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On Extraordinary Attorney Woo Aug 10, 2022
It saddens me, and is making me angry, that people are dismissing real life challenges, discrimination, prejudices, stigma in this advocacy show as nothing but "clichés".

Good for you that you were not born autistic, otherwise, you wouldn't see these things as "clichés" in an advocacy show.

Ironically, these reactions just proved the whole point of the show: discrimination, prejudice, and stigma.
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Replying to Kayangan Aug 10, 2022
No like what happened to this drama? Why? Why are they going to all the routes I dislike?? Huh??First of all,…
You're forgetting that this is not a fantasy drama. It is an advocacy show thus it will depict what actually happens in real life.

Like it or not, family members, even non-family members, do see a relationship with autistics as "taking care of us". In fact, there are accounts here in MDL leaving such nasty comments like how we autistics should be left in an island; or should not get into a relationship.

These are the things EAW is exposing. Real life discrimination, prejudice, and stigma about autism and against us autistics.

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Also, re: break up. I left a comment in another thread that I expect them to break up and later come back together. The break up is needed because it is what happens in real life when us autistics get into a relationship with neurotypicals.

There was also a thread which talked about him coughing blood. We even shared the possible causes. It's obviously serious, why you assumed it was a joke is beyond me.
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Replying to momo Aug 10, 2022
Also, family drama over the relationship really fits into this one. But I'm just too tired of the family making…
You're forgetting that this is not a fantasy drama. It is an advocacy show thus it will depict what actually happens in real life.

Like it or not, family members, even non-family members, do see a relationship with autistics as "taking care of us". In fact, there are accounts here in MDL leaving such nasty comments like how we autistics should be left in an island; or should not get into a relationship.

These are the things EAW is exposing. Real life discrimination, prejudice, and stigma about autism and against us autistics.
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Replying to BWMDL Aug 10, 2022
My nephew with Asperger's syndrome always fails interviews. His dad calls up the company and begs them to give…
No worries. It is perfectly understandable. ^_^
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Replying to theematchabun Aug 10, 2022
In ep 3, Gye mentioned that ‘physicians’ like himself were called to help with investigation-autopsy stuff.The…
I see, I get it now. Thank you for explaining, much appreciated!
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Replying to theematchabun Aug 10, 2022
In ep 3, Gye mentioned that ‘physicians’ like himself were called to help with investigation-autopsy stuff.The…
> In ep 3, Gye mentioned that ‘physicians’ like himself were called to help with investigation-autopsy stuff.

Let's say it is psychiatric autopsy:

1. What is "psychiatric autopsy"?

2. What did Poong do that is "psychiatric autopsy" vs. "ordinary autopsy to help their investigation"?
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Replying to BWMDL Aug 10, 2022
My nephew with Asperger's syndrome always fails interviews. His dad calls up the company and begs them to give…
Oooh! Can you share the link (or via DM/PM), if it's okay? ^_^
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Replying to BWMDL Aug 9, 2022
My nephew with Asperger's syndrome always fails interviews. His dad calls up the company and begs them to give…
Thank you for sharing!!!!!!!!!!
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Replying to deidra Aug 9, 2022
the better thing to do is to change nothing. all they need to know is the true, what's the problem with living…
Yeah. It's amazing how each country sees things differently and it's reflected in the existing laws.

There are things I like in Africa too. I can't remember which African nation but there's one wherein children can choose the name they want at a later age without restrictions.

That makes perfect sense, our name is our identity. We should be able to choose our first name, middle name, and last name.

I learned it from my elementary classmates, they have different names (first, middle, last) and it's different from their parents too. They said it's their culture to be given a chance to choose your own name, and majority chooses their own name.

Here in the Philippines, while we do not have that culture, pre-colonial era, we never had last/surnames. We used either just a first name or "son/daughter of". When the Spaniards arrived they introduced surnames … and turns out it was primarily for taxation purposes because they can not understand how pre-colonial local governments were "taxing" the people.
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Replying to kalenahenden Aug 9, 2022
Title Alchemy of Souls Spoiler
It appears that Bu Yeon intentionally saved So-i. There is more to their story. We know that they knew each other…
Oooh! That is a very good analysis!

Indeed, it was not Bu Yeon's energy seeping out, she did it intentionally!
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Replying to Lalalila Aug 9, 2022
if you don’t have any knowledge about it, refrain from replying
^_^

Also, the target audience and cultural basis is Korea. The situation there, as far as what I've read, is not really good when it comes to autism and neurodiversity in general. As compared to other countries where the issues are different or more focused.

However, personally, as far as drama/films are concerned this is one of the few productions who were careful in how they portrayed an autistic. I rank it similarly to shows like "Adam" and "X + Y", to mention two.
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Replying to deidra Aug 8, 2022
I don't think this comes from the western culture because here in France I do know some married cousins... and…
Maybe not entire Western world but when you're Asian, in particular Asia-Pacific, anything from the West is simply Western. Just like how the West calls the anything Far East as Oriental or Americans call anything Asia-Pacific as China. ^_^

EDIT: To add, even though Australia and New Zealand is generally "Western World", they're not considered as one if you're from Asia-Pacific. Hahaha. (Some would even include Israel and Turkey in the label.)
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Replying to deidra Aug 8, 2022
the better thing to do is to change nothing. all they need to know is the true, what's the problem with living…
> anybody can take any child as his/her own child.

This is not legally allowed in Western and most Asian countries. Yes, there are adoptions that doesn't go through the legal process but it's risky. In some countries the adoptive parents can even get a criminal record and the child will be taken by the government. In some countries, authorities are not strict unless they're forced or something happened that forced them to implement the law.

> when done, the child is considered a REEL member of the family, from heirloom to rights.

This depends on the laws, and in the absence of any specific law or there's ambiguity, the court will decide.

Here in the Philippines, adopted children can only inherit anything if (1) they are formally adopted (legally registered); or (2) named specifically in the Will (if there is one). In the absence of both … they are not legally qualified to receive inheritance, it will go to the nearest relative legally recognized by law.

> it's not like you need a child so you adopt one

There are people who need a child so they adopt one. This is usually common with couples who find it hard to have a child.
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Replying to IM YourOnlyOne Aug 8, 2022
For you to quit when there are only 12 episodes left would mean you wasted your time watching 38 episodes. ^_^A…
Yep. It's fine to skip, and yeah episode 38 is really heavy.

But don't give up, just 12 episodes left. ^_^
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Replying to mischiefg Aug 8, 2022
I feel like writers are making her dumb for the sake of the drag. She should have found out some clues when she…
Yep. You would think she already learned after that servant test … but nope. LOLs.
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