LucyL

I hit the Elder milestone decade in Dec 2025. I grew up with a nonconformist spirit in a household that didn't allow personal opinions or 'negative emotions'.There are a few things I absolutely will not compromise on, and among those is our basic freedom to speak our thoughts, including freedom to speak opposing thoughts. Those who hold a different opinion on subjects, even an opinion iin contrast to yours, is just as valuable. Just bc an opinion is negative does NOT mean it's hate. We all have warying dislikes in out life.  

I abhor anything that has to do with sexual assault or pedophilia, whether against females OR males. If you watch dramas or movies that contain sexual assault or pedophilia and you justify/excuse the behaviors bc "it's a drama" then I have no room in my heart for you. And yes, I have read comments across MDL that excuse such behaviors. To me, it borders on participation.

Jumping into the ' herd mentality' is the direct opposite of freedom of speech, with the final result being complete suppression of individuality.  We are not clones. Everyone has the right to speak their thoughts, UNLESS  it harms others physically. Emotionally, as adults we should be able to brush harsh remarks off. 

I'm retired with a wanderlust spirit that confines me to my home, unlike in the past. I'm a news junkie from  local, state, national, and International news. I'm a weather freak. It affects everyone's daily lives.

 I solely trust in God, Jesus, & Holy Spirit. I've nothing if not for Him. The 'Christian' moniker doesn't apply to me bc I see Christians as religious and I don't folllow any man made rules. I FOLLOW JESUS. The Way is the only Way. 

Live & Learn. The 1st time you didn't know any better, the 2nd time you did. There is NO 3rd time. 

I love others' stories. People are really amazing in their unique appearance, experience/s, wishes, hopes, and dreams, AND thoughts. It's a blessing to have varied friends from whom I can learn. 

I've been watching Asian dramas since 2014 (a few in 2000 on VHS & DVD from the local library, so why I waited until '14 to go all in is 🤷🏼‍♀️and was pointed to MDL in 2022.  It was the best recommendation one could receive.

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A link below is for the actors & actresses I absolutely do NOT support by watching anything they're cast in regardless of who else has been cast or how the drama or movie has been hyped. It's an extremely personal matter for me, given I'm a survivor of childhood pedophilia, adult SA, AND malignant narcissism. There are works I've seen prior to finding out about their deeds, however, with knowledge they're blacklisted.  If you DO support them, then by all means, GO AWAY!!!!!!!😠 

https://mydramalist.com/list/3WWzB6Z3?r=notif&_nid=176118688#comment-21442034