So are you telling me that it took Shu Wen Bo 30plus ep. to finally admit his feelings for XiaXia to her face or please tell me that ain't true????... (shocked) Like WTH....even a snail is faster than him.
Leo Wu is a really good actor so I will check it out. But why do I have a bad feeling about the Ending...sigh I'm still mourning certain dramas that's just finished airing with sad endings so I'm not ready for another one. I hope not.
Why do you watch BLs? They are chock-full of such quandries and issues. If you shudder at watching, shouldn't…
I didn't say all BLs, I said this drama. For example, if the writer have XingSi and Yong Jie together in the end without addressing the latter's wrong doing then it's concerning. Because the message it's sending will be like...it doesn't matter what Yong Jie did because they are happily together in the end. Don't know about you but to me it's wrong. If they address this issue as a wrongful doing, that will be better and personally I wouldn't want them to end up together. So in a nutshell I will continue watching this with all it's shuddering-ness I feel in some scenes because I'm curious what this writer will do with this story. And matter of fact, I love BL dramas and I just wish for them to be done right always.
On the positive he was not raped but it is still disturbing and sad that he was sexually harrassed by that pervy boss.
Not gonna lie, the things that this drama has portrayed are shuddering. And, I really don't like where things are going especially with the brothers because the writer seems to say, after all what Yong Jie did, he still will end up happily ever after with XingSi....like really.
Shu Wenbo was so irritating in the last two episodes, my blood pressure skyrocketed every time he opened his mouth,…
Omg Shu Wenbo annoys me so much. From that moment he made an assumption that Xia Xia is a city girl therefore slutty, I cancelled him in my mind. He later apologised but, hell no... I don't know what Xia Xia likes about him. I actually prefer the rich kid for her because at least he is direct amd goes for what he wants.
There is definitely some realism in this drama. Finally Ru Xie and Bai XiangWen are divorced. I say finally because I saw this from a mile away and it was only a matter of time. I'm usually not for women who don't tell their partner/ex- about their pregnancy but I understand Ru Xie in this case. If she had told XiangWen that she is pregnant whilst asking for divorce then he would not have agreed. He is the kind that will use the situation to their advantage.
Btw, why is this drama too long?? I thought it ends at ep. 43 but we are ep. 44 now and it seems it has 47 ep.
Omg! What is going on in ep. 37-40. Everyone is breaking up except for Ru Xie and Xiang Wen but they also have their own issues. It's like all the sweet candy scenes are gone and it's just depression left....sigh
Am I the only one that feels XiXi is equally compatible with the rich CEO who courted her but was rejected by…
Omg! Yes, I thought the same. It seems he is really suited for her but I gues in this case its The Heart Wants What It Wants so she chooses Duan Xu. I like Duan Xu but I don't like his parents.
Okay, just watched the Special Ep. And I'm revived... But really, WHO SAYS I WANNA BE SPECIAL HENCE NEED A SPECIAL EP. eye-roll. I just want an ep with a Happy Ending...that's it.
I'm on ep 36 and I wish I could press a pause button because I really don't want this drama to end. This has been one of the most engaging dramas to watch for me lately (well alongside Rattan, The Lovely Writer, Word of Honor). As much as I love love the girls, I have found myself psychoanalysing the guys and oh boi, I had a lot to on my plate. Vincent- He is my least favourite of all. The sad thing is, his background story is so rich that I would have been so interested if he had made better choices. But then again that's the reality of life. Some people are damaged from childhood and they get angry at the world. In his defence, he is doing it all to protect himself but he forgets that no man is an island. Now what I hate about his behavior is dragging down the innocent to feed his ego.
Du Jaimu - He is my sec least fav. and not for the reasons that many might think. I happen to be very open minded and like to think outside the box so things like age gaps etc. I really don't care. I may not like it but I also don't judge. So my problem with this man is, he is a puzzle and I don't like it. I said in my other comment how he does the opposite of what he says and that often leads to misunderstandings or being shady. If you meet this girl who express to have a crush on you, and you don't feel the same way = You say it. Du Jaimu doesn't and actually leads her on...WTH. Then he tells Ru Xie that no, he doesn't like XY that way blah blah. Aaaah, dude, the way you act tells otherwise so if you don't feel that way then stay away. And another concern about thi man is, what is his agenda?? Because his backstory paints a not so good picture about him. Tbh, he is an enigma character and I don't know whether to blame the character or the writer...sigh
Lui Ke- Contrary to what many would say, I actually don't see many wrongs in this guy. His relationship with XiXi was going nowhere and they had real problems and to be fair I understood his reasons for breaking up. My problem with Lui Ke is he is so insecure and has low self esteem but also not willing to acknowledge. It's always about other things being the problem but not him. I don't want to criticise how he nded things with XiXi and got together with assistant wedding planner because I think that's not his main problem. Because of his low self confidence he relies on these women to validate his value and that's why he is in a relationship. I actually don't really think he loves them (maybe loved XiXi at one time) but to him when they complement him and feed his ego = love. He needs to work on himself alone and not use a relationship to buffer whatever is going on with him.
Chef Bai XiangWen- He is not my fav. but he has his positives. I love that Chef Bai is a cook and likes to spoil Ru Xie with his cooking. But what I find disturbing about this character is his skewed beliefs and values. His backstory doesn't match these introjected beliefs and that's confusing to me. He was raised by a a single mother and a very successful one at that so I would think of his character as someone who appreciate the resilience, brilliance and the hard work women put through. Instead, he is on and on about how men are superior...WTF. Tbh, that cooking show segment put him right there next to Vincent in my book because I can't stand men who think like him. The interesting part is he goes for a woman who is a lot like his mother but tries to dim her light. I am not surprised that Ru Xie feels stiffled in this relationship because he is controlling. I mean the poor girl can't even have drinks with her coworkers without him joining bearing in mind that he has already been in her space all day.
Duan Xu - I really like Duan Xu and funny enough, I didn't think I would but I do. I like his self awareness and realism. Yes, he can be a pessimist or plain cranky but that's due to his experiences. I really feel sorry for him, having such selfish irresponsible parents and I don't blame him for not wanting marriage especially seeing his parents. He is that character that I just wish success and pray his parents change since they are pretty much a curse to him.
Luo Shang aka Qiao Qiao Fake boyfriend- My ultimate fav. Male Character. On paper, LS doesn't have half of what some of the above have. But what he has and the rest don't have is he knows how to treat a woman as is with confidence. I like that LS is an open book, what you see is what you get. Also love that he goes for what he wants. Now he might be a bit corky when wooing you in the beginning but he also adjust once he learn a little about you. And the latter is the key to win a lady. He respect and compliment Qiao Qiao because he really values her. He is definitely crush-worthy. Did I mention that he is hot?? Hehe
i love Sam Lin's acting! i felt that when he said "would you?" in that bed scene. but the music was too loud and…
Talk about the music...That's why I prefer to watch some of the ep. on Dailymotion because they remove the music (I think for copyrights reasons) and it certainly improves the quality of some scenes. Like that bed scene, I watched it qith little to no sound and oh my, it was just beautiful.
Which is why I don't hate him but want to Slap him... But really WKX didn't kill or order to kill his family...He asked for the Luilija and the others resorted to kill to get it. You can say he is affiliated and yes Cheng Ling can resent him for that.
He is brainwashed by his stupid evil uncles that WKX killed his family. So out of anger, he has joined them to kill WKX. He is pretty much biting the hand that fed him.
Tell me that WKX didn't die, and that there is an happy ending for them. Please.?
Based on what the writer said...I believe we will have a Happy Ending. Even if WKX comes back with white hair, I will gladly take it...as long as he is breathing and with his Ah Xu and still flirting, then I'm good...hehe
anybody else having a hard time associating the characters ZZS WKX and the actors ZZH and GJ? after watching their…
Yeah, imagine that... Actually their characters are the opposite of their personalities in real life. Simon Gong is a little shy and doesn't talk much whilst Wen Ke Xing is the extrovert and flaunt it character. Zhang Zhe Han is more outgoing and fun whereas Zhou Zi Shu is more closed off and quiet. But they both nailed their roles and makes us believe the existence of their characters.
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Like WTH....even a snail is faster than him.
But why do I have a bad feeling about the Ending...sigh
I'm still mourning certain dramas that's just finished airing with sad endings so I'm not ready for another one.
I hope not.
And matter of fact, I love BL dramas and I just wish for them to be done right always.
P.S. My humble opinion ofc.
https://youtu.be/F5IK6w2a1b8
On the positive he was not raped but it is still disturbing and sad that he was sexually harrassed by that pervy boss.
Not gonna lie, the things that this drama has portrayed are shuddering. And, I really don't like where things are going especially with the brothers because the writer seems to say, after all what Yong Jie did, he still will end up happily ever after with XingSi....like really.
I don't know what Xia Xia likes about him. I actually prefer the rich kid for her because at least he is direct amd goes for what he wants.
Btw, why is this drama too long?? I thought it ends at ep. 43 but we are ep. 44 now and it seems it has 47 ep.
https://youtu.be/v_yPP0uK4T8
And I think this guy made me understand what the ish happened in the last few ep. because I got a little confused.
I like Duan Xu but I don't like his parents.
But really, WHO SAYS I WANNA BE SPECIAL HENCE NEED A SPECIAL EP. eye-roll.
I just want an ep with a Happy Ending...that's it.
BITTER
ANGRY
LIKE CRYING
LIKE I'M GOING CRAZY
LIKE I'M DYING SLOWLY
LIKE WTH,
IS THAT ENDING
Help me understand...
As much as I love love the girls, I have found myself psychoanalysing the guys and oh boi, I had a lot to on my plate.
Vincent- He is my least favourite of all. The sad thing is, his background story is so rich that I would have been so interested if he had made better choices. But then again that's the reality of life. Some people are damaged from childhood and they get angry at the world. In his defence, he is doing it all to protect himself but he forgets that no man is an island. Now what I hate about his behavior is dragging down the innocent to feed his ego.
Du Jaimu - He is my sec least fav. and not for the reasons that many might think. I happen to be very open minded and like to think outside the box so things like age gaps etc. I really don't care. I may not like it but I also don't judge. So my problem with this man is, he is a puzzle and I don't like it. I said in my other comment how he does the opposite of what he says and that often leads to misunderstandings or being shady. If you meet this girl who express to have a crush on you, and you don't feel the same way = You say it. Du Jaimu doesn't and actually leads her on...WTH. Then he tells Ru Xie that no, he doesn't like XY that way blah blah. Aaaah, dude, the way you act tells otherwise so if you don't feel that way then stay away. And another concern about thi man is, what is his agenda?? Because his backstory paints a not so good picture about him. Tbh, he is an enigma character and I don't know whether to blame the character or the writer...sigh
Lui Ke- Contrary to what many would say, I actually don't see many wrongs in this guy. His relationship with XiXi was going nowhere and they had real problems and to be fair I understood his reasons for breaking up. My problem with Lui Ke is he is so insecure and has low self esteem but also not willing to acknowledge. It's always about other things being the problem but not him. I don't want to criticise how he nded things with XiXi and got together with assistant wedding planner because I think that's not his main problem. Because of his low self confidence he relies on these women to validate his value and that's why he is in a relationship. I actually don't really think he loves them (maybe loved XiXi at one time) but to him when they complement him and feed his ego = love. He needs to work on himself alone and not use a relationship to buffer whatever is going on with him.
Chef Bai XiangWen- He is not my fav. but he has his positives. I love that Chef Bai is a cook and likes to spoil Ru Xie with his cooking. But what I find disturbing about this character is his skewed beliefs and values. His backstory doesn't match these introjected beliefs and that's confusing to me. He was raised by a a single mother and a very successful one at that so I would think of his character as someone who appreciate the resilience, brilliance and the hard work women put through. Instead, he is on and on about how men are superior...WTF. Tbh, that cooking show segment put him right there next to Vincent in my book because I can't stand men who think like him. The interesting part is he goes for a woman who is a lot like his mother but tries to dim her light. I am not surprised that Ru Xie feels stiffled in this relationship because he is controlling. I mean the poor girl can't even have drinks with her coworkers without him joining bearing in mind that he has already been in her space all day.
Duan Xu - I really like Duan Xu and funny enough, I didn't think I would but I do. I like his self awareness and realism. Yes, he can be a pessimist or plain cranky but that's due to his experiences. I really feel sorry for him, having such selfish irresponsible parents and I don't blame him for not wanting marriage especially seeing his parents. He is that character that I just wish success and pray his parents change since they are pretty much a curse to him.
Luo Shang aka Qiao Qiao Fake boyfriend- My ultimate fav. Male Character. On paper, LS doesn't have half of what some of the above have. But what he has and the rest don't have is he knows how to treat a woman as is with confidence. I like that LS is an open book, what you see is what you get. Also love that he goes for what he wants. Now he might be a bit corky when wooing you in the beginning but he also adjust once he learn a little about you. And the latter is the key to win a lady. He respect and compliment Qiao Qiao because he really values her. He is definitely crush-worthy. Did I mention that he is hot?? Hehe
But really WKX didn't kill or order to kill his family...He asked for the Luilija and the others resorted to kill to get it. You can say he is affiliated and yes Cheng Ling can resent him for that.
Actually their characters are the opposite of their personalities in real life. Simon Gong is a little shy and doesn't talk much whilst Wen Ke Xing is the extrovert and flaunt it character. Zhang Zhe Han is more outgoing and fun whereas Zhou Zi Shu is more closed off and quiet. But they both nailed their roles and makes us believe the existence of their characters.