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Or fight, but not seriously (sorry I love fighting about characters I will do it all day but I'm rarely heated over it).

He's not my favorite (that would be Sand my beloved), but he's consistently in my top 3. I love him.

Eh, I'm not worried about Sand. I fully believe if it goes bad one more time (and I think we all know it will) he'll do the thing he needs to do for himself. I was worried about him for a while and I want him to want better for himself, but he deserves to shoot his shot if that's what he wants. He's young, and the best time to make mistakes in love is when you're young. And he's already shown that he's capable of walking away if he has to.

Ray isn't in love with Sand at all imo. I think he just likes the attention. But that's still Sand's lesson to learn. I think most of us have been there at one point or another - into someone who only gives you the time of day when they're bored, etc. He'll learn, and maybe next time he won't throw his heart away so easily. Or maybe he will who knows, there are people who never stop loving easily out there.

And this might shock some people since i am not shy about my dislike for the character, but of course Ray deserves love. Everyone does. And I hope that when he fucks things up with Sand that he still has at least Mew to be there for him - as a friend, because lbr unless it's maybe years down the road that man will never be in love with him. But that's fine. The love of friends can be just as satisfying.

There's nothing wrong with not seeing it. People keep telling me that Ray loves Sand and I have yet to believe it, lol.

Personally though, if I hadn't already thought so (I did, there's no way Mew'd be losing it quite this spectacularly if he wasn't in love imo), I would have after the kitchen scene in ep 8. Yeah, he has it bad. But again, not everyone will see that and that's okay. And while I like to maintain that they were on a break (Friends fans you know what's up), I also think not everyone will think like that. Mew certainly doesn't. He might decide to forgive or he might not. No way to tell right now.

As for Sand...sometimes it just happens. If love were logical or we only loved those who deserved it then Mew would be able to love Ray because up until last ep he never treated him badly ever (and he has no clue that Ray's been nonstop sniffing around Sand in spite of them dating - yet). But he can't. Because you can't force it where it just isn't. But you also can't stop it once it starts. Sand's gonna have to ride this ride until the end, unfortunately.

I think TopMew almost definitely, BostonNIck and SandRay nope.

They gave TopMew all the time in the world to come back from the betrayal, whereas the other two - okay Nick and Boston maybe, but Ray and Sand have a whole giant fight to get to yet so they're screwed.

Yeah I don't like those either. I think I love Boston so much because he's a guaranteed shit stirrer and I do love that. Like my favorite part of ep five was him dropping bombs into the middle of poor Sand's little fantasy. I am a horrible person, I know. Still, fun. 👿

Oof that's hard. I really love episode 6 for Sand and how cold he got and the whole Top and Sand scene because I think they should make out. I also really enjoyed Ray's rant right up until he called Sand a whore and then decided to drunk drive. And the end! My gosh that was great. Mew MVP goals.

But then I really loved episode 8 too because Sand standing up for himself and the little run Ray did at him and 2nd Freddie (that was comedy guys I don't care) and Mew looking like he wishes he were dead every time Ray tries to initiate the boyfriendly kind of intimacy only to kiss Ray the second he could use it against Top (also hilarious I'm not sorry). And Boston Bostoning and every scene with Mew and Top (sorry I ship it but I'm not really sorry because I love it when shows manage to win me around). I also really liked Sand giving all the hugs but it also made me very sad because who's giving *Sand* any sort of comfort? My poor guy is just dealing with all his shit by himself AND everyone else's to boot. 😭😭😭

I also really liked episode 2. I think I have a thing for even numbered ones lol.

Yes I do too. Sand is my utter favorite I support him even when I think he's being an idiot.

And I also agree that the need have the favorite be without fault is exhausting. It's actually fine if your favorite is the messiest in the messy gay show.

I've liked Top for a while - imo he was never really that bad haha. But yeah, people are still trying to hate on him and say he's awful and I'm just like...what show are you watching? The Ray Show. It's The Ray Show.

Nah, they gave Top something of a sad backstory and people still insist he's worse than Ray AND Boston.

Oh yeah the shipping is definitely mostly because of the actors. But also probably because Sand has become the Designated Support Character. They don't care that every time they interact a little more of the light leaves him. His job is to be there to support Ray, not be happy or healthy.

I think that's 90% of it. Also he's got the tragic backstory.

And by this point there are people who will defend or excuse anything he does, even murder because they're so used to doing it. They're so used to blaming everyone else for his problems that they just keep doing it, lol.

It makes me shake my head a little, but also...I will probably find a way to do this for Sand too, so stones and glass houses, etc. 😂

Yes I just found this out yesterday and on my playlist it went.

It's ฤดูกาล by 25hours.

Man I hope so. And that his character and Sand get it on. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Please we all know whatever happiness they give them they'll just destroy either in the back half or in the very next episode anyway. Those two are moving in a circle it's the same crap every time.

Sand should rebound by sleeping with everyone else in the cast. Mew, Top, Nick, Boston. Collect the set.

Sand and the ex! Sand and the ex! Sand and anyone other than Ray come I have an agenda here and it is Sand x Everyone.

He really really does. I'm so annoyed. As of next ep he will be the only character who hasn't gotten to kiss multiple people and I am Very. Annoyed about it.

The fact that Sand has only ever kissed Ray onscreen hurts me deeply. I support your agenda.

They should all kiss each other.

there are only 8 eps out, so that makes sense.

People blaming Sand is so wild to me.