PaulUK

Just came to comment this myself.
Saw a clip on Youtube thought the FL looked incredible with the glasses, somehow 10 times better looking than the actress who is meant to be an idol lol

Then noticed that the first 5 cast haven't acted since like 2015 WTF most are still in mid 30's ?

As a man from a Western country I find my eyes seriously being opened at how different countries are values/family dynamics etc.

A few things in this that I've noticed so far that I'm like WTF lol.

1 - The fact that the daughter had been paying rent for however many years for an apartment that the father was always going to award the son for being a lay about but being a son. She got no financial help or anything from him.

2 - The part when she is introducing Se Hui to her families and it comes out that they are living together and the father goers ballistic.
Even if you ignore that fact that they are basically landlord and tenant, If they were living together the way the father had thought so what, he is a hypocrite as his much younger son had been doing the same thing and got a girl pregnant, But he gets rewarded with an apartment that the daughter had been basically paying off for him, to be rewarded for the exact thing she is being punished for lol.

Also the brothers GF shouldn't the father be kicking her out if that's what he thinks of women behaving like that, double standards or what.

Seriously can't understand why she gives her father and brother the time of day.

Is the (2000) series worth watching.
From having a read up, FL was with Man Cho but left him for the guy who cheats and dies in the movie.?

Is the original series worth watching Just had a quick read about it and it sounds awful lol
FL with 2ML adopted brother ends up with ass ML, Then sequel ML has cheated and died with kids making her suicidal, and her original love (adopted brother ) stupidly helps her out breaking up with a better woman.

Obviously just what I can make out from what I read.

Haven't watched this yet, but just saw a Youtube video from the show and wasn't Chen Zhe cheating on FL for 2 years?

Agreed, annoyed me how many people said she was terrible.

I'm probably going to start this and Good Partner this weekend as they both finish next weekend so should be able to get up to date for both by Friday it's only about 5 hours a day lol

Edit - Just had a quick look at your watched list, and some of the shows we've both finished you have similar ratings so I'll assume I should like this, I'll blame you if I don't Haha

I know this hasn't finished yet and people are making decisions on characters when all events haven't even been covered as to why their motivations are the way they are yet.

But is this actually worth watching 7.5 isn't that low but I tend to steer clear of sub 8/10's.

Also is this backlash against the characters or the actors as I remember FL had the same hate for Doctor Stranger due to her character.

I still don't understand Erika Karata or any woman (or man if roles reversed) that are willing to make a fool of themselves to be some cheaters side piece.
Especially someone like Erika Karata her looks and appeals could have easily found a better single guy, Even if her career recovers that will always be a disgusting smear across any future accomplishments, it'll be brought up and it should, she needs to remember to be better.

Although hopefully he rots in obscurity, I have no issue with them being blacklisted.

Who is the junior.

I always forget it's not always obvious in text.

Also who? Is Marc Anderson someone I should be aware of?

Heads up I was being sarcastic lol

Finished really enjoyed it, I loved the leads, it never dragged out the political aspect.

Sometimes I wished some of the side characters got more screen time like her sister.
Plus why for the love of god did they need to kill You Fangin she has a terrible life, gets a small taste of happiness, and oh no Missy, not today. Almost as bad as poor Zhou Wen Xing in Forever and Ever (2021).

Up to episode 34 and it might be because am a guy but I still don't think he's THAT toxic lol
A bit aggressive on two or three occasions FL seems to be into though.

Although women are nightmare though, * I just want a guy to take me there and then push me against the wall etc.. * or who said you could do that red flag.
Guys like a deer in headlights, do I don't I, oh sh*t I've been stood here for 2 minutes not talking lol

Why do they idiotically sub the music with the spoken parts?
Amazon has a line of text, music, text, and music.
So disorientating

KissAsian is worse in the last 6-7 episodes the music subs take priority onscreen knocking the speech subs off before you can read them.

If they really need to add the music subs it should be at the top of the screen and a different colour.

Spot on, like you said you loved each other enough to marry, so the loves there if it's not an abusive relationship then you should be able be an adult talk through the situation and try to resolve the issues or just divorce because if caught it will probably end that way anyway if not worse.
Cheating even if they claim it's love, it's still the thrill of something new or that your doing wrong and guess what if you end up with them same thing will happen few years in stuck in a rut because you never worked on the relationship.

P.S did this show have a bad end for the cheaters. Please say yes lol

Lol
To be honest Zhang Zhe is more suited to be with princess he's to blah for FL she'd be bored of him within a year, the leads suit each other. Their both intelligent, manipulative, good but will do questionable things etc.

Which episode does he become toxic, I've just started episode 23 and he is being jealous of Zhang Zhe that's it really, accept the scene he killed the other rebel when he's having a episode .

But committing psychological torture is fine, infidelity is a form of gaslighting. And has led to many a suicide, homicides, life times of mental trauma.

And in the end what you stated as reasons to cheat (actually disgusting way to think)STILL happens it's just much much worse.

Cheating a form of psychological torture same as gaslighting, no-one knows how others will react to some move on seemingly unfazed while others kill or harm themselves.

It should be a criminal offense, break up be adult THEN move on.

Unless both in the relationship agree to others being involved.