Kinara

My question is why was she keeping those pictures and why air it out now? It all sounds very fishy. It looks like somebody is deliberately dredging up dirt on him as soon as he became popular

Actually the female lead is the one who comes across as a jerk here - he is not so bad - he even told her how his feelings had changed for etc etc and he is trying so hard. The problem is that the female does not know what she wants hence she can’t explain to him. And yes she does not try to understand him at all

Yes I agree - she refuses to understand him or put herself in his shoes. And don’t be sorry I feel the same . People are trying to justify everything about her just because she is a female - but that is wrong. Let’s be honest here - I feel like their break up is a good thing right now

At this point I think it is the female who needs to grow up. She thinks that she owns him and can force him to do whatever she wants. She said equal relationship is what she wants but then her expectations of the male are plain ridiculous. Her sulking is just getting on my nerves

You don’t need to get worked up . It’s ok if it’s not your cup of tea

Finished 4th watch and still so good - and still can’t get over this drama

Do not come to hasty conclusions- episode 7 is too early

It is really not melodrama - I would not call it that

We can’t make that conclusion since we really did not see much of that relationship . What we saw was how she thought she thing was wrong and dumped him that’s all. But what we are seeing in detail is how his relationship with the female is playing out. And I feel that the female has a certain ideal vision of him which he is not . It was clear after the 2nd break up that she is unsure of what exactly she wants and she never looks at herself and acknowledges her flaws even. He is atleast trying g to analyze himself and figure out what he can do better to be with her. But she is just looking at how he can change for her but not what she needs to do as well to get there. That is the issue

I still can’t watch this one. Am on episode 2 and already yawning

Oh wow episode 11 and still lying? Yikes! This seems to be a very silly story. I am on episode 2 and am dropping it

Every person is different and it did not work with the first one either - from what I gathered there were issues with his first GF too. At this point I actually find the female to be immature and indecisive.

I am actually more confident in the male’s conviction to be with her rather than that of the female at this point.

Actually the male is self aware of who he is and that is what I like about it and he actually understands the female more than the female does him. She never communicates with him and just expects that he does what she wants. If she wants what his dad wanted from his mom - all of it - then this relationship will not work. It if she can meet him half way then it will work. And I am emphasiszing on the female because she is the one who has unrealistic expectations of the male . She also needs to decide how much he is worth for her because she is very indecisive. As for the male I feel like given the chance he will prove himself but the problem is that the female is very impatient and wants everything g yesterday.

Well her problem is that she still does not know what she wants - she just has this version of love in her mind. when I say I hate the female - I mean I don’t like any of her decisions so far- they are too impulsive. And she should not have agreed to marry the male again so quickly and backtracked again. She hurt him too at this point.

Yeah female sees the male with a filter of her own- that’s the issue in this drama

The male also needs to be comfortable being himself to a certain extent in a relationship - no one wants to be a different person than they are- that puts too much pressure just like it did the first time around in their relationship

As for ‘Meet yourself’ it was too bland and storybook like to be realistic and the scenarios are so different to compare

Yes that’s exactly what I think - the female cannot love him as he is and she has some ‘ideal’ version of a partner in her mind that she wants. She is still very immature and makes impulsive decisions. At this point I actually feel bad for the male because of her wishy washy behavior. I am actually glad he chose to break up with her the second time rather than going in circles with her. She is not sure about what she exactly wants

I don’t think what female is asking for is a healthy relationship- she wants the relationship to go according to her expectations- that is not right either. There needs to be middle ground beteeen these two. Instead what she is asking for is a totally different person and she is still making hasty decisions and blaming the male for everything