Dont waste your time, they wont understand.. 🤠Most people are not able to empathize with other genders or…
You won't see my making comments like these non-romance dramas. For most part they are fine, especially since they steer clear of romance.
And if you don't like something, rather than letting it go, it's important to tell people that something is crap. Otherwise, people coming here and reading posts would think this drama is some sort of gem.
but they would read opposing comments and decide whether to watch or not.
So, commenting on crappy dramas is more important than commenting on good dramas. Think of it as free social service.
Dont waste your time, they wont understand.. 🤠Most people are not able to empathize with other genders or…
It's not about liking non-virgin ML's or non-virgin FL's.
it's about variety. Give me characters that surprise me.
There is zero surprise when you watch Kdramas and Cdramas, especially romance dramas. ML is always a pure virgin FL always has boyfriends other than ML. First few episodes are about FL dealing with her relationship with other men, while Ml will silently watch and seethe, Then the FL breaks up with her boyfriends, enter the ML and few other men wooing the FL. Just to garnish, there will be an evil 2FL who the Ml will treat like used toilet paper.
This is basically every Kdrama and Cdrama romance.
People here didn't see the cdramas and kdramas of 1990s era or beginning 2000s era, there were many drama where…
And let's all thank our stars that we don't see those kind of drams anymore, if we did, we should be trashing them, just like how we should be trashing the current Kdrama and Cdrama romances which show exactly opposite.
Again, there is nothing wrong if the ML is a pure virgin and the FL is dating. If this happens randomly and surprises us, it is a good characterization. These makers need to mix and match, have the ML a pure virgin, a playboy, a loser, a nice man etc etc, just like how they take time to write the FL's in such fashion.
As long as there is diverse portrayal ML and FL in dramas, anything they portray is fine. Not pure virgin ML in every drama. That's just shit.
bottom line from your post - you don't seem to have liked those old dramas with ML having other women than FL. Many of us are new to asian dramas and don't carry that baggage, what we see is what we comment on. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Dont waste your time, they wont understand.. 🤠Most people are not able to empathize with other genders or…
every person who engaged in conversation with me, I asked one question.
Name Cdramas and Kdramas where the ML was shown on screen in relationship with another woman & the FL is shown as a pure Virgin who has been in love with ML for years and waiting for him.
People could not name a single drama.
On other hand, you can name 10 cdramas in last 3 months where the FL has been dating other men and the ML is a pure virgin, in love with FL for years and only waiting for her.
Since some of you are being hurt over my comments, let me clarify once again...
If Cdramas and Kdramas were making dramas where the ML was dating women, having free interactions with women & the FL is shown as a pure virgin who only ever loved ML and never looks at another man ever... Imagine most Kdramas and Cdramas being made with the above ML who has had relations with other women and FL is a pure virgin with the only man she ever looks at is the ML...
I would be here trashing them the same way, I am doing this drama and every other Kdrama and Cdrama.
Reason is simple - It's stupid infantile story telling.
If all dramas are made with ML shagging women and FL is pure virgin or if all dramas are made with FL shagging around and ML is a pure virgin.. both patterns get stale and boring after the first few dramas.
After watching 20 of them with the same pattern, it becomes disgusting because by then you would start seeing the misogyny if the FL is shown repeatedly pure virgin and misandry is the ML is shown repeatedly pure virgin.
THAT is the point.
First, it's boring since you know exactly how the ML and FL would be even before you start watching the drama and second it's obvious the ones writing these dramas want a dildo for the ML and not a real man.
Girl just admit you hate women and are a misogynistic and go.Its fucking 2024 and yall still care about what other…
but it's not pathetic that these writers are fantasizing about rich handsome pure virgin men who only ever loved them, while they are ok for the FL to be with other men,
Girl just admit you hate women and are a misogynistic and go.Its fucking 2024 and yall still care about what other…
it's not the man wanting to be a virgin, it;s the female writers of these dramas writing the man being a virgin. while the same female writers write the woman having relationships.
hence the question Girl.
I am just asking if the preference of these woman who want to sleep around is to marry a virgin man?
Girl, the ones being prudish are the writers, they are the ones writing the pure virgin ML.
they are the ones having problem with men having relationships while having no problems with women having relationships.
Girl, being a virgin is not a big deal now a days. No man or woman is looking to marry a virgin Girl.
hence my surprise at watching every Kdrama and Cdrama having a pure virgin ML , while the FL is shown happy having sexual relationships...Girl
Cdrama Female empowerment -> have the FL in relationships with other men, keep the ML as a pure virgin who loved FL since he was a sperm in his daddy's loins and lastly ensure FL has as many body rubbings with other men as possible.
looking at this pure virgin ML trend in Cdramas and Kdramas, Just wondering if Korean and Chinese women like to marry a pure virgin man while they themselves don't want to save themselves for their husband and have physical relations with as many men as possible?
Most Cdrama FL's are cheating pieces of crap. And the dramas have normalized their shitty cheating ways while keeping the ML as a simpy pure virgin without any dignity.
Don't know who to hate more, the cheating piece of crap FL or the gutless ML who is hell bent on saving his virginity for a piece of crap.
Even then, according to C-drama logic, the female lead will get jealous, and the male lead will have to coax her.…
I was talking about the scenarios.
person A meeting their ex who they had relationship for years is significantly different to a person B being chased by a person they had no interest.
First scenario is about 2 people who were in relationship, intimate in every possible way Second scenario is about 2 people who were never in a relationship and have zero intimacy.
the FL should have never asked ML to meet her ex. The only interaction FL should have with her ex is the same interaction she would have with a pig covered in shit.
it's strange Cdramas normalize FL in relationships/married having these kinds of interactions with their ex or other men. Just the disrespect shown to your partner is astonishing.
Even then, according to C-drama logic, the female lead will get jealous, and the male lead will have to coax her.…
She does meet her ex though, after getting married to the ML.
the difference between FL meeting her ex, who she had dated for years, been extremely intimate, both physically and mentally for years and ML being chased by a girl who he has never dated, never liked, never been physically intimate etc etc is huge. You could fill an ocean in the difference between the two scenarios.
This crap of a drama is going exactly like every other Cdrama,
the pure virgin ML after getting together with the FL who had past relationships with other men, is getting his balls crushed and his spine grounded to dust by the FL. The ML is now entering his Simp phase, nicely trained by FL. Slowly the ML will lose his identity, his respect and finally himself and just live or die at the feet of the FL.
I may have refuted you in the past but now I whole heartedly agree with you, you have to upgrade this list. Now…
Compared to TPR, this one is 100 times better.
In TPR, if you reverse the gender, the writers would have made FL take revenge on the ML who cheated, abused, maligned and killed her. Since it's the FL that does all these horrendous things, viewers need to pretend she was not horrendous and also pretend ML was not victim and also somehow pretend believe ML repeating the same crap in next life as well.
does it make sense - No does it make FL getting groped by multiple men all through the drama - yes
The only thing that matters in Cdramas and even many Kdramas is having FL getting it on with as many as possible. Characterization and story line matters naught.
Damn...I was not expecting to see someone else here who shared the same opinion, and even more so that others…
Let's imagine Cdrama FL is writing her profile on a dating website, it would be like this -
Female, 25, with past boyfriends, modern, party girl, heavy drinker, has many close male friends and admirers who will be constantly in close touch.... is looking for a Man, who is a virgin, never dated, never loved any woman, does not ever make eye contact with women, will not have any female close friends, will not mingle with other women, cooks, cleans, 6 feet tall, very successful, handsome and very rich.
Where does the drama show ML being interested in any woman?
On other hand, the drama takes a lot of time and effort to show FL's relationship with another guy.
If ML indeed has any sort of interaction/interest in another woman, the drama would have shown it, just like how it shows FL's relationships with other men.
For most part they are fine, especially since they steer clear of romance.
And if you don't like something, rather than letting it go, it's important to tell people that something is crap.
Otherwise, people coming here and reading posts would think this drama is some sort of gem.
but they would read opposing comments and decide whether to watch or not.
So, commenting on crappy dramas is more important than commenting on good dramas.
Think of it as free social service.
it's about variety.
Give me characters that surprise me.
There is zero surprise when you watch Kdramas and Cdramas, especially romance dramas.
ML is always a pure virgin
FL always has boyfriends other than ML.
First few episodes are about FL dealing with her relationship with other men, while Ml will silently watch and seethe,
Then the FL breaks up with her boyfriends, enter the ML and few other men wooing the FL.
Just to garnish, there will be an evil 2FL who the Ml will treat like used toilet paper.
This is basically every Kdrama and Cdrama romance.
if we did, we should be trashing them, just like how we should be trashing the current Kdrama and Cdrama romances which show exactly opposite.
Again, there is nothing wrong if the ML is a pure virgin and the FL is dating. If this happens randomly and surprises us, it is a good characterization.
These makers need to mix and match, have the ML a pure virgin, a playboy, a loser, a nice man etc etc, just like how they take time to write the FL's in such fashion.
As long as there is diverse portrayal ML and FL in dramas, anything they portray is fine. Not pure virgin ML in every drama. That's just shit.
bottom line from your post - you don't seem to have liked those old dramas with ML having other women than FL. Many of us are new to asian dramas and don't carry that baggage, what we see is what we comment on.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Name Cdramas and Kdramas where the ML was shown on screen in relationship with another woman & the FL is shown as a pure Virgin who has been in love with ML for years and waiting for him.
People could not name a single drama.
On other hand, you can name 10 cdramas in last 3 months where the FL has been dating other men and the ML is a pure virgin, in love with FL for years and only waiting for her.
If Cdramas and Kdramas were making dramas where the ML was dating women, having free interactions with women & the FL is shown as a pure virgin who only ever loved ML and never looks at another man ever...
Imagine most Kdramas and Cdramas being made with the above ML who has had relations with other women and FL is a pure virgin with the only man she ever looks at is the ML...
I would be here trashing them the same way, I am doing this drama and every other Kdrama and Cdrama.
Reason is simple - It's stupid infantile story telling.
If all dramas are made with ML shagging women and FL is pure virgin
or if all dramas are made with FL shagging around and ML is a pure virgin..
both patterns get stale and boring after the first few dramas.
After watching 20 of them with the same pattern, it becomes disgusting because by then you would start seeing the misogyny if the FL is shown repeatedly pure virgin and misandry is the ML is shown repeatedly pure virgin.
THAT is the point.
First, it's boring since you know exactly how the ML and FL would be even before you start watching the drama
and second it's obvious the ones writing these dramas want a dildo for the ML and not a real man.
have been telling you for months now that these romance dramas are creepy..
what kind of a modern woman who dates and has relationships expects her husband to be a pure virgin?
The characterization is creepy, writers are creepy and you have admitted that viewers who like these dramas are creepy as well.
LOL...imagine being a grown person who has dated and expecting a pure virgin partner to marry.
while they are ok for the FL to be with other men,
you see, it's not pathetic at all.
Others are also free to reply to comments or not reply to my comments.
I am not forcing anyone to read my comments or reply to comments.
It's my choice to post, the others also have a choice to ignore my posts.
last thing others should do is give someone advise that is personal.
If you don't like my posts, stop reading them.
it;s the female writers of these dramas writing the man being a virgin.
while the same female writers write the woman having relationships.
hence the question Girl.
I am just asking if the preference of these woman who want to sleep around is to marry a virgin man?
Girl, the ones being prudish are the writers,
they are the ones writing the pure virgin ML.
they are the ones having problem with men having relationships while having no problems with women having relationships.
Girl, being a virgin is not a big deal now a days.
No man or woman is looking to marry a virgin Girl.
hence my surprise at watching every Kdrama and Cdrama having a pure virgin ML , while the FL is shown happy having sexual relationships...Girl
have the FL in relationships with other men, keep the ML as a pure virgin who loved FL since he was a sperm in his daddy's loins and lastly ensure FL has as many body rubbings with other men as possible.
looking at this pure virgin ML trend in Cdramas and Kdramas, Just wondering if Korean and Chinese women like to marry a pure virgin man while they themselves don't want to save themselves for their husband and have physical relations with as many men as possible?
And the dramas have normalized their shitty cheating ways while keeping the ML as a simpy pure virgin without any dignity.
Don't know who to hate more, the cheating piece of crap FL or the gutless ML who is hell bent on saving his virginity for a piece of crap.
person A meeting their ex who they had relationship for years is significantly different to a person B being chased by a person they had no interest.
First scenario is about 2 people who were in relationship, intimate in every possible way
Second scenario is about 2 people who were never in a relationship and have zero intimacy.
the FL should have never asked ML to meet her ex.
The only interaction FL should have with her ex is the same interaction she would have with a pig covered in shit.
it's strange Cdramas normalize FL in relationships/married having these kinds of interactions with their ex or other men.
Just the disrespect shown to your partner is astonishing.
the difference between FL meeting her ex, who she had dated for years, been extremely intimate, both physically and mentally for years
and
ML being chased by a girl who he has never dated, never liked, never been physically intimate etc etc is huge.
You could fill an ocean in the difference between the two scenarios.
the pure virgin ML after getting together with the FL who had past relationships with other men, is getting his balls crushed and his spine grounded to dust by the FL.
The ML is now entering his Simp phase, nicely trained by FL. Slowly the ML will lose his identity, his respect and finally himself and just live or die at the feet of the FL.
throw as many men at FL as possible.
make as many men grope FL as possible.
Most importantly keep the ML pure and virgin.
Cdrama romance industry is absolute shit, not normal shit, the kind of shit you poop out after eating lot of dodgy food.
In TPR, if you reverse the gender, the writers would have made FL take revenge on the ML who cheated, abused, maligned and killed her.
Since it's the FL that does all these horrendous things, viewers need to pretend she was not horrendous and also pretend ML was not victim and also somehow pretend believe ML repeating the same crap in next life as well.
does it make sense - No
does it make FL getting groped by multiple men all through the drama - yes
The only thing that matters in Cdramas and even many Kdramas is having FL getting it on with as many as possible.
Characterization and story line matters naught.
Female, 25, with past boyfriends, modern, party girl, heavy drinker, has many close male friends and admirers who will be constantly in close touch....
is looking for a Man, who is a virgin, never dated, never loved any woman, does not ever make eye contact with women, will not have any female close friends, will not mingle with other women, cooks, cleans, 6 feet tall, very successful, handsome and very rich.
On other hand, the drama takes a lot of time and effort to show FL's relationship with another guy.
If ML indeed has any sort of interaction/interest in another woman, the drama would have shown it, just like how it shows FL's relationships with other men.