I didn't say To My Shore is rainbows and puppies in general. It is compared this this show. At least for me. Because there, despite the horrible gaslighting, the ML didn't kidnap, repeatedly violate, strangle, torture the MC.
Fantastic acting! But may this kind of love never find me! From the obsessive, violent, manipulative, grapist, psycho Lu Feng (regardless of his love-sick status) who really doesn't know to let go, to the horrible controlling, manipulative parents not giving a shit about their kids, to the obsessive, controlling, manipulative didi, to the self-esteem into the abyss Yi Chen that is just a leaf in the wind, letting other people abuse and walk all over him, to him being an indecisive lover who can't stand up to him family, to the sickly/incesty relationship he has with his didi, it's so fucking weird. Not waking up from a coma would have been the better outcome for him. I'd rather die than have to be around those people.
And let me be clear, I dont think they should get back together. Too much has happened. The rapes, kidnapping.,…
Everybody in his life just makes him do as they please. There's something really broken inside of him, he wouldn't recognize healthy even if it hit him in the face. He'll never get away.
Maybe episodes 9 and 10 will change their minds, even a teensy bit?
I don't think it's just because they like Ayden because then they would have framed it like they adore Ayden despite not agreeing with this character. But in this case the narrative is Yi Chen made Lu Feng suffer, hence he "had it coming". I even saw people in comments say when Yi Chen was assaulted again that it was hot. I'd need a psychologist to explain this phenomenon to be cause I don't get it. The actors are indeed fantastic, which is why I'm still watching the show but and while I feel sorry for Lu Feng for being in pain, you don't do what he did to someone you love.
some haters just be spamming without even watching the whole thing
Some weirdos are screaming that this is pseudo incest drama because they can't be bothered to understand the ML and FL's moms are not blood relatives, ML's mom was taken in for a few years by FL's family and they call each other sister because that's what you call each other in Asia. The moms weren't even very in touch once they were adults and the kids didn't grow up together or to consider each other cousins, it's just a title thrown around. But the people refuse to get it.
Incest means blood relatives and they’re not related by blood. In most Asian families, blood relation is what…
It's not pseudo incest here. These leads didn't grow up together. I couldn't watch Speed and Love or whatever the name is but here they didn't grow up to know each other as relatives so you're projecting from the other series.
Ok Lu Feng is not perfect but then what’s with Yichen giving him false hopes and less than 24 hours ago he was…
I wasn't defending YC. I just said Lu Feng needs to stop being obsessed with him because YC doesn't choose him, he chooses everyone over LF. The healthy option is to walk away. Becoming violent is not the answer and it doesn't fix anything. I understand why he's angry, but he needs to remove himself from this situation.
Lu Feng, sweetie, I understand your pain but you're just making everything worse with your rage fits and using violence to "fix" things. The issue is YC is not ready to be in a gay relationship and he doesn't want to break away from his family to be with you. You're too obsessed with him, leave him be and try to move on with your life. He doesn't choose you so you shouldn't choose him back. ...that's what I would say to him if he weren't just a character.
From the obsessive, violent, manipulative, grapist, psycho Lu Feng (regardless of his love-sick status) who really doesn't know to let go, to the horrible controlling, manipulative parents not giving a shit about their kids, to the obsessive, controlling, manipulative didi, to the self-esteem into the abyss Yi Chen that is just a leaf in the wind, letting other people abuse and walk all over him, to him being an indecisive lover who can't stand up to him family, to the sickly/incesty relationship he has with his didi, it's so fucking weird. Not waking up from a coma would have been the better outcome for him. I'd rather die than have to be around those people.