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I Have a Lover korean drama review
Dropped 34/50
I Have a Lover
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by Kannadin
3 days ago
34 of 50 episodes seen
Dropped
Overall 6.0
Story 7.0
Acting/Cast 9.0
Music 7.0
Rewatch Value 2.0

Too long for what it's worth

Well the third try was not the charm. giving up at episode 34. It was my final and very last try into watching this show. I knew these 50 episodes K dramas have a tendency to drag too much... and I was psychologically prepared for it... But I guess my tolerance level is no longer what it used to be. 50 episodes is ok when episodes are 45mn long when it's 1h or more, you really feel the minutes passing especially on these old shows. I know they're not good to binge... but even not binging It still dragged too much.. I think they did a great job with the love story.... but the whole business plot + 2FL and the brother and sister and law are just too annoying for me to give this show more of my time.

Around where I gave up, the only thing keeping both the FL and ML apart is basically the whole business/redemption aspect of the FL... But I'm so NOT interested in the business thing, I'm throwing the towel...

And definitely giving up on K dramas of 50 episodes for life. The problem is not that the stories aren't interesting... but rather that they drag them out for no good reason. Since I don't list shows I dropped my rating will only on this review, but a 6 seems appropriate mostly for these reasons:

1. The main story is dragged down by its length.

2. The business plot takes too much space from the middle of the series and it gets worse from episode 30 and on... But err... initially we're watching this for the romance aren't we?

3. Too many annoying characters who don't get their due punishment or something akin to a slap on the wrist by the end of the series (yes I spoiled myself so I know exactly what happens).

4. I utterly despise Seo Ri's character, cosplaying as the victim. The FL was not an angel to you for sure but you dug your own grave and happily jumped into it. Don't blame others for your self-caused misery. She gets no consequence and nobody blames her for the cheating thing... As if the ML went out of his way to pursue her. He sure was a douchebag, but she was the one who lit the fire not him.

5. The sister in law was nasty piece of work and yet she gets NO CONSEQUENCES from her actions except losing her husband who btw is a cheater ( which they showed very early in the series and thought WE forgot), a murderer, a manipulator and kept on belittling her. I'm not really sure in what way losing that type of husband is considered a punishment, but I guess the writers thought it was.

6. Motivation for cheating: The loss of a child giving a hard time to the couple rang pretty true... but the ML who is supposed to be this morally upright person cheating with a girl at least 15 years younger? Nah.

7. Didn't give a fudge about the twin sister and her love story with the Doctor. Both were just annoying. If it wasn't for the little girl I would have skipped all of their scenes.

Anyway, I TRIED. I tried in 2015 when the drama aired. I tried I think around 2020/2021 and now 2026. So CLOSE to the end... But then... as much as I am a Completist at heart... One has to wonder WHY should you force yourself to finish a show you've been struggling with for WEEKS.

Am I gonna win a medal for that?

HELL NO!

Time to get rid of this nasty habit of wanting to finish at all cost shows that just don't deserve it. The one redeeùing quality was the main love story between the FL and the ML.

Yes he cheated... but I think they handled his redemption ark pretty well.

IRL if it was me though, NO WAY IN HELL. If he truly loved his wife as much as the show had him being portrayed, the possibility of cheating was NIL. NIL.

But hey this is a drama... so I'm supposed to believe that this could happen... So Ok I guess.
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