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Thank you for commenting, just for the record your English is great and even if it wasnt I love it when people comment despite language barriers and hope people feel free to do so and ask if there is a missundertanding. The point in this article is to show different type of behaviours that are presented, not point at a drama or relationship as bad more teach about consent by using these exmpls. I agree You are my hero is a great drama and the relationship there was one of the healthier ones, she even called him out on the "light stalking" So I would say that one is there more as a good exmple if anything since I wrote: "You Are My Hero makes great humour out of non-consensual behaviour and calls out even the slightest stalking attempt." Any way I hope this made it clearer for you and I am glad you enjoyed it, feel free to ask more questions if there is anything that was not clear or if you are just cureus.

Thank you so much for this comment it made me smile just the mentioning of JHI has that affect on me. Did my Jung Hae In fandom shine thrue this article... Any way sounds like an excellent hoice of action, you can rearly go wrong when you eatch something (pretty much anything) withJung Hae In. Have you seen the fanguide we made with him: https://mydramalist.com/article/the-ultimate-guide-to-jung-hae-in Also asking about may I hit on you can be both respectfuull and like asking for permission to do something you are already doing... so I gues sit depends on heow the person handels a no for it to be a good example of consent. Very interesting consept! Thank you 😎

Thank you for your thaughts, people can and will probably make joke that punch the whole way round, but I prefer my humour to punch upwards who is opressed and who is the opressor is however often easy to define if it it can be complicated and/or hard to admitt. But of course there are several things to take in to consideration, like everything in the world it is complicated world we live in...

Change takes time, just a note it is often a question of how open the society is for how many people who feel comfortable to come out, so the amount is probably the same no matter where in the world or time for that matter the difference is how many have the words to define it as well as are in an inviormant where they feel safe enough to come out. Still I appreciate you taking the time to share your thaughts. I also think that there are more in the older genaration who are longing to come out themselvs.

You are so welcome, thank you for reading and complementing it ❤ I dropped A Korean Odessy, for some reason it was not bad jus tdid not fit my mood at the moment and can not remember tht character but I may just have to look in to it since you are the secound person who mentions it.

Really? I have not seen it (yet) so I'll take your word for it for now. Thank you for the tip❤

And to think it even passed me by so I had to go back and watch it for this scene for this article, just shows how easy it is to miss these things even as someone fairly aware... any way thank you for commenting on this. 👍

You are welcome and thank you for your thoughts, I am not asking them to completely stop showing it just to call it what it is 😉 and make sure those who have been subjected to this type of behavior feel empowered and that they are not to blame.

Thank you for reading and for your thoughts, I can not recall seeing a boy's. I think it can be problematic when boy's dress up as girls to be silly because it can give out the message that a person who is believed to be a boy dresses in clothing assigned to girls is not to be taken sereusly. And creates an inviorment where it would be hard to come out as queer, intergender, trans etc. But it is all a question of how it is done. I can not speak about how it was done in your school because I have notcseen that cas and I have seen these done both really well funny while punching upwords but also the other way around

Thank you again for taking your time, I really enjoy reading how you interpert my articles. I think I love both types just as much but look for different types of dramas depending on my mood, I also have different expectations from them.

I did want this one to have a differen tone and to to give more sullotions and concrete examples of the different shade. Both telling those that have had their boundaries crossed that it is not their fault and telling those who do crosd the line that it is not the world if you take a wrong step as long as you own up to it and appolagise (depending on the size of the step).

I did want people to see the different shades of consent, showing that it is both complex but also easier than one might think to practice.

Anyway thank you again for your feedback. And have a nice (whatever time it is where you are) 😊.

Just a side note If and when I will write in an academic journal I will probably avoid the gifs and skip the sarcasm but oh how much more fun they would be if we could include those... (there are of course a lot of interesting journals too).

Thank you oh there is still pleanty of material to write about, but after these three slightly dare I say contraversial articals (for some) the upcoming ones in editing at the moment are a bit more humoures and less awearness oriented. But I think I may just ask fot permission to write a part 3 in the future. Anyway I am happy you enjoyd it and look forward to seening you again in my comments section.

Thank you so much for your comment, I am glad you liked it. Bodyshaming, fat fobia and beutystanderds could deffenetly make a great follow up article some day in the future. I have only read a few about bodystanderds and fat fobia and it has been a while if i were to be honest so we will see.. One of the outcast women in in Tale of Nukdo is what most people would call overweight and comes of as more bad ass than fat. The team in Weightligting fairy Kim Bok Joo are also more than a punchline to name a few of the better examples Oh my Venus had potential to be of the more health less fat shaming kind but faild by the end... so there is defenetly a lot to write/talk about there too.
Any way keep watching and stay critical 🦾

Ooh that is so sweet, if there will be a part 3 ill be sure to give you another chance ❤ I'm so happy you like it! As the old person I am I just love it when the younger generation finds my writing fab 😘✊🐼

Not yet but it is on my ptw, so I will soon . I am looking forward to it.

It is all about power relations and about violence by men beeing a structural global problem. However I do not in any way say that non consensual kisses from any sex are okay, how you came to that conclusion when I clearly state that consent wise this is however questionable, is beyond me. I honestly do not see any meaning with continuing this conversation with you, but wish you all the best.

Indeed he is

I honestly do not remember the sml from forever love at all but ill take your words for it.

Thank you sweety , and Thank you a lot for your help!

You are more than free to write about lack of consent and red flag behavior found made by woman if you would like. I motivated my focus on mens behavior in both part 1 and 2 bringing up women's behavior here is what some people would call derailment.

About CLOY I am honestly cureus about peoples take on it that is why the title for that part was caring or controlling, I wrote that I myself was not sure and am still not sure how I feel about it thus my hope was to have an open discussion on this matter.

I do however appolagise if I offended you in any way that was not my intention with this series.

Thank you so much for your thoughts, I have yet to have seen bromance so I will check it out. ❤