Let me ask: What is it YOU seek? Why are you so obsessed with pedophilia and incest, to the point you invent it…
Could you precisely explain what it is you find so appalling about my questions above?
Is it that I "asked something so serious in a funny way?" Really? Cause I looked at the rules here and "asking something serious in a funny way" is not a violation of any rule I can find. Could you provide a link to the rule I broke please, so I can educate myself? I am glad though, that I made you laugh.
Also, if you really think I am not "in my right mind" and am "sick," should you be attacking me like this? It might put me over the edge and you don't want that on your conscience, do you?
Here's what I think: You encountered a word, "molestation," that set off a firecracker in your brain and you think it has to be censored. You don't know exactly WHY it should be censored, just that it should be because it "triggered" you to have a feeling and you think no one should be able to cause you to have a thought that is uncomfortable to you. You have ZERO awareness of the concept of CONTEXT. A 19-year-old cannot "molest" an 18-year-old.
What, exactly, freaked you out and caused you to lose your mind, begging other people to "report" me to the authorities even though they would already have done so if they thought some rule was violated.
I was nodding along with you until you randomly inserted homosexuality into the topic.Hitting 40 unmarried does…
How do you know he is "happy?" I hope he is, but you have no way of knowing that at all. If my theory is correct, and I have said "IF" and "it is MY opinion," as opposed to a fact all along, then he may well be miserable.
Talent agencies put out so many lies and bullshit and statements written by their PR departments for an actor to pretend to say, that it's astonishing anyone would take such statements on face value.
That is the sorrowful thing about shame and face-saving-based societies like Korea and Japan: A celebrity suffering in silence can't tell anyone or discuss it with anyone because they are terrified it will be leaked to the press, or they are just too embarrassed to be having mental health issues in the first place. People HATE to discuss their emotions and mental health in Korea.
And so everyone remains quiet until the next suicide...
Hmmm...I wonder what is the source of your desperate need for attention in this case.No pedo or incest here. You…
You're talking to the wrong half of this argument. Yeah, I'm fine. How about you?
I guess you missed that I asked if they were "molested" by a person one year older than them, a clear reference to a situation in which there can BE no molestation because no one is pre-pubescent in this story. It's called mockery. Do you think an 18 year-old kissing a 19-year-old is "something "so serious?"
Hmmm...I wonder what is the source of your desperate need for attention in this case.No pedo or incest here. You…
Lord, the ancient Internet thing "you OK man? You need to see a therapist? Did someone not love you as a child...?" designed purely as a misdirect from the lameness of your own position to the implied, unhinged emotionality of mine. It never works.
It's your pedo and incest fantasies I've mentioned, not you personally.
"Pedophile" an exaggeration? No, it's a lie. A falsehood, just like the "incest" bit you were flogging.
Actually, I am one hundred percent OK with what has transpired between the teacher and the student to this point in the story, even if it was happening right in front of me. The only "shit" here is the stuff inside your skull.
Let me ask: What is it YOU seek? Why are you so obsessed with pedophilia and incest, to the point you invent it out of thin air in a drama you're watching? Did some 19 year-old molest/rape/kiss/hug/look at you when you were 18 and you haven't recovered?
There are a lot of resources to help with your unresolved trauma from such a horrendous experience.
What’s sad is that we tend to judge and pile on, without facts. It hurts that he could not envision daylight…
I'd ask that you not throw around that word "WE" quite so loosely. Most people do not pile on like ravenous vampires eager to destroy anyone with talent and grace who dares to be human. I certainly do not do that; I make a point of NOT doing it.
The monsters, mostly anonymous, asshole "netizens" online, are a specific group of people who have far more power with their vicious hate/jealousy than their numbers justify, who do the vile work of character assassination, with total disregard for facts. RUMOR is their life blood. I hate and despise them.
I don't know what Korea needs to do to get a handle on this appalling problem, but I wish much more would be done than currently is. Most importantly, I think its culture must free itself from this fetish/obsession with SHAME, so that people put in a harsh spotlight do not respond by feeling that the existence of even one hundred percent false allegations is somehow their fault and that everyone is looking down on them and there family, thus the only honorable way out is death.
From the U.S., and as a huge fan of Korean cinema and some of its music, the view of some of my favorite actors appearing at funeral after funeral after funeral, is horrific. I am intensely worried about Yoo Ah In, who has been in the Netizen target sites for months, taking this path. God, I hope not. He is such a gifted actor.
Hmmm...I wonder what is the source of your desperate need for attention in this case.No pedo or incest here. You…
No one said you can't have an opinion, just that you use words as they are defined in the dictionary. Your need for attention is "desperate" in that here you are, long after several comments have proven no incest and no pedophilia, but you're now trying to change the subject to one of vague moral disapproval of a teacher "kissing his student," BY ACCIDENT, YOU NINNY! and you've dropped the ridiculous "incest" fantasy altogether.
If no characters in movies or dramas did questionable things, even by accident, they would all be boring as hell. People do questionable, gray-area things in life everyday, ergo characters do questionable things in story-telling all the time.
Is it that I "asked something so serious in a funny way?" Really? Cause I looked at the rules here and "asking something serious in a funny way" is not a violation of any rule I can find. Could you provide a link to the rule I broke please, so I can educate myself? I am glad though, that I made you laugh.
Also, if you really think I am not "in my right mind" and am "sick," should you be attacking me like this? It might put me over the edge and you don't want that on your conscience, do you?
Here's what I think: You encountered a word, "molestation," that set off a firecracker in your brain and you think it has to be censored. You don't know exactly WHY it should be censored, just that it should be because it "triggered" you to have a feeling and you think no one should be able to cause you to have a thought that is uncomfortable to you. You have ZERO awareness of the concept of CONTEXT. A 19-year-old cannot "molest" an 18-year-old.
What, exactly, freaked you out and caused you to lose your mind, begging other people to "report" me to the authorities even though they would already have done so if they thought some rule was violated.
All best to you.
Talent agencies put out so many lies and bullshit and statements written by their PR departments for an actor to pretend to say, that it's astonishing anyone would take such statements on face value.
That is the sorrowful thing about shame and face-saving-based societies like Korea and Japan: A celebrity suffering in silence can't tell anyone or discuss it with anyone because they are terrified it will be leaked to the press, or they are just too embarrassed to be having mental health issues in the first place. People HATE to discuss their emotions and mental health in Korea.
And so everyone remains quiet until the next suicide...
Yeah, I'm fine. How about you?
I guess you missed that I asked if they were "molested" by a person one year older than them, a clear reference to a situation in which there can BE no molestation because no one is pre-pubescent in this story. It's called mockery. Do you think an 18 year-old kissing a 19-year-old is "something "so serious?"
It's your pedo and incest fantasies I've mentioned, not you personally.
"Pedophile" an exaggeration? No, it's a lie. A falsehood, just like the "incest" bit you were flogging.
Actually, I am one hundred percent OK with what has transpired between the teacher and the student to this point in the story, even if it was happening right in front of me. The only "shit" here is the stuff inside your skull.
Let me ask: What is it YOU seek? Why are you so obsessed with pedophilia and incest, to the point you invent it out of thin air in a drama you're watching? Did some 19 year-old molest/rape/kiss/hug/look at you when you were 18 and you haven't recovered?
There are a lot of resources to help with your unresolved trauma from such a horrendous experience.
Have you researched the definitions of "pedophilia" and "incest" yet?
Didn't think so.
I thought it would be powerful, deeply moving, all that stuff, but It's just not happening for me.
Dropped.
The monsters, mostly anonymous, asshole "netizens" online, are a specific group of people who have far more power with their vicious hate/jealousy than their numbers justify, who do the vile work of character assassination, with total disregard for facts. RUMOR is their life blood. I hate and despise them.
I don't know what Korea needs to do to get a handle on this appalling problem, but I wish much more would be done than currently is. Most importantly, I think its culture must free itself from this fetish/obsession with SHAME, so that people put in a harsh spotlight do not respond by feeling that the existence of even one hundred percent false allegations is somehow their fault and that everyone is looking down on them and there family, thus the only honorable way out is death.
From the U.S., and as a huge fan of Korean cinema and some of its music, the view of some of my favorite actors appearing at funeral after funeral after funeral, is horrific. I am intensely worried about Yoo Ah In, who has been in the Netizen target sites for months, taking this path. God, I hope not. He is such a gifted actor.
God, I hate all this.
If no characters in movies or dramas did questionable things, even by accident, they would all be boring as hell. People do questionable, gray-area things in life everyday, ergo characters do questionable things in story-telling all the time.