going to be more precise.

SHE DID NOT GET ENOUGH FROM HER HUSBAND PRECISELY FOR THE REASON YOU MENTIONED -
she never truly loved or respected the marriage.
**** THAT **** is the main point here.
and is the main point if a husband cheats too.

And .... I dont think her husband really loves her. They have a deal, where he keeps quiet and she abuses him. That is NOT love. He is not devoted to her, but to toxicity. Just like a wife of cheating husband would be.

Did she marry the detective to advance her career??? I dont think we know that. Where did you get that idea?

Indeed, She cheated because she believed she deserved both men. The husband as a guaranteed slave at home, and this juicy morsel at night. BUT SHE DID NOT KNOW THAT UNTIL IT HAPPENED lol she did not plain it that way :)

Yeah she was too familiar with the ex, barging into his house late at night and treating him as "hers". What you are missing is that she was GENUINELY interested in him. She was poking him like a wife who didnt get enough attention. She was poking him to confess, so that she could grab him. AND SHE WAS NOT AWARE SHE WAS DOING THAT. If you ever felt hots for anyone, you must have done it yourself too LOL

So the bottom line is, this woman did not plan this but when it happened, it exposed a whole cesspool of stinky doodoo that was conveniently brushed under the rug. INSTEAD OF CLEANING IT UP, she put another rug on top of it, and sprayed some flower scent air spray to hide the stench. So here is this pile of doodoo still in the middle of the living room, stinking it up, and everyone pretends it is not there. THAT Is evil

No cheating is not cool, the drama is clear about that. The cheater felt bad and her two friends scolded her for doing it, and the husband felt bad and the cheater felt bad around the husband. THEY ALL KNOW IT IS WRONG.

What is bad is that nobody is saying - let us talk about this and find out what is really going on. Her friends say fu.k, you messed up, stay low now. Her husband stays silent. She lies. What kind of friendhip, marriage and love is this? What are true feelings of the cheater and the husband? WHO is that cheater - just an animal who loves s.x, or someone who is in love with her ex?

How I see it, after that cheating incident, she has 3 choices: go back to the ex realizing she loves him and cannot live with him, OR divorce her husband bc she doesnt love him, OR have very very very deep talks and therapy with her husband and 100% rehaul their marriage and their relationship.

that cheater woman is totally starved for attention and s.x - just that, or she actually missed that man, her ex? **** Is she in love with the pleasure or with the man? *****
She is clearly not getting enough from her husband. Why? Does she hold him as "low" in her mind and is abusing him, is he somehow controlling her, is she using her husband as a cheap replacement for her ex, how does she really feel about her ex? is she a slimey parasite, or a delusional cowardly woman, or what?

AFTER SHE CHEATED, THE ONLY POSSIBLE NEXT STEP IS TO CHANGE HER LIFE TOTALLY. and she isnt. she chooses to stay stuck. THAT is self destructive evil and backstabbing others

Hm... I am not sure how old you are.. I think you are male?
People have flaws and they live in confusion and denial. That woman deluded herself that she liked her husband and did not want her ex. But... she came to her ex' house and treated him as if he were her man. She asked him questions leading him on to confess. When he did, she responded to her ex like someone who really missed her lover.
Did her husband even cross her mind???? What kind of lover is her husband when she responds like a starving woman to the ex? SHE MESSED UP ROYALLY. SHE TREATED THE EX AS IF HE WERE HERS, from the moment she walked into the house. all the way to the end. She was sooo connected to him and tooootally LYING to herself that she was not - until she fell for him, hook and sinker. She is *his* actually ...
and it was not exactly intentional she was just too stupid. SHE HAD NO IDEA SHE WAS THAT HUNGRY. She just jumped in. Even if her husband came to her mind in a moment, it was too late, "she already took the drugs and went on a trip" and she continued. At this point, her will was not capable of coming back. So you can say it is intentional and it is in some ways, but in other ways, it is not, she was TAKEN, she was too far gone to come back. And she never planned it. That is why it is not intentional. She never planned this and she honestly thought it would never happen. SHE HAD NO IDEA WHAT WAS INSIDE HER. She was too weak to look inside herself...

So I think the jumping into sack with him was a genuine mistake, an unplanned event that happens bc she was deluding herself that she doesnt care for her ex, or for sex, or that she loved her husband and was happy and satisfied... but the truth is... her impulsive starved self that she was hiding from herself just came out unleashed...

So yeah it is a mistake, an unplanned event to begin with.... ... BUT.... THE LYING PART AFTER IS ***NOT*** A MISTAKE, IT IS INTENTIONAL, SUPER NASTY, BACKSTABBING BETRAYAL TO BOTH MEN AND HERSELF.... She chose to lie and to not take responsibility and to just call it "mistake" and brush it off as if it never happened. AND HER TWO FRIENDS COLLUDED..... THAT my dear is ***CRIME*** And also her husband helped her hide it... That is soooooo toxic.

It was a mistake to begin with, since she acted without any planning, she acted on impulse without any thinking. There was HERS great hot guy who said he missed her and she just allowed him to take her to the Dream Land. She was just too familiar with him.
Which means - how about her husband???? A woman who has a great husband will NOT allow this to happen, first of all, she will not be visiting other men at night, she will walk out of that house asap, bc she loves her man, and second, bc she has good s.x and love life with her man and is not so hungry and prone to jumping into bed with her old flame. BUT SHE BEHAVED AS IF HER OLD FLAME IS STILL HERS.... .

So that woman did make a mistake at the moment, without any thinking, but she canNOT call this mistake AFTER it happened. After it happened, she is RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT SHE DID and supposed to THINK WHAT HAPPENED AND CLEAN IT UP.

The purpose of mistakes is to be fixed. She refused to even attempt to fix it. She is a very weak toxic person. Her husband too. What kind of person consents to always doubting that his partner does not love him?

It is. He enables her to be that icky. He is like a drug dealer giving free drugs to a junkie and keeping silent about their addiction.... His silence lets her continue with the muck. There is always two to tango...
So he gotta stop dancing to her tune and set himself free - and if he does so, she has a chance to heal too.
On her own, seems like she will be stuck forever, she seems too weak. He needs to kick her in the butt to clean up. How he does that? By openly talking about what is happening, and NOT consenting to be the second violin that she plays at her whim - or is there more, is HE controlling her somehow? In any case, the dynamic between them is TOXIC and has to be cleaned up