this just feels wrong,no matter how strong her parents are,they failed their daughter and their love is not the…
Well, this story is also emphasizing on traditional punitive beliefs and her parents’ generation are also victim of inter generational practices. So FL represent the new generation that learnt to understand, forgive and yet craft their own values and practices yet retaining respect and bond with their parents. So this is that kind of story and not so much focus on the punishment of her parent. 😅
When he find out about her love confession which she wrote ?
She wrote a piece of article title “I love you too…”. He read it and he knew it was written for him. But that’s in the novel, not sure they will keep this here in drama.
Could you please spoiler if the ML in the novel had romantic feelings for sister?
Nope, interesting you think that way, wondering where you read that. ML has never know FL’s sister and BeiYu is also so much older than him. All this while he only knew FL.
In the novel, is the last chapters. 2 additional epilogue of their happy married life with adult kids. Not sure…
In the novel, after JinRui made her pregnant, she was force to have an abortion, then she ran back to find her parents, which they send her back home again (in drama it’s that scene that you see her being slapped by her Mom). Then she develops depression and started to fall for all the wrong guys, then she contacted AIDs, which makes her depression worsen, so she finally committed suicide through poisoning. I don’t know whether the drama will change these plots. So far they have change BeiYu’s abortion to miscarriage. So there maybe other changes.
Our girl can really endure a lot, she pushes MingSheng away, as she said she doesn’t want to be burdened by him (more of she doesn’t want to also burden him and disrupt his plan in life). He kept saying it’s his choice, but she knew he will time and time come to her rescue which she doesn’t want. So she used the worst line to push him away, “I hate you…” She has decided to stay behind seeing how her parents suffered and took the courage to face them instead of running. QingYu will continue to grow to be stronger, she is learning her parents’ endurance, and what they value. She empathize with them, and she knew they do care for her a lot, so she chooses not to run away and instead to stay on. Her mom also told her, when she goes Uni., she can be on her own, which makes her more determined to complete her studies. One part I missed which I haven’t seen in drama is QingYu’s writing skills, she is very expressive with words and she used it as her outlet. They inly show the article about her feelings towards family, but she wrote a lot more. She wrote about MuMu’s situation, she confessed her love to MingSheng via writing anonymously which he knew. She wrote about her jealousy towards MuMu and his relationship too. So I hope this drama don’t take that part out.
Okay…I am catching up with ep 14-15 then can continue 16-17 later…that tree scene, when I read it, didnt feel so emotional but seeing it played out😭😭😭 Feel so heart wrenching for both MingSheng and QingYu…Will comments my thoughts in a while, need a moment.
QQY: "You're a burden to me." Ming Sheng: "It's ok if you don't accept my apology but can you not hate me?" Damn...…
I saw that scene, and my heart felt so sad for MingSheng😭😭😭. At that moment even though I feel he understands why QingYu say that and did that, it still hurts a lot as he again feels abandoned.
Does Mumu likes Ming Sheng? Or is she a true friend for Qing Yu?
I am excited too;). Yup, hence I don’t understand why some people can say that this show is boring. I felt that this story has more complexity then most other cdrama I watched lately. I encourage you to pick up the novel, it’s an easy read. When I read it, I actually felt different about the characters. I like so far how this drama is showing the characters’ arc.
Does Mumu likes Ming Sheng? Or is she a true friend for Qing Yu?
In the novel, it was was never clear and left unexplored of her intention. You can speculate that MuMu may have havast feelings for ML but she also never confess to him. Or she grew up with ML, and maybe she always feels her relationship with ML is exclusive and he will always be there for her and now with him having a love interest, it could be her selfishness or jealousy. Or if you understand MuMu’s character, she is a person who is always about doing the right thing, so rationally she felt FL is too young to commit in relationship with ML, so she advised against it. However till the very end, MuMu is always seen as a good friend to FL. MuMu’s complexity as a character, is also interesting to me.
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I don’t know whether the drama will change these plots. So far they have change BeiYu’s abortion to miscarriage. So there maybe other changes.
She has decided to stay behind seeing how her parents suffered and took the courage to face them instead of running. QingYu will continue to grow to be stronger, she is learning her parents’ endurance, and what they value. She empathize with them, and she knew they do care for her a lot, so she chooses not to run away and instead to stay on.
Her mom also told her, when she goes Uni., she can be on her own, which makes her more determined to complete her studies. One part I missed which I haven’t seen in drama is QingYu’s writing skills, she is very expressive with words and she used it as her outlet. They inly show the article about her feelings towards family, but she wrote a lot more.
She wrote about MuMu’s situation, she confessed her love to MingSheng via writing anonymously which he knew. She wrote about her jealousy towards MuMu and his relationship too. So I hope this drama don’t take that part out.