I think for us, the problem is we treated the first life as her past experience, and therefore the act is unforgivable.…
I guess because TTEOTM is xianxia genre, I will watch it with less logic and emotion. You are right, JXN is trying to prevent everything that went wrong in the first life.
Dear lord, I thought I was the only one who had a problem with that !Now I do pity YL a bit : i think the reason…
Yes, if he loves her, he will never ever do that to her. I thought I misunderstood but novel reader confirmed that it is r@pe. @_@ I would have stomach it better if they had an affair. But r@pe, urgghh. Their relationship in second life with the memory of that just didnt sit well with me. Ok, maybe JXN is trying to prevent YL from turning into that monster. I dont know.
So YL r*ped JXN many times in the first life, according to novel reader and some flash backs in the drama. I just can not imagine helping someone who did that, or had a memory of that. JXN always said she owes him, WHAT does she owes him? Nothing, she just rejected him, cruel maybe but a girl can reject a boy and doesnt owe him anything. so yea, no I dont pity YL.
So much is happening in episode 20 and I was confused. Actually I was very sleepy when watching epi 19-20 and I didnt know what happened. 😅😅😅 And nobody is writing recap for this drama. Can someone recap it for me? If not, I will have to rewatch. But there’s not much JXN-XW scene so I’m a bit lazy to rewatch 😆 TIA
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I would have stomach it better if they had an affair. But r@pe, urgghh. Their relationship in second life with the memory of that just didnt sit well with me.
Ok, maybe JXN is trying to prevent YL from turning into that monster. I dont know.
JXN always said she owes him, WHAT does she owes him? Nothing, she just rejected him, cruel maybe but a girl can reject a boy and doesnt owe him anything. so yea, no I dont pity YL.
And nobody is writing recap for this drama. Can someone recap it for me? If not, I will have to rewatch. But there’s not much JXN-XW scene so I’m a bit lazy to rewatch 😆
TIA