lovergirl04

it’s definitely about opinion.. on how one would define the difference between a break up and pause. people have different views and I understood the view perfectly from the person above. also im not trying to be rude.. more so im being sarcastic. also sure call it break up because i dont want to argue .. im just telling you what the characters thought of their time apart. ive watched this show 20+ times analyzed almost everything so my level of understanding is great so i will stop replying and let you watch the show. this isn’t a big deal but when you watch you will see why she said not really.

I don’t need to imagine anything to make me feel better. the drama itself make me feel GREAT. call it what you want lol you’re the one arguing here when WE have watched the drama. that scene you’re mentioning is his first time talking to her after being released because he think she’s getting married. I literally said they separated physically because they do. also at this point don’t watch it because you don’t deserve to tbh

I come back to this comment and again I’m shooked .. if she can’t act why would she be nominated for this role? also why would she be casted in a remake of an Oscar winning movie 😬

those suggestions you gave isn’t for this type of drama. this isn’t the drama with the multiple/exaggerated face expressions. also it doesn’t even fit the characteristics of hua zhi. zhang jingyi has never gave expressionless in any of her works.. her eyes speaks a million messages too. I promise I’ve seen expressionless and jingyi has never hit that list

bro they never said the words “let’s break up”. the actual cause of their three year break was his three year prison years. when he got out they were stubborn .. putting their feelings on hold because of fear and the company. they never stopped loving each other, they never moved on to someone else, they were with each other the entire three years apart mentally. they left each other physically but not emotionally.. that’s why the person said they didn’t break up because it’s literally not the case if we’re being honest… I would call it a break. the couple was aware of picking up where they left off because they reconcile and get married the next ep.. to them they were together 7 YEARS meaning THEY don’t acknowledge it as a “break up” so to US they were together 7 YEARS. you just have to watch the drama to understand. the real ones get it .. if you don’t sorry. hope this helps :)

same

also on ur comment below you said the guy wanted nothing to do with the girl is a lie. they were a couple and he put the blame on her just for a stupid position in school

LOL read it and you will be satisfied

this comment was two years ago but I have to check you for that comment of zhu yun blaming the guy for “mental issues”. fang zhi jing is definitely the cause of the girl suicide .. although it’s not just him. him and the girl were dating and they got caught. he was eager to get some type of position for the school so he said she seduced him which was a lie. his lie was the start of her bullying by students/classmates. she was tortured by rumors and zhu yun was the only one by her side. zhu yun went to him to get him to talk to her and he still didn’t.. the friend over heard it. that was the friend last straw. so for you to say he should’ve be blamed is absolutely bs! he turned on his girlfriend and let her be dragged as if he wasn’t in the relationship. It was more than a mental disorder .. depression has causes and hers was bullying bc of him. this is the start of fang zhi jing evilness also this is actually the start of zhu yun depression that people fail to realize. also, you talk about how she suddenly remembers her best friend death.. no she sees him and is broken all over again. this is called GRIEF .. it’s never over. zhu yun emotional state is overlooked in the drama but she wasn’t over her bestfriend death as you could tell when he showed up. even at the end she still feels like she didn’t do enough to avenge her. zhu yun also struggles with self image not knowing what she wants because her mother controls her like a puppet. like i said .. zhu yun mental state is overlooked in the show. when she finally found what she wanted her mom thought she was just boy crazy but i love how she reminded old gao that she wasn’t following li xun because of love but bc she wanted to build the company then reminded him she was TOP 1 in their class with the highest gpa. my girl is smart too and she knows what she wants. also you didn’t mention this but a few other do quite often.. but li xun did not give zhu yun depression. he was her last straw! I think people forget when he was locked up her parents locked her in the room.. I mean who wouldn’t feel like their going crazy and shut down??? again her parents also played a big part too. just like with zhu yun friend.. zhijing, the students AND the school staff played a big part in her death. anyways enjoy the rant.. i watched this show when it first came out and im literally on my 30th rewatch.. pay attention to details

no the guy is her childhood friend but they rarely ever meet. she doesn’t give him a chance and she’s honest ab her feelings. he helps her wanting more but deep down knows she doesn’t feel that way about him. the leads only have eyes for each other and i love that. also her friend doesn’t try to ruin their rs.. he’s a nice guy so don’t worry. he just wants a simple life.. he also likes the zhu yun her mom made.. not zhu yun for who she wants to be which you will notice when you watch.

yess👏🏾👏🏾

this show is so freaking good!! I seen a few people thinking it would be mostly about her getting revenge on her husband but as you can see it’s not. they didnt drag it out and something even crazier happened bro each ep is amazinggg. the acting is so phenomenal

I don’t either friend. I’m guessing when Zhou ye does her makeup similar to jingyi style. Zhou ye does different style like the other day.. she looks like a different person to me. I’m not saying it’s on purpose or anything, they just don’t know her well enough to not get her confused . With or without makeup jingyi and Zhou ye don’t look similar. Jingyi has very unique features which make it easy to differentiate so idk how people get them mixed up.

yeah she’s so talented, an amazing actress and model. also she’s dedicated to learning new things for her roles such as singing , sign language, and dancing.

Idk they don’t look similar to me. Zhou ye does change her makeup styles a lot so that could be it.. because she ends up favoring other celebs too

Yes she does, she was learning two years ago so she should be more fluent now.

i know others replied but I feel like they didn’t explain it correctly. she was a sex addict and in the show her parents put cameras in her room so she wouldn’t masturbate which cause harm to her mentally because being addicted to sex is a form of mental illness. she also gets sexually involved with the guy, he knew somewhat of her illness and decided to take advantage of it because he was a jerk. I don’t think the ml figured I out her mental illness soon enough, hence she was letting him “treat” her but she was actually attracted to him sexually, she can’t control those emotions. her parents locked her up instead of getting her help, she wasn’t able to pleasure her desires which drove her insane, which was expected. she end up taking her life because she felt trapped in her own mind .. this type of illness is overlooked &’ as someone in the mental health field.. im glad they covered this in the drama. I just wish they would have explained it more thoroughly.

oh lol yeah this show is different. he chases her then they separate for 10 years, she gets married then divorced. he dates other girls but then they find a way back to each other through work. this one is more like falling in love with your college lover again .. because he broke up with her because of family problems but l&p break up is something more deeper, kind of heavier so that’s why i say it’s a different plot. also l&p is like college lovers.. they know for sure they want/belong with each other but are stubborn. i think this drama will have more lovey dovey scenes because the plot isn’t as heavy as l&p.

l&p and this plot isn’t similar at all. l&p plot is about college romance and second chances but mostly the way of life. it’s a growth, revenge and romance kind of drama. also the leads didn’t really break up, they kind of resumed where they left off so i say a break. they only had eyes for each other. thwre are similarities but not within the plot. together in college, separated and together again.. also they filmed college scenes in the same place l&p was but that’s about it.

it gets better. I suggest watching the trailers to get a feel of what’s it’s about because for me.. no ep is boring