Kinara

Female definitely needs character development - i don’t blame the male anymore after this second breakup. She is very wishy washy- why did she agree to marry him again if she was not sure? She repeated the same mistake again. Only on the surface she seems to have grown. I also feel that her expectations for the male are very unrealistic. He tried to work on it and is changing you can see that but her expectations never change. She cannot accept any of his flaws and any part of him as he is- so for now the break up is the best thing. She needs to think through what exactly she wants

She is not mature enough to be with the ML- that’s my verdict for now

In fact at this point I have decided that I hate the female’s character - she is pretty much two timing him with the lawyer

Yes he is misunderstood . He loves the female in his own way . The reason he let her go the second time around is because her expectations are too high to meet. He has done the right thing because the female wants a completely different version of him and no human being can provide that. I can also go so far as saying that the female says she wants an equal relationship but then she is forcing him to be someone that he is not . In this situation it will not work

Agree Gu Nanting was way better than this guy

Yeah she does not need that love and care from the second male but she needs to learn to work things out Bette with the male and yes learn to accept and both need to compromise. The male is not going to change overnight it has to be a gradual transformation and she definitely needs to communicate better with the male

I am not saying she should spell it out but she shouldwork with him rather than sulking and storming out everytime

Yes I agree that it is not entirely ML’s fault. His understanding of love is very different from the FL. And she can definitely be better part of the transformation so both can understand and grow together. But right now they are both speaking a different language. That is what bothers me about this drama. You need 2 hands to clap

He seems to have gotten a lot from his mom it seems - that’s what I gathered from the conversation with his dad

Otherwise they will keep going in circles

Exactly - he is definitely emotionally stunted but he is not bad and she did not set any expectations first time around, never said anything and gave everything. She even insisted marrying him even though he had not got over his previous relationship. She made crucial mistakes too. But these two have to communicate better. He is emotionally stunted and he is not psychic to know what she is thinking and what she wants
When you love someone you have to embrace some of their flaws but she has a vision of someone and something entirely different from who he is and that is from the beginning. He needs to make an effort yes but she also needs to try and understand him more.

Everyone is just blaming the male - yes he is clueless but I think the FL is making mistakes too- she is not honest about exactly what she wants from him. The communication from her is really bad. She also needs to accept some parts of who the male is if she loves him and wants to be with him

I feel like the second male does not understand her

He is rushing things but I think he has improved in the 6 years a little bit. I feel like he is scared of losing her fully

The woman is not a doormat - she just gave too much in the beginning because she was very young and had no experience . Now in the present she is more mature . The guy is not that bad either . This is a very realistic mature drama. I like it so much so far

Yes there’s were so many things that were wrong with the way the first marriage happened. The female could have confessed and waited rather than get married hastily and give up everything when he was still recovering from his breakup

The fact that they both have stayed single after 7 yrs says a lot

Women in general just drop men and move on - forget it if you loved someone deeply plus their marriage and divorce was too hasty

I don’t hate him either - but he does have issues but so does the female- but only they both can sort it out. I think they married hastily and divorced hastily

I agree. I don’t think she was great either initially - she was too young- too clingy and just gave up everything g for him