I just started but being insensitive and inconsiderate towards someone for the sake of comedy is just not funny to me. Or may it's just this show. Wanted to watch bcz of ljw.
Im gonna say something about the chemistry of the main couple here. I loved it so much. It was so perfectly framed to their story and the pacing of the show. Beautiful and peaceful but you can also see the comfort of a couple. Not heatedly passionate because that's not how their story is told. And i love the kisses. Coming from someone who's fussy about them. Either don't kiss or do it like you're not being held hostage. Not looking for slobbering on each other's faces, just natural chemistry. And these two's kisses were so sweet and organic.
Except for the point where they got divorce ( in which he thought was the right thing to do and regretted it later)…
Depends on what you consider as definition of wronged. He hurt her with his words before. And when he wronged her, no reason for that was a justification. And his actions towards Yeli never bear any consequence. His own regretting for 5 days and then forgiven by the person in a moment without a single complaint just downplay his action. Yeli's painful reliving of the past because of his action and him regretting and helping her through it is not a proportional consequence to what he did. Him realizing what he did, regretting and not himself being able to correct it by helping Yeli could've been.
His main reason for divorcing her was bc he thought she married him out of guilt and not just bc he felt wronged by her or was angry with her. SO that whole inference was from his own idea of how much he'd known her up to that point, which is a lot. The only thing remaining was to cut out her heart literally and show him how much she loved him. So my problem is a character like him may never be convinced of someone else's, who has once been a stranger to him, love for him. This started slowly and climaxed at the divorce. After doing all for him his questions like: did you even want to marry me, is, to me, clearly disrespectful and hurtful towards Yeli. And he never realizes that. These were early symptoms of the final outburst. Like yeli's 3rd uncle said, her father never could love her mother bc she was too smart. And he asked her if Mo Xiu Yao would see her the same way if he found out about the truth. To which yeli said she trusts him, although she had her fears. So I can't be sure that the next time Yeli does something that Mo Xiu Yao doesn't agree with, he'll again not hurt her even if with words. And Yeli doesn't deserve that. That's why I don't like his character as a husband for Yeli. All this is just imo.
His main reason for divorcing her was bc he thought she married him out of guilt and not just bc he felt wronged by her or was angry with her. SO that whole inference was from his own idea of how much he'd known her up to that point, which is a lot. The only thing remaining was to cut out her heart literally and show him how much she loved him. So my problem is a character like him may never be convinced of someone else's, who has once been a stranger to him, love for him. This started slowly and climaxed at the divorce. After doing all for him his questions like: did you even want to marry me, is, to me, clearly disrespectful and hurtful towards Yeli. And he never realizes that. These were early symptoms of the final outburst. Like yeli's 3rd uncle said, her father never could love her mother bc she was too smart. And he asked her if Mo Xiu Yao would see her the same way if he found out about the truth. To which yeli said she trusts him, although she had her fears. So I can't be sure that the next time Yeli does something that Mo Xiu Yao doesn't agree with, he'll again not hurt her even if with words. And Yeli doesn't deserve that. That's why I don't like his character as a husband for Yeli. All this is just imo.