Kinara

I know that everyone here wants to portray the FL as this innocent gem of a person but she is not. She honestly was very self absorbed . She did not know him at all. She only talked about herself to him. The woman did not even bother to meet him as often as he did. She could have found out if she tried . She made only one effort to find out. The clues were all there before that but she was just working that’s all. Yes making her believe he was cheating was stupid. But I don’t really blame the ML for the break up. If there was hope he would have made an effort but piling on millions in debt on the FL who had her own financial issues is not prudent . And everyone here is trying to blame someone who pretty much hit rock bottom and was not even thinking straight. Just saying . When you are a couple you sense things that are wrong way before she did. She was so wrapped up in her stuff . And no she did not give him that confidence or security that she would be there for him if he told her. So he did not .The FL has her flaws here- she is not your perfect FL. She is cold, calculating and ambitious . It is not wrong to be that way. I admire women who have that quality. But she was too self absorbed. At that point that relationship was a one way street with GY making all the effort . That is why it shattered as soon as he quit. In DZT is mind GY was just a rich kid who had everything and was just playing around . If their bond were stronger or if she had made an effort to get to really know him - this would not have happened. From the beginning she always thought she is the only one with problems and it everything revolved around that .

Yes a long time ago women and men were equal. Something changed later.

They are both such good actors!

No one is a saint for sure and there are always people who will do what they do. But in general the world has not been fair to women for a long time and even in the present

Well said!

I am from Asia but don’t live there but yes I know some of the traditions . And yes they are nuts . Especially with regards to women. If only they could treat the women better . but then all over the world this is an issue

Whatever you googled - others may get offended .

Please take that comment down

I am a woman and an independent working one at that and I don’t like this line for conversation. Women over 35 are actually very confident - they are the best . They have a lot of self esteem and dignity. It is the best age to be. Please don’t degrade women here. If you want to analyze the drama characters that is fine but what you said here is out of line. Please be respectful.

LOL. It’s funny how well they know each other and what exactly the other is up to ! 😂

Yes a one way street !

She did not try to know him at all.

Yes the FL’s EQ was off. She did not give him that sense of security for him to confide in her and ask for that support. And that move of hers to marry Feng Sheng- that really irked me. The guy lost everything and she just walked away thinking he played with her?? Oh well !

Yeah the ML and FL have deep understanding and affection!

Very entertaining. Full of action. No dull moment here ! I am glad they are not just focusing on romance

Yes- you would wonder. That is what I am seeing now. More than supportive and ‘good’ XCX understands him better and they work together well. She is not self absorbed like the FL is. If only we could find a better reason for why the ML should be with the FL other than that is what the author wants 😂that would be great! I am still waiting for a story where the ML and FL break up because they are incompatible and have happily moved on to other people . And when they meet again they have left the baggage behind 😂.

😂- no redeemable qualities !

BTW I agree with you completely. This is exactly how I felt about this situation. The key was that he had feel like telling her . If he had gotten that vibe from her then he would have

Same I have been wondering as well am- why does he love her ? What attracted him to her ? Is it just because Mingmei’s app matched them? Or could be what @Megumi-H said - the author’s fantasy pair

She has gotten more cut throat - that is all I can see so far .