Not a Robot

Same for soccer/football, basketball, dance, gaming, make-up, celebrity gossip, K-Pop, etc. I know K-Pop fans of all ages who will fly to different states to attend concerts, all of their user handles have their favorite, hang photos in their cubicles and talk non-stop about it. I also have co-workers who use their free time watching shows, then talking non-stop about them, and try to recruit me, but the shows are not my thing. One of my doctors tried to recruit me to watch a K-Drama on Netflix, but I passed. So I actually think it's normal for people to talk non-stop about their passions, if they both parties share the same passion. I would talk about BL if I could recruit 1 person to watch with me, but so far, no takers. I also enjoy the acting of Dunk and Joong. I've seen interviews with them, and I also saw Joong's ship work with Nine, as J9, and they seem to be very nice people. Joong is stunningly handsome, and Dunk has one of the most beautiful smiles, because his whole face smiles, not just his mouth.

I think there is a back story with Ton and his father and not wanting his reputation tarnished. In the trailer, Nick is looking at video of him and Ton in bed together. I hope that Nick does not use the video, but with this show, it's probable.

I think that Mew will not trust Top right now, not sure if he ever will. I think every character is flawed, just like normal humans, so I can't help but root for them.

I hope that Mew and Top can work it out. I'm shocked that I'm saying this, but I may change my mind next week depending on what Ton and Top talk about. It hurts me that Top feels unloved because I know people in real life who never felt loved by a parent, and it messes with them. Top will have to work hard, and never mess up again, so he can have a loving family with Mew and his moms.

I understand now. Psychologically, Top was trying to resist, but in the end, lust won. I know that Top has problems with feeling unloved, and I actually felt sorry for him when he was crying after his fight with Mew. I'm hoping that Mew may show him some grace in the end, and that he saves most of his wrath for Ton, who knowingly set out to have sex with Top, just to get back at Mew and Top.

A agree that Top was holding back, but when Top went back to the hotel, he had already decided to have sex with Ton, he was just trying to rationalize it in his mind. We knew this when Top did not kick Ton out of the shower. In the car, Top put a condom on or let Ton put one on and inserted it. When Ton was bouncing on it, he did not push him off. All intentional. You have to turn several keys before intercourse. When caught, many men will lie at first to see if they can get away with it, so will many women. He had the post coital regret that some people have. Too bad, too sad. What's done is done.

I hope they all go their separate ways and learn the lessons that young adulthood is teaching them about trust and friendship.

I had forgotten about the shower scene. The video was just a rationalization to get sexual gratification. But as Mew said, he could have been with anyone else. Mew would have still be hurt, but it would not be a double betrayal. Top is so used to hiding his feelings, so it's hard to know what he is thinking at times. Force is doing a great job portraying Top.

Lol, I must have been in a daze. Thanks for letting me know. I remember them shutting the lights off and Zo bringing the cake out with like 1 or 2 candles on it. Maybe I got distracted.

He was honest when he told Mew where and when he had sex with Ton. So Mew had to ask more than once. I don't know anyone who had not lied or gaslighted their own parents, and had to be asked more than once, even a "good" kid. I also know many people who stay with partners who have done worse, like get another woman pregnant, lie 20 times, cheat with different people. I think they are crazy to stay with these people, but I can't run their lives. Except for the secret recording, and all of the fist fights, these guys are not insanely different from people I know in real life. And I would never date anyone like Top, because I could not trust him due to his promiscuity, even if that is judgmental.

I think Mew should dump both Ton and Top, and maybe even Ray who keeps violating his boundaries, but that would not make an interesting series.

Top needed to spill about Ton because Mew is in a close friend of Ton's. Top, could have told him that he f-ed one of his best friends, then Mew would decide if I had trust to continue the relationship. Spilling all of his ONS or 3 month relationships are not really necessary since Mew new that Top was promiscuous when he started dating him. He should have just disclosed the Ton thing, and told Mew that he was being a child because he saw a 2 year old video of Mew and Ray kissing. Since they were not "official" yet, Top wasn't technically cheating, but he was being selfish because Top knew that Mew may choose to not continue their relationship. Mew would not be so hurt if Top had just been honest, and had Top not made a big deal about asking Mew to be his boyfriend. Mew thought Top was was dating him seriously, even if they weren't official, and that must really hurt.

I never understood the evil woman trope. I'm glad that Nita won the prize, but the simping that followed was just too much.

I did not know it was her birthday, but even so, nobody said Happy Birthday, everyone was congratulating her on the debate. I don't remember them singing to her when Zo brought out the cake either. I did not fast forward, and I'm not going to rewatch, so I missed a big chunk.

I was hoping that Neo and Mark would have a happier series together, but was told that Mark is not in this series anymore. Neo has chemistry with everyone, so I'm sure this series will be good too.

I thought that all of the people sucking Nita's a$$ was way over the top. Yes it happens, but I would think a great debater like Nita would have pointed out that Zo in the frog costume was just wrong. Always have to make men total simps where a woman is involved. Would they have made a Joke costume and cake if Zo had won? Nita tried to make it about the team, but the simps overrode her.

I'm glad that Joke wants to have an adult relationship with Zo, and that Zo is starting to open up about how he feels. I actually like this show very much, mainly because I enjoy Zo and Joong's work together. I enjoyed Joong's work with Nine as well. He is showing that he is not just another pretty face, but is a pretty good actor as well. I'm biased because when Dunk and Joong are interviewed together, they are so delightful. I'm not ready to see them in a series like Only Friends.

I agree but I don't think he will listen even though he knows the truth. I don't usually watch BTS, but some ended up in my recommends during the 2nd season and Jericho and Hiro did several lives without the rest of the cast. Even at the end of season party, Miko and Teejay were not even there. Audience was told Miko was at his hometown and Teejay was at another shoot. So Xion is deliberately making these choices. This could be a great series, so it's too bad.

Morning after episode thought. At least Top was honest with Mew, and came clean. Top should have told Mew that he got lured back because of the video with Mew and Ray. He should have also brought up that this was also the time when Mew was telling everyone that they did a reset, and were not boyfriends. In real life, I think Top would have stated this, but we still need 6 weeks of material, so reason is not a proper response. Top's silent tear did soften my heart a little, so I hope that Mew does not let revenge overtake him and harden his heart. Top has shared how his upbringing has made him not care about others. Maybe Mew's moms could talk to him about not letting bitterness blacken his soul.

I think because Top did not behave with other partners as he had with Mew. Ton got intensely jealous that even he, the man with the hottest hole in town, could not tame Top, and he feels some type of way about it.

I understand Mew. Friends until back stabbed. All friends talk crap about friends, that's no big deal, but the betrayals are something else. In real life, this would lead to dropping the friendship, but since this is a series, there will be revenge. You have to watch the "good" people like Mew and Sand. Once you make an enemy of them, it will probably be for years, if not for life.

Not one green flag in the bunch. They all pop off at different times, but all are flawed, which makes this a great series.

Mew is not responsible for Ray being an alcoholic, and drunk driving, since I'm 100% that was not the first time. The whole friend group knows he gets drunk, and drives, but they all still support him. What Ray said about Cheaum (sp?) and April is something that they can easily smooth over, since Cheaum should have been honest in the first place. You can support a project and and not get it.

Sand set this ball in motion, using Ray as a tool to get his revenge on Top. Nick, Mew and Ray were collateral damage. Sand doused the tool with accelerant, then lit the fuse. Sand knows that Ray is volatile alcoholic, and would tell Mew, but when you use a person like Ray, you have to factor in that you cannot control him. Sand should have just approached Mew, played the recording, told him about his history with Top. Yes, he would need to apologize to Nick for deceiving him, but at least the matter would have been kept between the parties, and Sand would have gotten revenge on Top. But we wouldn't have this messy series if Sand had not stepped out of pocket. All of the characters in this series have flaws. Not one saint in the whole group. Sand gets away with it more because his backstory is so screwed up, and he has good qualities. That's why viewers love this series so much because all of them are dirty in different ways.