MadelineMaureen

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Looking back on all the shows I've watched it became glaringly clear that "green flag" ML's are few and far between and really only in recent years. The low drama romances are even rarer.
Heads up on 'My Fated Boy', I'm personally struggling with the lack of a decent score/OST in this one. That's honestly one of the big things with the more basic storyline dramas...you need that epic score and OST to round it out, at least for me.

Anyone know what's up with the weird stock music during a LOT of the scenes?

Spoiler tag cause i wrote a whole a paper.

Had the get out my laptop to answer. I went through your completed list and the only Chinese one I could think of off the top of my head is 'My Fated Boy' as I'm currently watching it and find it cute.
I literal have your watchlist pulled up next to mine and keep having to be like oh, nope they've already seen it.

I have some medium level drama llama recs:

'Koi wa Tsuzuku yo Doko Made mo' aka 'Love Lasts Forever' - Watch it...watch it now. It's on viki, but https://blitzfansub.com/category/love-lasts-forever/ this is where I originally watched it with translator notes. As you haven't seen any Japanese dramas this should be helpful.

'Castaway Diva' has 3 hella green flag men in it...but it does deal with domestic abuse. It's short, but the relationships between the FL and the two brothers are so great. (noticed you're watching it)

'Her Private Life' - great chemistry with the leads and ML is super respectful of her love of her idol...lets just say he gives the best birthday present for her in the end, but I don't want to spoil it for those who haven't seen it.

'Intense Love' the only annoying part about this show is the little sister of the ML. But she is like a Pokémon she evolves with her hairstyle and grows. Doctor ML, actress FL, childhood arranged marriage. They didn't really know each other until they were adults. Their mothers were best friends.

'Love O2O' - the tv show with Yang Yang not the movie. If you can still find it online, as the actress has been yeeted from the Chinese internet, it's a very low drama within the main couple type of show. You Are My Glory is much better work from Yang Yang imo, but it's a classic at this point.

'Love Scenery' - Loved this one. College student/famous online gamer ML and slightly older FL famous singer bond while he teachers her the ropes of a game...think sweeter version of 'You Are My Glory' with them acting out the game play. Same ML as 'Put Your Head On My Shoulder'

'Love to Hate You' - Korean...a bit spicy as they are adults and adult situations be happening. Green flag FL seriously best FL I've seen come out of a Korean drama in a decade.

'My Little Happiness' dude..the chemistry...Doctor ML searching for his first love. FL is a lawyer that works for the hospital...So cute. FL and 2ML from 'Put Your Head On My Shoulder'

'Perfect and Casual' College student and Professor...more like a yellow flag because of possible power dynamic questions, but it works somehow and never really feels weird imo.

'Perfect Marriage Revenge' pretty much everyone BUT the FL and ML are red flags...BUT the ML is an entire forest on his own, so if you are ready to dive into the soapiest of soapy kdramas(I swear to god they almost had a blackout on my kdrama trope bingo card) it's only 12 episodes so could be a good tester for heaver long format dramas.

'Run On' some people found it boring, but Green Flag ML ftw.

'Strong Woman Do Bong Soon' god tier Kdrama...don't watch the spin off that just aired.(came back cause I noticed you're watching it right now...quit while you're ahead...) There is a serial killer plot point...and that is the only serious part of the whole show. will have you kicking your feet at how cute the FL and ML are.

'The Day of Becoming You'- very well acted, but the plot did trip some people up in the end.

'Twinkling Watermelon' this one will make you cry...it's mainly focused on family and understanding each other. Time slipping, music, deaf character, high school. This has child abuse and talks of not wanting to be on the planet anymore....so please keep that in mind. You might want to youtube some clips to see if it's something you're interested in. (noticed you're already watching)

Scrolling through my watched list made me realize how depressing a lot of 2000-2010 shows were...like damn, barely a happy ending in sight.

thank you for saving me the 36hours it would take to watch this. ML is 🚨🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩🚨🚩

i saw it on you tbw list but 'Love Me, Love My Voice'....God Level Tier, slow-burn romance, no drama, green flag ML, OST is FIRE!
watch it...watch it now...
also innocent/naive FL but not childish/annoying

I think they were talking about the actors switching roles...

oh yeah definitely love the actress. the character is just very flawed in her logic.

I really want to see who they cast for the parents as they are just as important as the 'children' in the story imo. They better not cut all the adults story arches.
The best way to cut the fat is the cut out all the extra with her roommates. Have the one who kept in touch with the elder brother, but don't do full deep dives into what makes them tick.

I think it was basketball while in school and then baking in adulthood. Both men chose their profession based on the FL's needs/wants. She NEEDS a dentist she can trust, she WANTS sweets all the time. One brother indulges her the other tried to help with an anxiety point.

I will forever find it weird when shows are up for awards before they are even completed.

Thank you so much for taking the time to help! I really appreciate it.

Do you have any links to why fantasy isn't allowed to release a lot in a year? Or if you have time could you explain it? I knew about censorship lags and actor scandals causing delays but haven't heard of the fantasy issue. Was it because there were a lot of fantasy releases over the last few years?

Lets all give a round of applause to Zhou Ye for portraying innocents without acting overly childish. We've all seen it done so poorly in other works, but she balanced it so well in this as Sheng Sheng.

i think he's the one talking to the guy on the message boards as the grandson obviously has his cell number. they wouldnt need to make contact on a game message board. they also would have just shown the grandson's face in some shots if it was only him scheming. dont know how the crazy guy ended up working for the 2 of them...i dont think that Seok Hun is actively working with the grandson.
i also feel like Seok Hun would know what really happened with Do Do Hee's parents.
I want to see if Seok Hun wants Do Hee completely out of the picture or if he just wants her dependent on him, cause the motive is still a bit foggy imo. but i love a good mystery thriller.

the son of the chairwoman is the more open & blatant with his attacks. Seok Hun seems the type to read 'the art of war' for funsies.

thank you! ❤️

The dancer in him really shows up. That relaxed yet perfect posture. Love to see it.

Me just going through each song to 'like' it and the whole play list. I had to come on here to see how everyone's Chinese name was spelled so I could see who in the cast was actually singer vs who had a different voice. It was fun.

I'm going to break a few things down to help maybe better understand the characters if that's okay. But I do understand your perspective, I just want to give you mine and see if it makes you see things any differently.

It's said a few times by her friends and family that the girl can barely boil water without messing it up somehow. 'We love her, but please don't make her cook for us' kind of mentality. The way he expresses his love aka his love language is acts of service. He isn't very talkative and he doesn't express himself well sometimes so he does it through food, and giving to those he cares for. She loves quality time and I want to say a bit of gift giving. Even if that means watching him cook/being a helper and shoving snacks at him(though I'm pretty sure that plot point is there solely for advertising purposes, those who've read the novel let me know).

Everyone expresses their love differently, and even though it may seem unbalanced from an outside observer, you can never truly know how much the other is receiving in the relationship. She gives him sense of peace and home just by being present imo.

Small spoiler ahead for those who haven't finished the show.

He's been infatuated with her since he heard her voice two years prior to him stumbling into her Circle. He didn't know how to talk to her. He heard her talking about food, so he gave her a recommendation just to be able to speak with her and express his interest.

He's clumsy and awkward as he practically raised himself, and then just focused on school and work. She's young and inexperienced when it comes to relationships and too shy to overly show her interest. She's a gifted composer and he was always her fan before they ever spoke or saw each other.

One of the repeated images is Sheng Sheng running into Mo Qing Cheng's arms. Over the course of their relationship you can see how much more comfortable she is with showing affection physically.

I hope the wall of text didn't deter you from reading it, as I like discussing content I've seen and getting and giving different perspectives and takes on it. As we all have different lived experiences that we bring into watching shows we will all have slightly different views/takes on them.

Had to whip out a note book right quick. I now have 11 new recommendations. Thank you my love.

Please tell me someone else clocked the 'God' on Cha Chung Hwa's hat. It says 'Good' but one of the 'o's are missing. Like a little easter egg.