Both BL and ZJW acted it out superbly in the prison scene. I could felt his innocence and pure heart towards JXN. And I felt JXN forgave YL for what he did. Its complex. But the acting is good that they were able to act out such a complex feeling. Like Alila Nguyen pointed out in a previous discussion, now JXN has a chance to restart her life, YL's life, basically everyone's. How can she be mad with YL for the things that he didnt do in this second life? Yea, the whole r@pe issue from past life was evil but the whole thing is very complex too. You can say that it's two person, in two different situation. It's not the same YL.
Okay, so I have two unpopular opinions and I’d be curious to know if i’m the only one who feels that way.…
This has been discussed a few times on the comment page. I made a similar comment and Alila Nguyen did a good analysis of the whole situation. We can agree to disagree. But yea, because of this whole r*pe thing make me uneasy. But at episode 20, both BL and ZJW acted it out superbly in the prison scene. I could felt his innocence and pure heart towards JXN. And I felt JXN forgave YL for what he did. Its complex. But the acting is good that they were able to act out such a complex feeling.
I think for us, the problem is we treated the first life as her past experience, and therefore the act is unforgivable.…
I guess because TTEOTM is xianxia genre, I will watch it with less logic and emotion. You are right, JXN is trying to prevent everything that went wrong in the first life.
Dear lord, I thought I was the only one who had a problem with that !Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason…
Yes, if he loves her, he will never ever do that to her. I thought I misunderstood but novel reader confirmed that it is r@pe. @_@ I would have stomach it better if they had an affair. But r@pe, urgghh. Their relationship in second life with the memory of that just didnt sit well with me. Ok, maybe JXN is trying to prevent YL from turning into that monster. I dont know.
So YL r*ped JXN many times in the first life, according to novel reader and some flash backs in the drama. I just can not imagine helping someone who did that, or had a memory of that. JXN always said she owes him, WHAT does she owes him? Nothing, she just rejected him, cruel maybe but a girl can reject a boy and doesnt owe him anything. so yea, no I dont pity YL.
So much is happening in episode 20 and I was confused. Actually I was very sleepy when watching epi 19-20 and I didnt know what happened. 😅😅😅 And nobody is writing recap for this drama. Can someone recap it for me? If not, I will have to rewatch. But there’s not much JXN-XW scene so I’m a bit lazy to rewatch 😆 TIA
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Like Alila Nguyen pointed out in a previous discussion, now JXN has a chance to restart her life, YL's life, basically everyone's. How can she be mad with YL for the things that he didnt do in this second life? Yea, the whole r@pe issue from past life was evil but the whole thing is very complex too. You can say that it's two person, in two different situation. It's not the same YL.
But at episode 20, both BL and ZJW acted it out superbly in the prison scene. I could felt his innocence and pure heart towards JXN. And I felt JXN forgave YL for what he did. Its complex. But the acting is good that they were able to act out such a complex feeling.
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I would have stomach it better if they had an affair. But r@pe, urgghh. Their relationship in second life with the memory of that just didnt sit well with me.
Ok, maybe JXN is trying to prevent YL from turning into that monster. I dont know.
JXN always said she owes him, WHAT does she owes him? Nothing, she just rejected him, cruel maybe but a girl can reject a boy and doesnt owe him anything. so yea, no I dont pity YL.
And nobody is writing recap for this drama. Can someone recap it for me? If not, I will have to rewatch. But there’s not much JXN-XW scene so I’m a bit lazy to rewatch 😆
TIA