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I saw her first in The Greatest Love, fell in love with her acting and have watched most of her dramas.

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Although is xuxia and not xianxia, I highly recommend Love Between Fairy and Devil, one of the top rated drams here, it was a huge hit in many countries and has romance, action, and original plot.

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Thank you so much!

Thank you, I'll try to read it this weekend

Thank you, I didn't know that her diary, letters and messages were published and if she said that, of course that must be true. One thing about depression I have learned (one of my friends lost her son to suicide), is that a person that wants to commit suicide always say it or write about it. I also feel sad that her utmost thoughts and feelings were published for everybody to read them due to this scandal. About the 3 guys in her life, already nice members have given me information, and that's enough for me. Really, I regret to have read the MDL news about this 3 days ago which triggered my curiosity. I truly don't have time to follow up on anything about celebrities lives and problems, I hardly can keep up with financial and economic news for my work LOL

I'm honored that you shared your story with me, thank you. I also deeply admire both that you could overcome so many difficulties and your positive life outlook. As you said, there are too many important things, usually overlooked by people focused on the negative, superficial, and so on. You seem like a grounded, natural survivor, and I wish you always keep inner peace 💕

Thank you very much for taking your time to tell me. It's very sad. I'm a mother myself, and can't even imagine how parents of children who commit suicide must feel, and the guiltiness for not being able to help. Depression is very serious, the people closest to you should be able to identify the symptoms and offer support but it's often difficult to convince a person to get professional help. As to the request for payment of such huge amount, those people are truly crazy...

So you don't understand written words either and replied anyway, with insults again... Ok, let me tell you. I'm an overworked financial advisor, I only watch dramas and films and read books as a hobby in my very limited free night time. I don't have time to waste reading online celebrities news. I found about this scandal 3 days ago on a MDL news article and thankfully, there are very nice members of MDL that have taken their time to answer my question and save my time. Without insults. If you reply to me again, I'll report your previous insulting replies.

I didn't know, that's horrible. Thank you for explaining!

Please don't insult me. You need to be respectful in order to be respected. My question is a sincere one. Since you didn't give me the information I'm asking for, and if no one else replies, then I'll google about the reasons myself. Also please don't reply to me. I can't stand disrespectful people, which by the way, according to professional psychologists, usually have very low EQ.

Why would he KSH be blamed for her suicide? They broke up in 2020, then Sae Ron had a boyfriend for 2 years and then got married to another guy in 2025. Why nobody mentions the years after the break up, or these 2 guys? Because they're not rich?

A question. Why would he be blamed for her suicide? They broke up in 2020, then Sae Ron had a boyfriend for 2 years and then got married to another guy in 2025. Nobody mentions this, is it because these 2 guys are not famous? Her family don't blame them because they're not rich? Have any of you read anything about it?

I don't think it matters at all the age gap, but the acting quality and chemistry. Also, please be aware that in SK there are a lot of real life couples (including celebrities) with age gaps over 10 and 12 years. Well, in other Asian countries and the US too.

Please read my comment again. I never said it should be normalized. I gave examples to show that every case is different, and that no one has the right to judge others. And then? I got here in this chat a bunch of examples of people "judging" my comment without knowing LOL. I also replied to another one below that didn't understand my comment either (very often people just type the first thing it comes to their mind). My reply: "That's the problem with people assuming and criticizing without base everywhere. My cousin has been happily married for over 20 years, started having kids after she finished college and have 3. My real life examples were to show precisely that no one can judge and criticize typing on their keyboard comfortably from their houses, not knowing what the true story is, or not being part of that story, like you just did. I think that's a very worrisome problem with netizens, who should be worried about their lives instead of giving opinions about what other people do with their lives. Certainly it seems worse for SK harsh netizens."

That's the problem with people assuming and criticizing without base everywhere. My cousin has been happily married for over 20 years, started having kids after she finished college and have 3. My real life examples were to show precisely that no one can judge and criticize typing on their keyboard comfortably from their houses, not knowing what the true story is, or not being part of that story, like you just did. I think that's a very worrisome problem with netizens, who should be worried about their lives instead of giving opinions about what other people do with their lives. Certainly it seems worse for SK harsh netizens.

I'm confused, you're talking about "child" marriages? The age of consent for most countries starts at 14. And if what the family of the Korean girl said it's true, she grew several years past that age during their dating. Also, if I wanted to defend her, I would never say "it is unfair to assume her parents knew". For several years? That's even worse, I mean, awful parenthood. But please let's stop here, my comment referred only to the different cultures, not to personal relationships and even less from SK, where netizens and the media are experts destroying careers and have caused so many suicides.

For some people of different cultures, it's kind of difficult to understand why dating a minor is a scandal for other people. I have a cousin and a close friend who started dating at 14, one of them married at 15 (her husband is 11 years older than her), the other got married at 17 (her husband is 9 years older). No one had the right to criticize or judge them. But as I said, there are all kind of cultures around the world that must be respected. What I personally can't understand is the hypocrisy and/or calculation, since the family of the Korean girl knew she was dating the actor for a long time and it's only recently that they're complaining...

I saw the genres of your completed dramas list and I think that it's not that K-dramas are obsessed with happy endings. All over the world romcoms, romantic dramas, comedies, dramas tagged with romance, all of them are supposed to have happy endings. Therefore, my advice is that you should choose more action, thriller, melo, and the like, so happy endings are less likel to happen. Another tip is to read the chats, there's almost always someone asking if the drama has a happy end and that can guide you. Also, you could choose less K-dramas, and more J-dramas because a lot of J-dramas have sad endings (except romcoms or comedies). I have none in my list because I love happy endings, but you could explore the lists in MDL for' sad ending dramas'.