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ep 8 not that better 😫i don't think Zhan Wang deserved the confession, maybe Xu Yuan needed to confess his feelings but given Zhan Wang behavior - where he never explains himself or tries to communicate with Xu Yuan, if anything he is always aggressive in his approach as if Xu Yuan behavior & attitude is weird, coming out of nowhere... he has no right to get angry that someone new has come into the picture who is kinder & more communicative with Xu Yuan - who is reacting in kind.
he also NEVER tried to stop the rumors or correct them. when he knows that not just Xu Yuan but his whole family is suffering cause of them. yet Xu Yuan is in the wrong to distance himself??? & what does he do - throw himself a pity party - like plz. so yeah IMO he didn't deserve that confession. if anything since coming into Xu Yuan's life, he has not just complicated sh*t he is gonna make him even more miserable, when his sickness comes to light. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

ep 7 was bleedin infuriating on so many levels. the fiancé turned out to be a spoilt ass immature brat & then people come at me, cause i find fault with moronic female character's when they r written this way 🤷‍♀️
here she is hating on the older brother, cause she can't get angry at her on sibling for dying, so he is the next best thing & if that wasn't enough - cause she suspects her fiancé has developed feelings for another guy, she is coming between them - in the hopes of what? making sure he wont turn gay? cause him being gay means he will kill someone? or get beat so badly by his father he will also go deaf? 🤦‍♀️ ugh...

i kinda agree with u - i didn't read the other's comments, but i could guess that he was painted as the main bad-guy & he isn't. his behavior is understandable if u take into consideration his upbringing; the lack of a mother figure, the abusive father. the need to feel accepted/wanted/loved.

YiChen on the other hand is (in my POV) a sadomasochist, it's not so much Stockholm Syndrome (cause that takes time to kick in) & the sec YiChen woke-up realizing that LuFeng had drugged him, he was elated & rushed to the door to welcome him. cause that was proof that LuFeng still loved him.
even him just accepting LuFeng with all the guys, this shows that there is something that was already there not something that was brought on by his captivity. - not saying he is all bad & doesn't love LuFeng, but there aint one "bad-guy" here.

& if there was a list to be made LuFeng wouldn't be heading it, more like YiChen's younger sibling would be topping that list 😂✌

my POV will be utterly different then almost everyone else - cause IMO the one with the power in the main relationship, is YiChen.
yeah he acts docile & subservient, but he is a sadomasochist, who enjoys pain - both receiving & dishing it out. the one i truly feel sorry for is LuFeng 😂✌

was really looking forward to this - idk why one ep & i am so hooked, but (1) character's saying Sun is "ordinary looking" need their eyes checked & (2) Sun allowing Jay to beat his ass, cause he wasn't supposed to get new scars on his face was whack - like WTF??? i can't fight & i would try to bite Jay's face off, if he just came at me out of the blue - WTF was that scene???? why Sun the thug that went around beating people up, turn into a softy??? annoying writing 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

given Yan Zhi mentioning eternity & lover in the same sentence, i have a feeling this gonna be another Kill to Love, where the happy ending was them meeting in the after life 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️or maybe they should reach for the tooth, so they get a redo? that work too no? or that a one time only deal?? 😂🖐

agree, that when u r hurt one time to many, u find it harder to trust again. & that's why i tried so many freakin times to push through the 2nd ep, on so many different occasions.
but at some point as a viewer what Intha enabled become hard to stomach, cause his letting Oeng act as he did.... didn't make Oeng pause to try & be considerate of someone that was saving his ass financially - even that was too much to ask.... & that's why i called it quits.

but the sec u r assigned as "bottom" u have to become just that 🤷‍♀️

yeah North totally folded - which i didn't think fit his earlier personality, didn't get why the writer went that way. but it is what it is & that's why i couldn't watch their story until the end & only gave it a 2nd chance when the 2nd season started airing - still North is my MVP of this BL from both seasons lol

thank u - even i was wondering WTF was wrong with him & why he was acting this was towards someone, who was basically his savior (the partnership with the bar) let alone wanted to be with him. but he's playing game's - so stupid 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️he is annoying

glad i could help 😊🖐& ironic as wanted to watch tutoryim middleman's love, cause of the actors that were gonna be in it (Tommy & Jimmy) but after the cast change, i didn't bother 😅

i've been trying to watch this (the 2nd ep) for a few days, but i can't seem to get over the "bottoms" selfish, spoilt brat attitude & i gave up cause i don't find it fun or funny.
saw ur comment & as i came to change the statue of this BL on my listing & here's my POV. there others that do like, this so.... 🤷‍♀️

i liked the 1st ep, but i am stuck in the 2nd ep & idk how many chances i've tried to give this (as i really like Intha, Oeng i felt sorry for in the 1st ep) it's getting on my last nerve, as Oeng aint cute or funny. given how his ex dumped him. he should treat Intha who is not just a new (potential) bf, but someone that is offering to partner in his f*cking bar - helping him out(!) when he is down & out - & he keeps pushing him; verbally & physically abusing him, cause he wants to see how much Intha will take? to check if Intha is also an abuser like his ex & hit back??? i don't care what the reasons r, he is coming off a spoilt, self involved f*ck-head that doesn't deserve someone like Intha.

& the fact Intha finds him & his antic's cute is just cause it was written this way - cause sorry Oeng really not that big of a catch - he only has problems & issues that Intha has to come solve. Oeng is a headcase that is giving me a headache & i couldn't even finish the 2nd ep, cause i wanna punch my screen whenever he come on 🤦‍♀️so as much as i wanted to watch a light & fun BL. this is NOT it for me 😑✌

i get u North is my favorite too & that's why the 1st time i watched this - i stopped a few eps into the North love story plot, cause i couldn't with how contorting Johan was

isn't that the majority of them? lol kidding - but i can't generalize as there a few that don't turn out OCP. even if it does seem like most r "crazy' domineering, but that seems like a plus to most BL fans. 😅🖐

didn't read the novel this was adapted from so ur guess is as good as mine 🤷‍♀️

i meant that IMO Johan was so controlling & the only thing he hasn't done (to be the definition of a possessive, toxic bf) was manipulate North into cutting all ties with friends & family.

then write better female character's! i would be calling a younger sibling that act's like a selfish b*tch - A selfish b*tch regardless of gender 😑✌

ur saying "...She's not the one calling him "Jinx". She only mentions it to explain why others call him that...." really? have we watched the same BL? cause even before she came on screen, this moron tossed a book at Zhan Wang's & when he didn't brush it off - she asked her brother if his "jinx" power's were activating - that cute? & she throws that word at her brother - who is she explaining it too? her brother? the mother? like plz

& with all due respect to the mother contributing. Xu Yuan is literally doing back breakin dangerous work, at the docks at night - guess i am the weirdo that if i was in the sister place (in that household), i would NOT ask for a thing. heck i don't see her helping that mother in the restaurant - doing part time work - why?

but as long as she didn't demanded anything, it's ok to take advantage of the other's love? & feelings of obligation!??? she knows the situation they r in, she had to mention her need to learn acting? guess if u don't get it, u never will - but she is manipulative & selfish - i stand by my opinion, she doesn't get a pass cause she is female, young or stupid.

but is it terminal?!? cause the doctor told him to start treatment & he just chose not too. he chose to act like it was & left to seek out his grandmother's home.
so the question is - could it be that it's treatable? wishful thinking on my part?😅🖐idk - time will tell

u know how "they" usually get over this hurdle in BL's, no?!? 🤷‍♀️ they make the "top" the younger character - problem solved 🤦‍♀️