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As is...for me is not justifying anything.....or finding a deeper meaning....

What is consider a good reason?

The character is just is....has a petty reasons....many can relate...many can't.

I just watch it for what it is....characters who make silly...unreasonable choices.....stupid and dumb choices....

We don't need to fully understand nor justify...


I watch many things and go....hahaha....I wouldn't do that.

But it is easier for ppl/viewers to say so....in real life...these ppl exist....we might once been them or been the one watching.....no1 know the internal battle....i will not condemn them for life about it.

I enjoy it more watching it...not trying to psychoanalyst everything (that is hard for me some times) hahahaha

Maybe.....probably.... I'll be fine with it either way.

I am watching it as is....not trying to see the deeper psychological meaning....sometimes there isn't any.....it is just....as simple as it is displayed.


I enjoyed it more that way. Watching it as is. It gives me the feel

I feel like they are...

I like the friends interactions.

I like how the girls fangirl over the other.


I feel it takes the joy of it watching as is.

I don't feel like it is cliche like the usual kdrama....but if one contantly having go into these "critiques ". The enjoyed is not there and focused on the later.

I say it might be time to drop it. Since there more issues tjan enjoyments.

Earlier i did the same....then u just decided...to just watch iy as it....to be...let the story unfold.....i dont dislike any of th3 characters. They are not bad ppl....tbey make stupid choices and have bad coping skills.....bug deal

I know many ppl are having a hard time with the characters behaviors/ reasoning.

I find that there is way too many analysis and meaning put into it.

I love an analysis....that is my Jam.....but something are not that complex....although it seems that way.....(i analyze human behaviors for a living & is always looking into it)

Sometimes it is ....just....just as it is....we may not like it.....but it is just as is.....ppl can be dumb idiots....i will not condemn them for life....many of us....i dare say all of us...has react with emotions and just did stupid stuff....being impulsive.....taking longer to get over things....i fight impulsiveness everyday......many times.... I'm like damn...that was a dumb choice...why did i do that? (Don't matter the age...age don't determine maturity...environment/ experiences does)

This drama is best enjoyed....just is....not to think soo much oF WHY. I find that the less i analyze and just watch it....just is.....i find i enjoy it more....i just enjoy how it makes me feel seeing certain things.

They give me the feel....the butterfly of summer love...i wish for characters self reflections /growth

If you want to analyze and critique the characters. Too much....i won't recommend it. You'll lose your enjoyment.

This drama is just...to watch...as is....to feel....with no real reason...love have no real reason....their reasons are silly and petty....but it is easier of us the viewer or 3rd person to say...well do this and that.....we are not in their shoes....

I know we been there and done that....as a friend who see their friend...doing dumb things...or you're maybe that person who did dumb things. I don't feel they should be condemn for life.

I been that person...in a toxic relationship and can't get over it...it was a long Rollercoaster ride.. I'm not ashamed to say my ride was longer than a year..it was like quitting cigarettes...it took 10 tries....eventually i have my growth...learnt from it and became the better person.....i hold no bitterness. I even thanked him. Because of what happened it taught me more. I became a stronger and better person. He eventually apologized....i didn't want or needed an apology or explanation. I had self growth and level up.

My sister in law is in a toxic relationship.....she choose to be there and will never leave. I don't understand it...but i emphasize....i asked her why.....she has no reason...it just is....how she feel.

I have enjoyed some drama for pure fluff and how it gives me the feel. I enjoyed My secret Romance. It was a simple easy watch....gave me the feels....it had all the silly cliche and things didn't make sense..
...but it gave me the feel. Turn my brain off and just enjoy that feel.

Do i connect with each character personally....not necessarily....can i relate to certain aspects of of the situations/person....yes....the trick is to learn or know that we won't truly understand everything and there may not really be a reason you can relate to. ....i sympathize with none....because regardless of the situations....i believe in self responsibility/recognizing it. It's a daily battle. Which i teach daily and i myself learn about daily.

I.e. my client hit another person.

The parent rationalize the reason why....boys play like that, maybe it was a game? Maybe the kid did this....ect...

I said to her...

I understand there is a reason/why the child did that.....but that behaviors is still not ok.

This is when i teaches the child/ person to better communicate. Not everyone has that teaching....even the parent lack that teaching....

I empathize but don't sympathize. I feel the same.....

I don't feel bad about my sister in law situations. I'll listen if she needs to vent. But at the end it is her choice. She has no reason but it is where she wants to be and is accepting of it.

Again. Emphasize but don't sympathize

I turn off trying to find a higher meaning.....it just is....

With that..... I'm able to jusy enjoy it as is...the feelings of falling in love...heartaches...anger...ect....just chaotic emotions/ reasoning....yet it is still about to give me the feel/butterflies of "falling in love" (yangyang)

I don't see it that way.

Although i like an analysis about characters.....it's my jam
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This drama isn't about too much. Thinking or analysis.....I feel you need to watch it just is.....

I feel that when i analysis it too much.....i lost enjoyment.

I been discussing/ analyzing less..... I'm just watching it and i enjoy it more....enjoy it just is and nothing looking for these extra meaning

Wish they release a the ost

I don't think they get back together.

I feel like he is drunk and has no idea what's going on.

Again...the PD...is giving us crumbs....answers....but with more questions.

Ep 8? We will see more backstory of the other characters.

I like how they show the girls being fan girls of other girls...not completing.

I don't agree with FL methods/ reasoning.....but i get it....it seems very simple in thinking but i understand it.

I see a lot of ppl in each of their situations ....i see lots of ppl in each 1 of their characters....

We all been that stupid , unreasonable idiots....i feel that let karma play it's course or the other person decides what they will do with it ......

But...i don't feel like they should be condemn for life.....

It like getting ghost and condemning the person for life.

I been ghosted and hold no blame towards them. Was i curious of why...sure...but at the end it wasn't important.

Had i wish i ghosted ppl.instead of being more honested....yes sometime i wished i did that instead of being more straight and honest. Being straightforward/ honest can cause more issues.

I felt soo much satisfaction when he did....because she is always yelling and telling people off.

I like her drive and straightforwardness.....but she is a wicked cold B who hold a grudge (i.e. her younger bro...just because he is born. No he is not stalking her. He does give space. As much as she does when she want something)

Dan is being such a B.....going in demanding that from him....she is always yelling at ppl.

I felt a great satisfaction with him yelling at her. Showing anger back. Before he was more laid back...whatever puppy dog.

This is the interactions I like from these two. Challenging each other.

Lol the pop-idol reminds me of BTS...rapper feuds.....vdo for fans.....well maybe typical idol group stuff.

Ksg - i like that interactions with that friend

Mj swearing was hilarious....she still truck on

I understand her frustration with him. She handled it well...

Can't wait for the bromance and sistance

Mj -get out hahahaha

I haven't either....i don't like long drama....but it was a big hit for historical

It would br nice .....it will happen one day in t.v.

As for now only their films has branched out

Even thai series..(many BL series)...some BL ...lesbian is extremely dramatic. My brother whom is gay....didn't like the dramatic either.

I love that majority of drama has thr "wind" at command...at the right moment...

Cracks me up.....i joked i didn't bring the wind with my outfit today

But many were good scripts....just not to many taste.

Deep rooted...tree...were highly watched and praised...

Not everything will be to out taste

I feel they won't....but lgbt isn't their focus....although they are not close to it or being discrimative.....

She lied about it. It was discussed by her idol brother/ secretary's

Pictures of men were sent

"I guess saying your a lesbian didn't stop it."

It was said along that that line

I too don't think the writer is that dumb....considering how well they display the human interactions

But how much is it our projections? I see a lot of BL fans go into their other drama and not BL....well ya......not fun

Sadly they don't have eng translation. But you can find it translation on google search

I work in thr mental health field..autistic spectrum

One size don't fit all discrimination. What is in the DSM is the baseline.....but it won't define all in the disorders.....also many ppl havr multiple disorders add on to it

Yup....

I sometimes translate thai and certain words can't be translated to eng. So i understand.

I have lots of respect for translators.....

They need to modify ot be close to the translation to understand.

These friends are soo.fun/funny together

Ryu - you two are the opposite of sexy hahaha

https://www.instagram.com/p/CJ8X4UcByWb/?igshid=15gq4g6tktetr

Yes.

I was holdiing off on it since i am a binge watcher and needed concentration.

I been falling asleep on shows....b4 my winter break.

Asian don't address mental health issues ans disorder....so i am all in...and thr autistic spectrum (my field of work)

I love all the children books. Too bad no eng translated....it was well written