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Thank you (again) I am glad you appreciate them! I wish you many interesting conversations! 😊

The diffrence petween people who cross dress and people who dress up in neon is that people will most probably not mistake you for a pervert or beat you up for it. So the comparesson is very different. When it comes to eating dogs, even if I love dogs I assume it is not much different than eating horse meat or piggs meat for those who are hungry, not really visable and neather of these are part of a group that are subjected to hate crimes for eating or wearing those clotehes.

Sidenote- Eating dogs is part of a stereotype for a different problam and is part of several motivations people have for practising another type of hate but that is a different subject. By using these comparesons you belittle these groups struggels and legitamcy and derail the conversation so yes it is very different.

I do believe you may beneffit from reading and trying to understand the article as a whole because it is about a lot more than just wearing clothes that are assigned to a different gender than the persson is otherwise assoiated with. Good luck!

I have not seen any anime so I would not know, I guess they did what they had to do at the time so she could keep on using her brain, something I assume was not possible oterwise at that time.

Thank you for saring your thaughts, I think these issues are very much global issues and that we still have a long way to go but watching with a wearness as well as raising awearness among viewers may not change the world or the industry but it will affect how we perceve theese tropes and hopefully move people from unknowilgly buying in to the potential homophobia.

Thank you! I am happy you appreciate both the article and analzing dramas ❤

Thank you so much for your thoughts I think youmake an interesting and pretty spot on compareson between the two as well as seem to have pulled out the main difference between the two subjects: " I do think that the subject of gender, even narrowed to equality, can be complicated whereas consent seems to garner wide understanding and a consensus in its ideal" in the article on concent i focus behaviour which is different than the focus here which is more on the message and the way caraters are portrayed in the dramas as a whole. therefor they do come out diferently.

I loved how well you put this part in to words, and compleatly agree with you on that, in that aspect the two issues are simular:
"I do not think there is much of a difference between using cross-dressing as comedy and using lack of consent as romance in dramas. I do think it is possible to explore gender issues like cross-dressing in a comedy if done right, just like you can shed light on lack of consent problems in romance based dramas as well"

I do not really know about the confidence, I do feel confedent about my knowladge and eduvatiin in both issues, but I think that while the issue of consent is very graspable, this issue is more abstract and I dare say more complicated depending on how and from were you look at it as well as it´s context in the world. All things I had to take in to consideration while writing this article.

I n the coutry that I live in both consent and LGBTQ+ rights are protected by law one in the law agains discrimintation that mentions these specisfically and that we do have a law that has a focun on gaining consent for such acts to be leagel. Both subjects are also part of the curriculum ffrom age 1 in kindergarden to univercity studies (done age appropreatly). Even if it not always practised and there still is a lot of discrimnation and violance here too. I am however aweare that these issues still are complecated and that very few countries do have these laws and curiculums So now that you mention it I think the slightly less confedence here is more in how do I write about this so that even those who have never heard of this can understand and not take offence while still staying respectfull towards this issue. but also the more you know the more you know that you do not know yet...

Sorry for the very long reply, do I make any sence. Any way I really enjoyd reading your comment it really did help me reflct upon myself.

This was sweet, light and fun perfect entertainment and beutifully packaged. Thank you ❤

Thank you, and stay safe I gues 😂😎

Thank you, and well triying to remember and rsearching all these kisses (it had been a while since I saw them), was a really tugh jobb 😋 but someone had to do it....

Thank you, I can understand that many chose to avoid them becouse of that, i still love them (most of the time) but will always react when this shows up, unfortuanlly you do not always know beforehand and it is often a question of plusses and minuses.

Yes lets go with that... And where the focus of the conversation really doues very depending on sub comunitys and context. I tried to write this as inclusive, positive focus and informative as possible to make it MDL friendly i even used the childrens book (it is a compleatly regular, not an educational) childrens book to show how simple it can be but as you can see it was not appreciated by all but by many. And that the migorety of the comments are positive makes me happy.

Thank you sweety, I am happy you enjoyd it and you are the best 😘

Thank you sweety ❤

I love this comment, i love most of the comments here, but this one made me laugh so hard in a puch up kind of way🤣! And you know we do have that love for JHI in common, deffenetly a talant and a beauty way, way beyond... any way thank you for commenting and that is exactly it it is complecated and while one thing may be bad from one angle it can be imprortant from another... ❤

Hey I love (most of ) them too, if you look att my ratings of them you can confirm it), that is why I chose to write about them, but I do think many of us get affected by them unconseusly espessially if we lack awearness about the consept of consent so I just used them to explain the consept and remind people that it may look great in fiction just dont set it as relationship goals because that could actullly be dangerus. And ask for bigger veriaty and maybe a slight warning but ill settle for awearness, and that I think I have accomplished. for some. Any way thank you for reading and commenting on it 😊

I actually really enjoy them, not only for analizing them, part two will focus mor on K-dramas so maybe you will find some more you recognizw, any way thank you for your thoughts I appreciate reading them. ❤

Thank you for your thoughts, I really di dlove writing it and am so happy it got published. 😊

Thank you for complementing my article! I can see where you are comming from... So I am not going to argue about it, I may even have hinted about the letting down ones hair.... But I find myself enjoying them anyway. And Mr. Sunshie And Nokdu where really good so I agree with you there too. 😎

Thank you for compementing my writing, I put The Kings Avatar on my ptw, but will wait till it is bingable, seeing so many mention it I am very cureus about it. I hope you will read more of my articles and to see you in the comment section there.☺

Sounds like an interesting subject to research, as I stated it is a global problem but very clear in many of these dramas. Part two focuses on K-drams, and is still being edited but has a slightly different focus. anyway thank you for sharing your thougts😊